Awaken Your Inner Awesomeness with Melissa Oatman-A daily dose of spirituality and self improvement

Are you going through the process of healing right now?  Are you frustrated by the lack of progress you feel?  The Universe wants you to have patience with yourself. You are learning, growing, and evolving every day. It takes time to heal, and you shouldn’t allow yourself to be frustrated or deterred by setbacks. You are doing just fine. You’re exactly where you are supposed to be.  Contact me: ht...

Do you constantly compare yourself to others?  Do you feel like you are a failure if you are not at the same spot in life as someone else?  The Universe is asking you to stop doing that. There is no need to compare your journey in life to anyone else’s. Just as you wouldn’t compare an apple to an orange, you are a unique individual and should not be compared to any other individual. Focus on your...

Do you take bold risks in life, or do you play it safe?  Do you do the same thing over and over expecting different results? Isn’t that the definition of insanity. How can awesome things happen to you in life if you keep playing it safe? The Universe wants you to be creative, take risks, and be bold. All great people made history by being unique and thinking outside of the box. What are you waitin...

How do you react when unexpected bills come in?  Do you realize that the Universe has your back and will provide, or do you freak out and have a panic attack?  The Universe always matches our energy, so when we focus on lack, fear, and negativity, we call in more of that. When we focus on gratitude, peace, and joy, we call in more things that bring us that. We have a choice every day in how we rea...

Self is a word that many people struggle to define. Who am I truly?  Sometimes we get so caught up in life that we don’t really know who we are anymore. It is so important to know what truly makes you happy because you deserve to live a life that makes you happy. If you don’t even know what would make your soul sing anymore, then it’s time you find out. It’s time you decide to live a life that you...

Many people ask me, “How do I find my soulmate?”  I tell them that if they want to find love, they have to be love. You have to love yourself first before you can truly call in authentic love. When you change your vibration, everything changes. When you work on loving yourself, you can’t help but attract more love in your life. You deserve to be loved, especially by your own self.  Contact me: htt...

Do you have a desire to achieve some dream, but you keep letting fear hold you back?  The Universe is asking you to forget the fear, be bold, and move forward. Fear is really just our ego telling us lies. It’s time to tell your ego to take a hike. You have everything you need right now to be successful. You just have to remember who you are and who is behind you. Be bold in your life. That’s the o...

Did you know that you can inspire others daily just by being you?  Every thing we say and every action we take has the potential to create a positive ripple effect. It doesn’t even take much. Even just a kind word or a smile makes a world of difference. Be the difference you wish to see in the world.  Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail 636-748-4943 Connect with me: https:/...

Have you had a crazy busy summer?  I know I have, and the Universe is saying that it’s time to rest. It’s time to start telling others no so that you can tell yourself yes. We get so busy taking care of others that we forget to take care of ourselves. Self-care is super important and should never be neglected. You will burn out if you keep going. Take time out each day for yourself. You deserve it...

Are you stepping forward into your power?  Do you have a strong desire to make changes in your life, but you just can’t seem to move?  The Universe is asking you to have faith that you are being Divinely guided, and you have everything you need to be successful. All you have to do is move your feet. Stop allowing fear to keep you stuck. The Universe wants to work with you, not against you. It’s ti...

Are you wondering where your miracles are?  Where are those things that you prayed so hard for?  The Universe is asking you to have faith. Everything works out in Divine timing. What’s meant for you will never pass you by. Sometimes there are things going on behind the scenes that you don’t even know about. Trust and have faith that the Universe is working behind the scenes on your behalf. Your mi...

Have you ever seen ancient Japanese pottery?  The interesting thing about it is that they take broken pottery and put it back together with gold. This broken pottery becomes stronger and more beautiful than ever. The same happens with us when we pick the broken pieces up from our lives and carry on. We allow the light to fill in the cracks and make us even more beautiful than ever. We have a choic...

