Ask Mom and Dad

Picking up from last weeks podcast, "Ask Mom and Dad," hosts Greg and Tonya dive into the evolving landscape of marriage, focusing on the decline in overall divorce rates juxtaposed with the rise of "gray divorces" among couples married over 25 years. They explore contributing factors like economic challenges, shifting cultural norms, and the impact of empty nest syndrome, drawing from personal an...

In this episode, Greg and Tonya focus on the changing landscape of marriage in America, highlighting recent statistics on divorce and marital stability. They discuss how divorce rates have been declining and how the long-quoted idea that “half of all marriages end in divorce” no longer reflects current trends. They reflect on cultural shifts that may be contributing to healthier and longer-lasting...

In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya dive into the importance of embracing purpose each and every day,  understanding God’s unique call on each person’s life. Drawing from real-life moments, they explore how small, faithful decisions can align with God’s greater story—even when life feels mundane or messy. They reflect on stories from their own family and ministry, unpack how God use...

In this episode of Ask Mom & Dad, the conversation journeys from disaster headlines to spiritual rhythms—landing squarely on the meaning and misuse of Sabbath rest. Greg and Tonya reflect on how sacred symbols, like the bronze serpent or even a church building, can drift into idolatry when we lose sight of their purpose. Then they dive into what Sabbath was meant to be: a gift from God, not a...

In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya continue the conversation on one of the most vital aspects of faith: learning to recognize God's voice. Picking up where last week left off, they go deeper into the everyday struggle of hearing God in the midst of noise, emotion, and spiritual confusion. Is it really God speaking—or just your own thoughts, feelings, or stress? How do you make spac...

🎧 Podcast Description In this special Fourth of July episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg explores the powerful connection between the early church in Acts and the founding of America. Why did the colonists risk everything for liberty? What role did faith, conscience, and truth play in the birth of a nation? And how does the boldness of the apostles — who said, “We must obey God rather than men” — mi...

In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and his co-host revisit previous conversations to tackle one of the most common — and personal — spiritual questions: How do we hear God’s voice? They explore the tension between practical wisdom and divine guidance, how cultural expectations can cloud spiritual clarity, and why following God is ultimately about relationship, not rigid rules. With honesty a...

In this episode of Ask Mom & Dad, we dive into a deep (and surprisingly fun) discussion about money, savings, tithing, and trust. Should Christians build up savings accounts, or does that reveal a lack of faith? How do we balance being wise stewards with living generously? What does the Bible really say about tithing and offerings? Drawing from Proverbs 21, Psalm 112, and the teachings of Jesu...

In this episode of Ask, Mom and Dad , the conversation goes deeper into what it means to trust God in seasons of uncertainty. From shifting roles in ministry to personal identity and emotional growth, Greg and Tonya reflect on how to move forward when clarity is lacking and control is out of reach. Topics include: Wrestling with God in grief and transition Letting go of what was in order to receiv...

In this episode of Ask, Mom and Dad , we talk about what it means to face change with faith. From the history of a 180+ year-old church to parenting adult children, we reflect on how God uses transition to shape us. Topics include: How churches adapt for future generations Trusting God’s guidance when the way isn’t clear Moving from fear to faith in leadership Walking with others through change—bo...

In this episode of Ask, Mom and Dad , the conversation shifts from playful catch-up to real-life reflections on aging, responsibility, and how faith sustains us in hard seasons. Topics include: Facing the realities of aging, health challenges, and caring for loved ones Finding gratitude in the middle of financial stress and daily pressures How God’s faithfulness carries us even when life feels ove...

Episode Description:In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, we dive deep into the story of Jacob, exploring how wrestling with God reshapes our identity. What does it mean to embrace the limp that comes from an encounter with the Divine? How do we move from striving for identity to receiving it as a gift from God? Join us as we unpack Jacob’s transformation into Israel, the significance of family iden...

