Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker

Secrets aren't a good thing.  What is hidden will eventually be exposed.  Do you practice honesty and openness in your relationship? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

Being grumpy, being anxious, being angry, or being scared tends to bend the intent of our spoken message.  Without trusting the Holy Spirit to give you the courage to say the right words, you will almost every time, walk into a situation you'd rather not be in.  Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

At school, children refrain from speaking until permission is granted.  At home, a child is prohibited from speaking in a disrespectful tone or voice.  What about you?  What rules do you follow in everyday conversation? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

Search talk doesn't have to be offensive, and avoiding a defensive attitude in any conversation isn't always an easy task.  Have you ever found yourself in an uncomfortable spot during a conversation?  Maybe you're not approaching that conversation with the heart of God at its center. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

Search talk is a term you might not have heard, but exercising search talk brings clues to help overcome obstacles.  Do this and wait patiently until you are confident in how God wants you to proceed. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

With search talk, we explore solutions to problems, and we do this as one.  That means both sides need to understand the benefits.  Do you? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

Word have importance and give meaning and purpose to communication, but many of us have perfectly good ears, but we are still unable to hear.  Have you ever experienced that in your life? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

There are two sides to silence; It can be used to keep someone off balance.  That is destructive.  But silence can also be used for listening.  How have you used "silence" in your life? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

When we listen intently to what lies beneath the spoken word, we are now able to hear the message.  Without hearing, there is no resolution to the issue.

Okay, we're all guilty of this.  We are hearing what a person is saying, but we are preoccupied with our own issues and thoughts and we miss the opportunity to really hear what the other person is saying.  It isn't easy to change this behavior, but it is possible. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

We many times find the need to formulate an answer or a response BEFORE we completely understand the issue.  We forgot to listen.  Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

To be clearly understood, we must first speak in straightforward language.  But it's hard to successfully complete a conversation when your thoughts race ahead to formulate a response.  Do you ever have trouble HEARING what the other person is saying? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voiceover coaching and podcast studio .

"It's not what goes into your mouth that defiles you, you are polluted by the words that come out of your mouth".  That's Matthew 15: 11.  Applying God's way paves a path to adding courage to your speech and peace with God and yourself.  So how do you handle the words that define your character? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, A Houston voice over coaching and podcast stu...

The heart of the Godly thinks carefully before speaking.  Our world is filled with sarcasm and hate.  It's an unfortunate and easy way out when we want to express frustration and anger.  But you know what, God's way is a better way. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voice over coaching and podcast studio .

Our souls are nourished when we project kindness, and destroyed when we project cruelty.  We are all capable of those behaviors.  By turning first to Christ Jesus, we discover what He expects of us.  Note to self; open Bible first, engage in conversation, second.

Fight language creates fear and forces compliance, but there is a better way, from Proverbs 15.  Where do you begin when conflict arises? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voice over coaching and podcast studio .

Toddlers learn so much from us.  They learn the language, how to express emotions, how to engage with others.  One of the toughest and most important aspects of parenting is HOW we manage to express and teach those skills.  Do you sometimes doubt how well you are doing? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voice over coaching and podcast studio .

God communicated that we are to love others as we love ourselves.  Loving God creates a spirit of generosity that enhances our ability to bond and communicate.  Have you created that bond with God? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voice over coaching and podcast studio .

Blame, and criticism is sometimes used to deflate another person's self-esteem.  But those harsh words will immediately turn around and damage your integrity and self-respect.  There is another way to communicate. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover training and podcast studio .

We are all capable of blaming and criticizing, and we often fall into that trap, which leads to communication break-down and eventually, failure.  There is a better way, and it begins by petitioning God for wisdom and insight.  If you have not started first with a conversation with God, walk away before speaking. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover trainin...

God's word gives us a method for talking together in a way that's anchored in respect and care for the other person.  Seek his wisdom and discover how good communication can have positive results. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover training and podcast studio .

Jesus is always aware of our needs.  He often put aside his role as teacher, preacher and healer, to listen.  Before initiating any conversation, listen to Jesus for direction. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover training and podcast studio .

Emotions get in the way of good communication, and in many cases, result in communication break-down.  The way you approach conversation has a direct effect on the results.  Do you know where to begin? Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover training and podcast studio .

Distractions prevent important issues from being addressed, which leaves a relationship stranded in emotional distance.  Instead, speak the truth in a spirit of love.  That's what God intended for us to do. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover training and podcast studio .

Trust God with your thoughts and words.  God understands us better than we know ourselves and loves us with an unfailing love.  He is the ultimate source directing our lives daily. Attitudes/Answers is an audio production of Radio Lounge, a Houston voiceover training and podcast studio .