The Universe wants you to know that it is time to start experiencing more joy in your life. Too often we are burdened by the busyness of our day to day lives, and we forget how to let go, have fun, and enjoy our time on this Earth. Don’t neglect your own happiness today. Take care of yourself. You deserve to live a joy filled life.  Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail 636-7...

What does your vision for your life look like? Are the activities you are taking on supporting that vision, or are you taking on responsibilities that are distracting you from it?  The Universe is asking you today to get very clear about what it is you want to see in your life, and then ask yourself, “Am I doing things that will support the kind of life I want to live?” Contact me: https://melissa...

I recently read an article on CNN about a good deed that was done by some young people. What should have been a feel good story turned into a negative nightmare because of the comments that some cynical people left. I think we need to see more of these positive stories and less of the negative comments. Every day we have a choice to make a positive or negative impact on our world. It starts with u...

Traveling abroad throughout the years has opened my eyes to many things. One important lesson that I have learned is how to appreciate the differences in people and cultures. Our differences  are what make our world so unique and interesting. We shouldn’t be afraid of someone’s differences. We should celebrate them.    Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail 636-748-4943 Connec...

I have been so fortunate to take my family and students to Europe, and I have learned so much. One very valuable lesson that I learned is how important it is to be fully present each moment of your life. We waste so much of our time worrying about a part we can’t change or a future we don’t have much control over. It’s time to stop doing that. It’s time to start living each day as if every moment...

I pulled a card for the collective today. I was guided to talk to you about fear. Everything you want is on the other side of fear, for many of you. I talk to you about how I deal with fear and how I have been able to over come things the are fearful to me. Hint: It has nothing to do with being "fearless".  Email Heather:  Heather@HeatherDoran. Biz Message Heather on Facebook:  https://www.faceboo...

Do you feel like your prayers aren't answered?  Do you feel like God is ignoring you?  In today's episode, I talk about how important it is to call on your spiritual team, and to pray with unwavering faith.  God not only hears your prayers, but he answers them too.  The answer just may not come in the form you expected.  God always says, 'Yes; Yes, but not now; or No, because I have something much...

Heather is back as a guest for the podcast. Today we are talking about beliefs. What do you believe about your goal? Do you believe it is possible for you to have? When you step into fully believing your goal is coming, you are creating alignment for your goal to come to you. Believing is a key step to creating the live you love. Email Heather:  Heather@HeatherDoran. Biz Message Heather on Faceboo...

When you learn how to let go of control and surrender, life becomes much easier. Pray for what you want, but surrender the outcome. Sometimes we don’t think big enough. God has bigger plans for us. When you learn how to totally surrender, peace follows.  Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail.com 636-748-4943 Connect with me: https://www.facebook.com/reikiwithlissa/

Today's episode is lead by guest host Heather Doran. The topic today is about confidence. Many time we are lead to believe that confidence will just come to us. Once we have confidence we will be able to ... [fill in the blank]. Instead confidence is not a natural thing we all have. There are steps to gaining confidence, so that we can begin to live our best life and manifest our dreams. Tune in t...

Do you know how deeply loved and valued you are?  Many of us forget that. We go through life putting everyone else’s needs ahead of our own. We let people drain us of our time, our energy, and sometimes even our finances. It is so important to set healthy boundaries with people in your life. When you say no to others, you are saying yes to yourself. It’s time to start putting yourself first, my lo...

Today's episode is lead by Guest Host Heather Doran.  Many times in life you can't seem to find happiness about a situation. No matter what you do, you are not happy and all you see is frustration. We know that we can't manifest our best life if we are stuck in a low vibration state (frustration, fear, lack, unhappiness, etc.).  Instead of trying to force yourself to be happy, go to gratitude. Bec...

Are you allowing your fears to keep you stuck?  It’s ok to acknowledge that you have fears. Invite them to tea, and then kindly let them leave. Don’t allow them to become overnight guests. It is so important that you face your fears and learn how to change your thoughts about them.   Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail.com 636-748-4943 Connect with me: https://www.facebook....