In this episode of Ask Mom and Dad, Greg and Tonya discuss what it really means to live by faith, especially when circumstances or well-intentioned advice from others seem to conflict with one’s personal sense of God’s leading. They explore how “general wisdom” or common-sense advice—while often helpful—can sometimes clash with a believer’s individual calling or the specific way God may be directi...

In this episode, Greg and Tonya return from a long hiatus and catch everyone up on life happenings—from the busy holiday season on the road to the excitement of their son’s engagement. They discuss Greg’s new pastoral role in a small-town church, sharing the challenges and joys of stepping into ministry after a lengthy job search. The conversation then turns to a deeper reflection on worship, expl...

In this special episode, Greg and Tonya welcome their AI co-host, Ava, to discuss the unique challenges and principles of raising children with a Christian foundation in today’s culture. Ava plays the role of a curious interviewer, asking thoughtful questions about faith, parenting, and how Christian values influence family life. Tune in for an engaging conversation that explores the differences b...

In this episode, we talk about the challenges we face as Christian parents trying to raise kids who stay true to their identity in a culture that pushes back against biblical values.  We discuss insights from real-life situations, like how cultural shifts are affecting family dynamics, and how we’re trying to guide our kids through these identity challenges. We talk about the dangers of letting cu...

Labels can influence and manipulate cultural and political narratives. In this episode, Greg and Tanya discuss the complex interplay between language, culture, and Christianity, particularly the recent use of the term "Christian Nationalism" is being used to shape public perception toward Christians negatively.  "Christian nationalism" is a term recently used by various media and political entitie...

In this episode of "Ask Mom and Dad," we delve into a variety of parenting and lifestyle trends emerging among younger generations. We discuss how some modern practices surprisingly echo the traditions of their grandparents, highlighting a return to home-centric activities like baking and crafting. The conversation covers a range of topics, from the rise in setting boundaries for visitors around n...

Well it's not really how to speak GenZ. It's more speaking with someone who is GenZ about what those words mean. In today's episode Greg and Tonya enjoy a conversation with their youngest son Elijah as he quizzes them and they talk back-and-forth about slang used in across three generations and how the world we grow up in greatly affect the way we communicate. 

In this episode, Tonya and I jump into the true spirit of Easter, amidst all the egg hunts and chocolate galore. We talk a little bit about the origins of some of the language and practices that's around this holiday, while wanting to get down to the real reason for this celebration.  – the resurrection –  Join us for a laid-back and sometimes intense conversation on striking that sweet balance be...

Join Greg and Tonya as they navigate the intricate terrain of illegal immigration in this thought-provoking episode. They explore biblical perspectives on borders, drawing parallels from the Tower of Babel narrative, where God dispersed humanity. Reflecting on America's history, they highlight the process early immigrants underwent to attain citizenship, juxtaposing it with the term "illegal" and...

Yep, we did it. We've made it 36 years and we are still going strong. Inevitably Tonya and I are asked how have we made it this far. Now I'm not sure if some are asking becasue they are impressed and want to know the secret to our blissful life together or if there is some sort of inuindo there I am missing but for whatever it's workth. Tonya and I have just celebrated 36 yearst together and we th...

Welcome to "Ask Mom And Dad," the podcast where we dive into the joys and challenges of parenting through the lens of faith and family values. In each episode we engage in candid conversations about raising children in today's world while seeking wisdom from timeless biblical principles. In this episode, we explore the topic of favoritism in parenting, drawing insights from the stories of Jacob an...

Recently in Georgia, a restaurant, fined families for their undisciplined kids while dining at the restaurant. Today we discuss this and talk about behaving children in public.

Join us on "Ask Mom and Dad" to gain a fresh perspective on life, faith, and the search for truth. **Section 1 - "Rediscovering Faith over Knowledge"**: Join us as we delve into why parents today are increasingly obsessed with knowledge and education for their children. Are we overemphasizing the wrong things? Mom and Dad express their concern and discuss how placing the fear of the Lord at the ce...