As I Was Saying Podcast

In the episode, we talked about how kids today are growing up to become the next population of people shaping the world—some for the better, and some not so much. We explored how their environment, influences, and the choices being made around them are molding who they’ll become as adults. From young leaders already showing promise to troubling trends in behavior and values, we dove into both the...

In this episode, we explore the intriguing question of whether you can hold your partner responsible for what happens in your dreams. We dive into the psychology behind dreams, discussing how they are shaped by our subconscious mind, emotions, and experiences, rather than external control.

In this episode, we talk about the importance of personal space and boundaries, and how sometimes, we just need to be left alone. Whether it’s needing silence in the bathroom, not wanting surprise visits when we’re sick, or just having time to recharge, respecting these boundaries is crucial for maintaining our mental and emotional well-being. We explore why some of us crave solitude in certain si...

In this episode, we dive into the age-old question: "Do nice guys finish last?" and explore whether being nice really pays off in today's world. We’ll examine the challenges and rewards of kindness, and whether being considerate, empathetic, and generous leads to success or leaves you behind. Is there a hidden cost to always putting others first, or do nice guys find their way to the top in the lo...

In this episode, we talk about the importance of apologising as loudly as we accuse. It's easy to point fingers and place blame when things go wrong, but it’s just as crucial to take responsibility for our own actions and offer sincere apologies when needed. Apologising with the same intensity ensures that we acknowledge the impact of our behavior and show respect to others. It fosters accountabil...

In this episode, we discuss the importance of knowing when to leave after visiting someone’s house, especially if you're staying overnight. While it’s great to spend time with friends or family, it’s crucial to recognize when your visit has overstayed its welcome. We explore how staying too long can sometimes create tension or make the host feel burdened, even if they’re too polite to say it. Unde...

In this episode, we talk about the importance of being cautious when taking advice from others—especially from people who don’t truly understand you. It’s easy to fall into the trap of listening to well-meaning advice from friends, family, or even strangers, but if they don’t get your unique situation, values, or goals, their advice might not be the best fit. We discuss how important it is to seek...

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of social media and discuss which platforms we use the most, and why. From the fast-paced scroll of Twitter to the visually-driven appeal of Instagram, we dissect what each platform brings to the table. We break down how they shape our daily routines, connect us with others, and influence what we see, share, and interact with. Whether it’s the endless e...

In this episode, we dive into the details surrounding Sean Kingston's fraud case, exploring who is ultimately responsible for the controversy. The case involves allegations of fraud tied to financial dealings, and we unpack the roles played by Kingston himself, his associates, and the entities involved. Through careful... ok silly examination, we highlight the factors that led to the situation and...

"Zombie friends" are the kind of people who drift in and out of your life, never truly sticking around. They might disappear for long stretches, leaving you wondering where they went, only to resurface when they need something—be it attention, support, or just a familiar face. They don’t make the effort to nurture the relationship when times are good, yet expect you to drop everything when they re...

In this episode we jokingly agree that "adulting is a lie," reflecting on the pressure to have everything figured out while constantly feeling uncertain. We discuss how society portrays adulthood as a time of stability and success, but in reality, it's filled with unexpected hurdles, financial stress, and the constant need to make tough decisions. Finding comfort in our shared frustration, acknowl...

In this episode, we explore the concept of learning how to suffer, especially when you're in a relationship. Life throws challenges our way, and it’s easy to feel isolated in our struggles, but when you have a partner, it’s important to figure out how to bring them in and lean on each other during tough times. We discuss the vulnerability that comes with letting someone in on your pain, how to bal...

In this episode, we dive into the complex world of identity politics, specifically exploring the question of whether we should continue supporting celebrities or public figures we like no matter what, or if it's sometimes necessary to call them out—or even walk away—when their actions or views don’t align with our values. We examine the balance between loyalty and accountability, and whether it's...

In this episode, we dive into the challenge of getting back into the groove of recording the podcast after a break and how tough it can be to regain that momentum. Life happens, things get busy, and suddenly, that consistency you had built starts to slip away. We discuss the mental blocks that pop up when you're trying to start again, the pressure to pick up where you left off, and how difficult i...