Autism Parenting Secrets

Welcome to Episode 65 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  The topic this week is about taking-action .   Figuring out what to do is hard enough, but then actually taking action can be even more challenging.   And one of the biggest traps that a parent can fall into is…  waiting for permission. While it’s useful to seek guidance and assistance, needing someone else’s approval isn’t required. It can s...

Welcome to Episode 64 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  The topic this week is Mother Nature .  Specifically, we’re talking about natural therapies . So many people dismiss them as inferior to conventional medicine.  But the truth is that they can be as effective or even more effective. And generally, the potential for negative side effects is less. So if you want to be aware of more options to su...

Welcome to Episode 63 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  The topic this week is decision-making . You’re being called to navigate this journey for your child.  They’re counting on you. What’s required?   Ownership.   Accountability.   Leadership. You want to get better and better.  And you can. But one of the first steps is to claim the role of CEO. If not for you, then for your child.  This choice...

Welcome to Episode 62 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  This week, Cass and Len had a fantastic conversation with Perry Louis Fields and Ben Fowler.  They are the founders of Frau Fowler , an innovative oral care company that goes beyond non-toxic , using only food-grade ingredients. This is really important because while most people appreciate that oral health matters, the truth is it matters muc...

Welcome to Episode 61 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  The topic this week is habits . We all have them - some are supportive and some don’t help. They’re a key part of your operating system.   Just like a smartphone - you have an O.S. It runs everything and it’s working in the background. If you have a way of operating - it will appear in all facets of your life.  That’s good news for supportive...

Welcome to Episode 60 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  This week Len focuses on a single truth. Researching, planning, and strategizing are all great.  But sometimes we fool ourselves into thinking that being busy is progress.   It’s useful - but it means nothing unless you do something with it. For meaningful change, for yourself or your child…. Your ACTION Is Required   You'll Discover: YOUR Ac...

Welcome to Episode 59 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Cass and Len dive into food.  So many parents understand that food makes a difference.  For themselves and especially for their child on the spectrum. Eating clean is all about reducing inflammation - in the gut, body and brain. Going “gluten-free” is often the first special diet people try.  And it can make a huge difference...

Welcome to Episode 58 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Cass and Len share some real-life examples about things not going your way. If you’re taking a stand for your child, you WILL piss some people off.   Family and friends often don’t get it.  Naysayers are around every corner. But that’s ok.  It comes with the territory. You can either be okay with disapproval and move forward...

Welcome to Autism Parenting Secrets.  This week’s episode is about invisible toxins.   Excessive exposure to electromagnetic fields (EMFs) is a concern for everyone.  And children on the autism spectrum might be even more susceptible to harm. Our guest is Dave Stetzer of Stetzer Electric.  Dave is a prominent figure in this field and has deep expertise on radio wave sickness - now known as dirty e...

Welcome to Episode 56 of Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Mary Anne Tierney joins Cass and Len to discuss EMFs (electromagnetic fields). Mary Anne is a certified Building Biologist and Electromagnetic Radiation Specialist certified by the Building Biology Institute (BBI),  Since 2011, she has been measuring, mitigating, and educating on the health effects of EMFs. With a background as a...

Welcome to Episode 55 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  This episode is all about the importance of focusing on the Root Cause.  If the aim is lasting results, today’s topic is an important one. It’s easy to get caught up in quick fixes.  To see improvements fast.  For your child, this may include reducing or stopping problem behaviors.   But in addition to doing what you can tactically, it’s impo...

Welcome to Episode 54 of the Autism Parenting Secrets. Sometimes we tell ourselves stories that seem right. But in truth, they disempower us. They don't help. One of those stories is some variation of… “I've done it all, and nothing has worked” “There's nothing more that I can do to help my child” “I’ve tried everything” We hear this all the time from other parents and we told ourselves this story...

