All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

All Out in the Open

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All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces us to modern day pioneers. Michael Soto and Liz Macdonald highlight the amazing work of those who are b...

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All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

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Latest episode

Jan 13, 2026

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Episodes

What does the research say about healing? 31.05.2022

Dr. Lisa Diamond returns with her colleague Josh Christensen to discuss their findings on a recent LGBTQ+/religious study about healing from emotional trauma. 

How do I Respond to Hurtful Comments? 24.05.2022

Jessica Abele joins us to discuss how to respond when a loved one says something hurtful.

What's it like to be gay at BYU Hawaii? 17.05.2022

Iese Wilson shares his experience as a gay student at BYU-H and highlights challenges faced by international LGBTQ+ members of the Church.

Is there a place for my family at Church? 10.05.2022

Sadi Rogers discusses her experiences finding a place for her family at church after marrying her wife.

How can I support friends who make different decisions? 03.05.2022

Robert Jaramillo joins Ben and Charlie to talk about how he manages friendships with other gay men who are on different life paths.

What's it like to go to conversion therapy? 26.04.2022

Dustin Liechty recounts his experiences going to conversion therapy before his mission as a teenager, then again after his mission as an adult. 

What if I'm totally and completely devastated? 19.04.2022

Ben and Charlie talk about the pain associated with being a gay Latter-day Saint and how they find beauty and hope at their lowest points.  

What does it mean to be demisexual? 12.04.2022

Colette Dalton (she/her) joins Ben and Charlie to talk about how she came to identify as demisexual. 

Does accepting my orientation change who I am? 05.04.2022

Derek Driggs joins Ben and Charlie for a conversation about identity and coming out. 

Can I watch shows with LGBTQ+ characters? 29.03.2022

Brian Tanner joins Ben and Charlie to talk about media that features LGBTQ+ characters. 

What if I don't fit the stereotype? 22.03.2022

Pyper America joins Ben and Charlie for a conversation about how to find belonging when you feel like you don't fit in.

Live Q&A Event (Audio Recording) 15.03.2022

Tammy Uzelac Hall (of the Sunday on Monday Podcast) moderates a live Q&A with Charlie and Ben. Recorded on March 11, 2022.

How do I deal with loneliness? 08.03.2022

Jonny Liu joins Ben and Charlie to talk about how he stays happy single.

Can it just be me and Jesus? 01.03.2022

Laura Fuchs joins Charlie and Ben for a conversation about coming out and finding community.

What if I don't fit in either community? 22.02.2022

Dr. Greg Petersen joins Ben and Charlie for a conversation about how he finds fit as a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

What happens when you fall in love? 15.02.2022

In this vulnerable episode, Charlie shares what it was like to unexpectedly fall in love while at BYU.

QFTC Live Event Reschedule Details 30.01.2022

Charlie and Ben ramble about rescheduling the Live Season Kickoff!

Season 2 Recap! 21.12.2021

Ben and Charlie talk about their favorite episodes from Season 2 and announce a live event for next season's kickoff.

What is conversion therapy? 14.12.2021

Ben and Charlie are joined by Dr. Steve Smith (he/him) who talks about what conversion therapy is and why he considers it a harmful practice.

What is it like to face Church discipline? 07.12.2021

Ben and Charlie are joined by John Gustav-Wrathall and James Brinton who share their respective experiences facing Church discipline after marrying same-sex partners.

Is sexuality fluid? 30.11.2021

Dr. Lisa Diamond (she/her) joins Ben and Charlie to share her research on sexual fluidity. 

Do you think the Church will change? 23.11.2021

Ben and Charlie discuss whether or not they expect changes in Church doctrine and policy regarding same-sex couples.

Bonus: Ben's Tap Recital + Sound Guy Mike 19.11.2021

Ben treats the listeners to a riveting tap performance followed by a "get to know you" interview with our sound guy, Mike!

How do I recognize personal revelation? 16.11.2021

Ben and Charlie are joined by Sarah Keller-Langford (she/her) for a discussion on how they recognize and receive personal revelation.

Can I be out at church? 09.11.2021

Ben and Charlie are joined by MTC Instructor Sarah Chapman (she/her) for a conversation about being out at church.

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