Àwùjọ Wa (Our Society)

Parenting, child upbringing.

A child testified that he would have turned out to be a miscreant/thug, if not for the beating and punishment he got from his parents. Another child developed a hatred for her mother as a result of memories of the beating she had from her. Today on the program Àwùjọ wa (Our Society), we discussed Disciplinary Measures in child upbringing: should beating be condoned? As both guests were not on the...

"She talks too much, I can't cope in such a relationship, we aren't compatible". "He's too quiet, it means he's dangerous and just pretending to be a calm man, I can't marry such a man". Why shouldn't I talk freely insight of whom I called a lover? I asked, if being talkative is a red flag in a relationship or not? Is it every quiet person that hides their true color to get a man or woman? What if...

It's all about women dressing.

Love is blind as they say, but I say love is not blind. We humans just decide to turn a blind eye to some important things in our relationship. Red flags would have been showcasing and drifting but we claim to be in love and act as blind to it also claim to change our partner after marriage! The question is "Would it change after marriage?" What I take or opine to be a red flag in my relationship...

Marriage is not a do or die affairs. Relationship is not by force

Ladies find it so difficult to express themselves to the man they love, thinking such a man would take advantage of them! Before you confess your love think about it twice! Ask yourself if he's matured enough to handle it. I expressed myself to my crush and it ends well. I'm happy I did it!

"She has been a great partner since we met, we live in the same neighborhood and always pass by. We started dating not up to two months and I told my mother about her and said she likes her and claimed the lady has always been on her best behavior ever since she knew her. Just last week my mum said my girlfriend doesn't greet her well enough! Oh, someone I just told you about and nothing like form...

Dating involves two persons, there's a need to define your relationship for you to know your stand. Don't get served breakfast all the time! Red flags are obvious. If you're not ready for marriage stay away from dating someone whos ready! Don't play with people's emotions and feelings, it hurts. Let your intentions be clear to your partner. If you want to have a fun look for someone you're both re...

It's about a beautiful lady who has been dating a man for years and believes sex can hold the man because she never denied him sex. She always satisfies him. The question is when you're not married while courting does it mean your body belongs to your man? Can't you say NO!? Satisfying a man you're not married to makes a harlot. The guy broke up with the lady when he said he's not ready for any co...

I was just 23 when I married my husband. Love is blind as they do claim but Love is not blind. We humans decided to turn a blind eye to some vital things in the name of LOVE. We never bothered to know our genotype neither our blood group. After two years, we were blessed with a son which became our source of sorrow. We started spending and spending on his health, he was a sickle cell as we were to...

Today's Gist 🥰 Can you allow your parents to choose your future partner for you? My parents are always not in support of my relationship. There's a girl I love so much, I introduced her to my parent they said No! I continued with her, we had our first child but gave up the ghost! The second child... Died after birth! The lady left me 😥 I met another charming woman, we started well but my parent...

Independence Day in Nigeria. Should we continue to celebrate Nigeria? Why are we celebrating Nigeria? Are we Celebrating Nigeria or Nigerian? I love my fatherland ❤️, I pledge to Nigeria my country, to be faithful loyal, and honest. To serve Nigeria with all my strength, to defend our unity and uphold our honor and glory, So help God. Are we working with this oath? We complain about everything wit...

What has been your experience when it comes to checking your partner's phone? Can you leave your phone with your lover or not? Is it my phone, your phone, or our phone? A lot of people shared their experiences when it comes to checking their lover's phones. But come to think of it, is it normal? We call ourselves lovers, why must you have something that will hurt be on your phone? I imagine what p...

It's about two lovers, the lady gave the phone to his man after he requested to use it to watch films. The guy refused to return the phone to the lady and he started abusing the lady. She reiterated and insulted him . The guy threatened to deal with the lady in all ways. The guy wasn't the one that got her the phone, they never had any intimacy and the lady happened to be a decent young innocent o...

It's about my best friend and my fiance. They've been having a sexual relationship since I introduced them to each other. I felt betrayed! I don't think I can cope with being a cheater in my marriage.

It's about the experience of going out with a guy to have fun but he disappeared not to pay my bill. I don't know if you've had such experience, how did you react to it? Did you pay or got embarrassed?