Welcome to Episode 53 of the Autism Parenting Secrets. This is the first episode of Autism Parenting Secrets that is NOT intended for a parent of a child with autism. If you’re our usual listener and you’re a parent - this is for someone close to you. Your spouse or partner Your parents or in-laws (you child’s grandparents) Your siblings, aunts, uncles... Your close friends We have a message for t...

Welcome to Episode 52 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  Parenting is beautiful but it can also feel maddening, confusing, and all-consuming.   Especially parenting a child with autism, it’s a very different experience.  And it can feel so draining at times.   In this episode, Cass and Len talk about the mother of all energy boosts . A practice you can do anytime and as often as you like.   It’s so...

Welcome to Episode 51 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Len explores how intelligence is about much more than IQ. There are many, many more ‘intelligences’ that matter as much or even more than IQ. Emotional Intelligence and Heart Intelligence are two examples.   They matter.  Especially for parents of a child on the autism spectrum. The good news is that parents already have thes...

Welcome to Episode 50 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Cass and Len had a great conversation with Brian Bradley from The Egoscue Method. It’s an approach to wellness that assesses posture and creates personalized exercises that put the body back into balance. Brian’s been studying “true” biomechanics and human anatomy using The Egoscue Method for more than 25 years.  As the Postu...

Welcome to Episode 49 of the Autism Parenting Secrets. In this episode, the one and only Kute Blackson joins us for a beautiful exploration of the power of surrender. Kute is a powerhouse! He’s an inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He‘s the author of the national bestselling book You. Are. The. One. and the just-released The Magic of Surrender. He’s widely considered the next gene...

Welcome to Episode 48 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  This week, Len talks about the trap of feeling like you’re sacrificing for your child. It was a trap he fell into and now he shares why it doesn’t help and how parents can avoid it. It’s common and understandable.   So many things that parents value disappear soon after their child’s diagnosis.  Leisure time, socializing with friends, hobbies...

Welcome to Episode 47 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  This week, Cass and Len explore the simple concept of: Ready. Aim. Fire.  It’s a universally accepted sequence that gets results.  But parents of a child often don’t follow this sequence. Often, parents start  taking action (Fire) before they’re prepared (Ready) and before they have clear targets (Aim). The sequence matters because there are...

Welcome to Episode 46 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.    In this episode, Len explores the concept of time .    Part of the autism overwhelm is the feeling that you don’t have enough time for all the things you need to do.   The challenges, demands and pressures are real.  And at times they can feel all-consuming .   But the truth is that if you get clear on what’s important, you actually do have...

Welcome to Episode 45 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.    This week, Cass and Len sat down with Dr. Lawrence Palevsky.  He cares deeply and has extensive experience supporting children with neurodevelopmental differences.     Dr. Palevsky is a NYS licensed pediatrician, who utilizes a holistic approach to children’s wellness.  He’s a diplomate of the American Board of Integrative Holistic Medicine...

Welcome to Episode 44 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Cass and Len address the importance of Self-Care.   You cannot show up as your best-self to help your child if you’re running on fumes .   Caring for yourself is essential .  If you won’t do it for yourself, do it for your child! There are so many ways a parent can care for themselves and none of them are selfish.   Diet and...

Welcome to Episode 43 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.  In this episode, Len explores one concept that was a huge game-changer in his life.   It’s so common to have inner thoughts that criticize.  But if that inner critic is always on it can take a huge toll over time.   Even though we think negative self-talk helps motivate us to get better.  The simple truth is that it doesn’t.  It actually dise...

Welcome to Episode 42 of the Autism Parenting Secrets.    In this episode, Cass and Len share a tool that helps parents “size-up” the people around them and their child.     Providing a supportive environment for a child with autism is incredibly important.  And just like environmental hazards like chemicals and poisons, people can (and often are) be toxic.   The good news is parents can control m...

Welcome to Episode 41 of the Autism Parenting Secrets. In this episode, Cass and Len explain why creating of timeline of events makes a huge difference. With a small investment of time, any parent can experience a greater sense of control by having important health data in one place. So if you want to experience greater empowerment and a heightened sense of control on your journey with your child,...