Another Day With MaryJane

There’s wisdom in knowing where you end and where someone else begins. Boundaries aren’t walls. They’re bridges to healthier relationships, clearer communication, and deeper self-respect. And they are not just for others—they’re for you, too. Minding your own business is not indifference; it’s discipline. It’s understanding that your energy is sacred. Your peace is non-negotiable. And your growth...

There’s a quiet power in living truthfully—not for others, but for yourself. Too often, we’re conditioned to consider how our choices will be received by others before we even ask if those choices are right for us. We spend time explaining, softening, and compromising, all in the name of keeping peace or avoiding judgment. But real peace begins when we stop negotiating with our own truth.

Staying the course means choosing focus over noise. It means knowing your values so deeply that even when life tries to pull you in different directions, you don’t lose your center. This past weeks reminded me how easy it is to get sidetracked. One moment you’re on track, the next you're responding to things that don’t even deserve your energy. But if you’re building something that matters—whether...

Letting go is one of the hardest things we’re asked to do as human beings. Whether it’s pain, people, positions, or even expectations—we often hold on tightly, believing that our strength lies in our ability to endure. Convincing ourselves that we can still hold on. Denying and delaying things to unfold. But true strength often lies in our willingness to release. Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting...

Emotional resilience is not about being unaffected. It’s about being anchored. It’s about knowing that you don’t need to prove your worth through struggle—you affirm it by how you rise with intention, authenticity, and quiet courage. You are not weak for feeling deeply. You are not less for needing rest. You are strong because you have endured—and you are still here. So today, I acknowledge every...

Survival is not just about walking away from something—it’s about waking up to something. It forces you to pause and examine everything- Live better. Live clearer. Live lighter. But above all, live with intention. We often treat life like it will always make room for us to catch up, fix things, or try again later. But the truth is, moments like this remind us—life is fragile. And when you’re given...

Our presence—whether physical or simply in spirit—is a gift. Life is short. If your presence isn’t being valued, maybe it’s time to refocus your energy. Give it to people and places where it matters, where it’s appreciated. Let’s open our lives to the ones who genuinely celebrate our worth, who support our mission with integrity, and who sincerely want to see us rise. Because here’s the truth: We...

To my mother, Thank you for your love, your strength, your faith, and your presence. At 89, you’re still teaching me that being is enough. That silence can be healing. Your stillness has been my sanctuary. And to every mother, every daughter, every woman listening today—I honor you. You may not always be seen. You may not always be celebrated. But your love, your presence, your quiet strength—it m...

Healing is anything but linear. It’s a process and it asks us to sit with the uncomfortable. It teaches us to rest. It teaches us to listen—to our bodies, to listen to our hearts, and the quiet spaces, the silence, in between. Through the tears, the my writing, my journaling, the long talks with God, and the support of people who cares, I am starting to find a different kind of strength. One that...

I almost didn’t make it. There’s no other way to say it. It was a miracle I survived. And it has taken me days to even find the strength to talk about it out loud. Physically, I’m recovering. But emotionally... that’s where the real healing begins. We don’t always get a second chance. But if we do—we owe it to ourselves to be grateful and treasure it. This is my new beginning. Thank you that you a...

One thing that I can share with you is the significance of how we can make use of our time. So here are my three simple tips for you. One, for those who are distracting you from achieving your goals, in anyway, spend limited time with them. Second, for those discouraging you to reach your full potential, do not spend time with them. Third, for those who are pushing you and encouraging you, to beco...

Growth is never easy, but it’s always worth it. Challenges push us to be stronger, lessons teach us what we need to grow, and moments of gratitude remind us how far we’ve come. Every struggle shapes us, every experience guides us, and every small win is a reason to be thankful. Embrace the journey, trust the process, and keep moving forward—you’re becoming the best version of yourself.

Spending time with the children I’ve been mentoring is a powerful reminder that true impact isn’t about words—it’s about the actions we take and the lives we touch. It’s more than just a responsibility; it’s a commitment to their dreams, their potential, and their future. Every conversation, every piece of guidance, and every opportunity given is a step toward helping them believe in themselves an...

Mindset is your superpower. As I sit here in my home in the province, listening to the rain and waiting for it to pass, I’m reminded how much success is like the weather. We can’t control the storms that come our way, but we can control how we prepare and respond. Success starts with the right mindset—believing in your vision, even on the cloudy days—and staying focused on what truly matters.

Life will knock you down—it’s inevitable. But here’s the real question: will you let it define you, or will you rise from it stronger? We’ve all faced hardships, and I’ve had my fair share. But I’ve learned that it’s not the setback that matters—it’s what you do after.

Empowering others thru job creation. Thru this initiative, it’s my aim to change that. It’s about giving these graduates a chance to build careers, support their families, and contribute to their communities. Picture this out: 15,000 peso allowance per month, guaranteed. Unlimited commissions, world class coaching, mentoring and training and local and international travel incentives- all free. Wel...

Focus on progress, not perfection. As an entrepreneur, founder and advisor, here are a few tips to kick off your year with purpose: Set Clear Goals. Create a Routine. Stay Consistent. Let’s make 2025, our year! Tune in for more insights.

Goodbye 2024, Hello 2025. It’s officially the New Year Let’s make this year our best one yet. Remember, everyday is a new day, a new opportunity to chase your dreams, be happy and live your best life. Happy New Year , everyone!

Missing all of you after months of not being here and now I am back starting all over again.

This is to my father, a man of unwavering principles and boundless love. His integrity and dedication have shaped my life and how I see the world. His steadfast support and wisdom have been my foundation. I am forever grateful for his kindness, love and generosity.

Leadership goes beyond formal titles or positions of authority. It's about how you act and the influence you have on others. It is more about your actions and how you make use of your influence to empower others than it is about holding a specific title or position. It's about inspiring, empowering, and enabling others to achieve their full potential and work towards shared goals.

Breaking the glass ceiling, by bringing sports to the forefront. Not easy but always possible. I did it and I take pride in the kind of sporting events I pursue and execute as I firmly believe that sports have the power to bring people together and to inspire positive social change.

Time management is crucial for productivity and achieving your goals. It’s about prioritizing tasks and using your time efficiently. Start by identifying your most important tasks—the ones that align with your long-term goals. Break these tasks into smaller, manageable steps and schedule dedicated time for them.

Failures can be disheartening, but they are also valuable learning experiences. How we respond to failure often determines our future success. When you encounter failure, it’s important to reflect on what went wrong without dwelling on it. Use the insights gained to improve and grow. Each setback is an opportunity to learn and refine your approach.

Building a strong professional network is crucial for personal and career growth. Networking opens doors to new opportunities, partnerships, and collaborations. Start by attending industry events, joining professional groups, and participating in online communities related to your field. As they say, your network is your net worth.