Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker

Anger doesn't have to take up a permanent residence in our heart and mind.  When it does, it can destroy us.  Like a release valve on a steam engine, letting off steam in a beneficial way give us a peace place to resolve any and all issues.

Conflict is unavoidable.  It takes courage and maturity to cross that barrier and end up on the side of resolution.  Here is how to make that happen.

It IS possible to know someone for a lifetime and not know them personally.  So, how much of you, do you share with others?

So, this world is a pretty tough place to exist.  But every day there is an opportunity discover the things in our world that are beneficial and give us a sense of hope and peace.  Tough?  You bet.  Good?  Everyday.

Yeah, we will all face storms, health issues and days that seem overwhelming.  Gratitude is optimism and hope for the future, even when it seems like tomorrow will never come.  But it always does.

God never promised a life void of troubles.  He did give us his promise comfort when the hassles of life cause pain and trouble.  That's a realistic promise you can count on.

Life sometimes gets in the way of our appreciation of what God has provided.  When that happens, take a step back and reflect simply on what He did for us.  

We love to be rewarded for expressions of hard work, and doing good deeds.  It's never a quick $20 for helping someone stranded on the side of the road.  Your rewards come much later.  Be patient.

Self-made...not really.  God-made...really.  People in our lives give us an assist in life and that assist is also God related, even when it comes from a good friend.  God uses others in our lives to make that happen...really.

When privilege is applied to relationships, expressions of gratitude may be replaced by demands.  Don't let yourself be put into that position.  Keep it simple, and keep your eyes focused on God.  

You might not have all you want, but the key is being contented with what God provides.  It's not about more, it's more about what you need. And that need is always taken care of, isn't it?

The answer is, yes.  A simple "thank you".  A gesture of looking beyond self, and focusing on others.  School teaches the stuff they need to succeed, but YOU are the teacher of gratitude.

Parents mistakenly believe that children feel worthwhile if they have everything they want.  As parents we do our best, but understanding that giving them everything has a polar opposite effect.  Have you ever had that challenge?

It's all about an attitude of gratitude.  The little things like your first cup of coffee, your toothbrush and the mirror that helps you prepare for the day are all provisions from God.  Little things that make a big difference.  

It isn't easy maintaining an attitude of thanksgiving, because we need or want so much.  Here's a start.  Start by counting your blessings and let the good feelings come your way.  It's true.

Gratitude is a simple act, really.  Focus on God's love, mercy, and goodness.  Nothing more, nothing less.

Like the song says "grab your coat and get your hat, leave your worries on the doorstep".  Not so easy to do, is it?

Worry is like a speed bump and we see what can go wrong.  Worry distorts reality.  By trusting God, because he is on your side, whatever the needs are, a solution will be provided.  It's true.

Indifference indicates an attitude of apathy or lack of feelings.  God did not design you to fail or suffer mediocrity.  Trust his word to pull you back and redirect your life. 

Indifference is dangerous because it can quickly become permanent.  God is willing to give you a fresh start, with a clean heart.  All you have to do is ask.

Procrastination has the power to blunt your conscience.  With that, guilt and shame looses its intensity.  Ask God to replace indifference with a renewed love for Jesus Christ.

Did you ever not feel guilty for failing to be responsible?  God's message is, confess, repent, seek forgiveness and make amends.  Sounds simple, but it's not always easy.

Wait for it...procrastination leads to failure and disaster.  Purpose, through God can turn things around...today.

"Tomorrow, every fault will be corrected, yet tomorrow never comes."  The words of Benjamin Franklin.  Smart guy.  How about you.  Does something need to be done...today?

Time, your time, is a gift from God.  It is written, "there is a time for everything, a season for every activity under the sun".  So, let every minute become a precious gift.  Use it wisely and you will be richly blessed.