All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

All Out in the Open

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All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces us to modern day pioneers. Michael Soto and Liz Macdonald highlight the amazing work of those who are b...

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Jan 13, 2026

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Episodes

What are you Scared to Ask a Transgender Person? 14.11.2023

In this Episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Michael Soto to talk about some of the questions often asked about what it's like to be transgender. Content Advisory: This episode contains medical terms referring to genitalia and gender reassignment surgeries

How Do I Foster a More Secure Relationship With God? 31.10.2023

Ben and Charlie are joined by Tami Combs to discuss attachment theory, and how that can apply to your relationship with God.

What If I Feel Like a Failure? 24.10.2023

In this episode Charlie and Ben are joined by Joey Shephard (they/them) to discuss where feelings of failure can come from and how to deal with them.

How Do I Explain the Church's Stance on Homosexuality? 17.10.2023

In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Kimberly Teitter to discuss how they explain the church's stance on homosexuality with others.

Do You Ever Feel Conflicted Paying Tithing? 10.10.2023

In this episode, Charlie and Ben discuss how paying tithing can be a conflicting experience for LGBTQ individuals.

What do I do if listening to Conference hurts? 03.10.2023

In this episode Charlie and Ben discuss their thoughts and feelings on general conference.

Season 6 Opener - Live Event 19.09.2023

Join us as we kick of Season 6 - with a live event from the gather conference! As always Ben and Charlie kick off the next season with a Q&A session.

Bonus: Season 6 Is Coming! 29.08.2023

Come join us for the live Sseason 6 Premier on September 15th! It will be at the Utah Valley Convention Center at 7PM.

Classic Episode: Do you think the Church will change? 15.08.2023

Ben and Charlie discuss whether or not they expect changes in Church doctrine and policy regarding same-sex couples.

Classic Episode: What are the Pros and Cons of Coming Out? 01.08.2023

Ben and Charlie are joined by Stacey Harkey for a discussion of the pros and cons of coming out. 

Classic Episode: What are the Stages of Coming Out? 25.07.2023

Ben teaches Cass's 6 Stages of Coming Out. Scott Christofferson joins Ben and Charlie to talk about their experiences in each stage, as well as give advice for how friends and family can support LGBTQ+ loved ones throughout the process.

Classic Episode: Am I Being Deceived? 11.07.2023

This is one you don't want to miss! Ben and Charlie are joined by David Butler for a conversation on how to recognize which thoughts come from the Spirit.

Classic Episode: Why do You Stay in the Church? 04.07.2023

Charlie and Ben talk about why they decide to move forward in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Classic Episode: Is There a Place for Me at Church? 29.06.2023

Ben, Charlie, and McKay Bryson have a raw conversation about what it's like to be a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Classic Episode: How Can We Prevent LGBTQ Suicide? 20.06.2023

Suicidal ideation is very common and can surface in unexpected ways. This week we are joined by Taryn Hiatt, the Area Director for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. We talk about myths surrounding suicide, warning signs, and practical steps anyone can take when life feels overwhelming. Please do not miss this important episode. For further education, extra resources, and advice on ho...

Classic Episode: How do I Reconcile my Patriarchal Blessing? 06.06.2023

What happens when you're LGBTQ/SSA but your patriarchal blessing mentions temple marriage? Dr. Richard Bushman, author, professor, scripture historian, and stake patriarch, joins us this week for an important discussion on how to reconcile sexual orientation with promises mentioned in a patriarchal blessing. Don't miss this episode!

Bonus: Season 4 Wrapped! 09.05.2023

Season 4 has come to a close. Ben, Charlie, and Sound Guy Mike talk about their favorite moments of the season, as well as what to look forward to for the next!

How Does Coming out Affect my Parents? 02.05.2023

Allison Dayton joins Ben and Charlie to talk about a mother's perspective when their child comes out.

Bonus: Announcing the Gather Conference! 25.04.2023

Ben and Charlie announce the Gather Conference. Find out more at gather-conference.com

How Do I Build Community? 11.04.2023

In this episode Nadia and Nori join Ben and Charlie to discuss what it's like growing up as part of an immigrant family, and how it parallels the LGBTQ experience in many ways.

How do I Navigate the Gay Adolescence? 04.04.2023

Trigger Warning: S. A. In this episode, Molly Flake joins Ben and Charlie to discuss what the gay adolescence is and how she has navigated it.

How Could Coming Out Affect My Marriage? 28.03.2023

In this Episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Liv to discuss how coming out as queer affected her marriage with her husband.

How can I Find Joy in the Temple as an LGBTQ Individual? 21.03.2023

In this episode, Ben and Charlie discuss how they feel when they go to the temple and what they get out of attending.

How do I Deal with All the Judgement? 28.02.2023

In this episode, Ben and Charlie discuss what they do to deal with judgment.

Is Same Sex Attraction a Trial? 21.02.2023

In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Bryson to discuss their perspectives on whether same sex attraction is a trial or a blessing.

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