aParently! A Podcast for Parents

We all want to raise responsible kids—ones who remember their tasks, help out without nagging, and grow into capable adults. But let’s be real: sometimes our own childhood baggage sneaks into the mix. Guilt, shame, and old expectations can make parenting feel heavier than it needs to be. In this episode, I share practical tools to help kids take ownership (no yelling required), some common misstep...

In this episode, I share a simple but powerful method we’ve started using in our home to help our kids navigate sibling conflict. It’s called the Think-Feel-Do Method, and it’s helping my boys name their feelings, advocate for themselves, and communicate what they need after things go sideways. It’s not magic—but it’s starting to work. And that’s what this podcast is all about: practical tools, ho...

Ever feel like your kid just tunes you out the moment you start giving advice? You’re not alone. In this episode of aParently!, we break down a simple, effective way to share your wisdom—without the eye rolls or shutdowns. Learn: Why timing is everything How to open the conversation with curiosity What to say to actually be heard (and not just tolerated) A real-life example where asking the right...

In this deeply practical episode, Coach Shawn explores what’s really going on when a child can’t let go of hate or resentment. Drawing from his experience as a foster dad and insights from trauma-informed child development experts, he unpacks how behaviors often mask deeper needs — and how parents can respond in healing, powerful ways.

"The EdAward: A Father’s Legacy and the Power of Showing Up" When you grow up with a dad who shows up—really shows up—it changes everything. In this deeply personal episode, I share the story of how my father, Edward Miller Hopkins, shaped the way I parent my boys—especially as a foster dad stepping into their lives after deep loss and trauma. You’ll hear about legacy, acceptance, and the power of...

Parenting is hard. Parenting a young adult who's still figuring it out—while you’re juggling bills, burnout, and a messy kitchen—is next-level hard. In this honest episode, I share a story about my son, Miguel, and what I’ve learned (the hard way) about how the words we choose can build trust—or break it down. I talk through five common phrases I’m working to replace, why they don’t help, and what...

Parenting is hard. Parenting a young adult who's still figuring it out—while you’re juggling bills, burnout, and a messy kitchen—is next-level hard. In this honest episode, I share a story about my son, Miguel, and what I’ve learned (the hard way) about how the words we choose can build trust—or break it down. I talk through five common phrases I’m working to replace, why they don’t help, and what...

🎙️ Episode Title: When Your Kid Lies 📝 Description: Why do kids lie—and what should we actually do about it? In this episode, Shawn shares personal stories, hard-won parenting insights, and 6 practical ways to respond to lying that help build trust instead of breaking connection. From emotional storytelling to real-life strategies, this short episode will help you see dishonesty through a new len...

Podcast: aParently! A Podcast for Parents This heartfelt Mother's Day episode is a tribute to my one-of-a-kind mom—Judy. Growing up, we butted heads, cracked each other up, and danced like nobody was watching. From walking home after pushing her buttons one too many times, to watching her love people boldly and without hesitation, my mom shaped me in ways I'm only now beginning to fully appreciate...

Worried your kid is heading in the wrong direction—anger, disrespect, or harmful habits? In this honest episode, parenting coach Shawn Hopkins shares personal stories and 3 powerful tools to stay connected and lead with love, even when your values feel worlds apart. You’re not alone—and you’re doing better than you think.

In this episode, Coach Shawn Hopkins shares ultra-practical tips to help you navigate those frustrating moments when your parenting strategies just aren't working. From kids shutting down to defying your every word, Shawn offers simple yet powerful shifts that can change the game. Tune in to learn how to shift your energy, deepen your connection, and turn tough situations into opportunities for gr...

Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the hardest moments a family can face—and delivering that news to your children can feel almost impossible. In this deeply personal episode, Shawn shares his own experience of making the heartbreaking decision to put down his family’s dog, Dudley, and walks parents through how to handle the conversation with honesty, compassion, and steadiness. You’ll hear...

When your child shuts down, it’s not defiance—it’s overwhelm. In this episode, Shawn shares 5 ways to support your child through sadness with calm, connection, and compassion.

In this episode of aParently! A Podcast for Parents, we’re talking about one of the hardest parts of parenting: waiting. Waiting for your child to take responsibility, make a better choice, or learn from their mistakes—without stepping in to fix it for them. We’ll walk through real-life scenarios (like unfinished homework and forgotten jackets), explore the fear that drives our urge to control, an...

This podcast dives into those grumpy parent moments when stress boils over and spills onto the whole family, often triggered by something as simple as a messy room. Coach Shawn shares practical tools to check in with yourself, use "I" statements, and shift from ordering and blaming to guiding and connecting, creating opportunities for growth and understanding with your kids.

A Personal Episode to Help You Prepare for Parent-Teacher Conferences This episode of aParently is a personal one. Parent-teacher conferences always bring up big emotions for me—anxiety, self-doubt, and that nagging fear that I’m not doing enough for my kid. If you’ve ever felt the same, you’re not alone. I’m sharing my own experiences, the lessons I’ve learned, and the strategies that have helped...

Parents often enter conversations with a goal in mind, but real connection happens when we release control and truly hear our kids. Shawn shares insights and tools to help you engage in open, meaningful conversations without pushing your own agenda. Plus, learn about upcoming community events, including a Virtual Single Parent Workshop and a Dads Group gathering. Tune in to discover how listening...

In this episode, we dive into the power of listening—really listening—to our kids. As parents, we often want to give advice, fix problems, or share our opinions, but sometimes, the best thing we can do is simply be present. I’ll share my own struggles with listening, the impact our voices have on our children’s inner dialogue, and practical steps to become a more compassionate and attentive parent...

Every parent wants their child to feel confident, but what happens when they don’t see their own strengths? In this episode of aParently, we dive into how to help kids develop real confidence—not arrogance—by recognizing their unique abilities, handling setbacks with a growth mindset, and fostering independence. I’ll share personal stories, practical strategies, and small shifts that can make a bi...

Stay Cool Daddio: Equanimity Follow-Up In this 2nd episode, Coach Shawn dives deeper into the art of equanimity, offering practical tools to help you recognize when emotions are running the show and how to regain control with confidence and clarity. Whether you’re navigating parenting challenges, managing stress, or just trying to stay grounded amidst life’s chaos, this episode is your guide to ma...

This episode of Stay Cool Daddio- Equanimity: Equanimity means mental calmness, composure, and evenness of temper. A true super power for parents

Quick Tip on something we are trying in our house which encourages self-advocacy, and sharing feelings in a conflict. Share your ideas at aParently.community.

Taking a walk with your child while practicing mindfulness. Schedule your free coaching session with Coach Shawn at www.shawnhop.com

Coach Shawn gives some Quick Tips on helping your teenager through a broken heart. Head over to www.shawnhop.com to schedule your free coaching session- Best Next Steps. Also check out www.aparently.community for this and other tips for parents. Collaborate with other parents on wins and challenges.

Another simple breathing exercise that can provide some relief when feeling angry or irritable. Try it and Stay Cool Daddio! Please provide feedback at shawnhop.com