Age Less / Live More

Do you have a talky coworker who never gives you space to share your ideas? Do you have a neighbor who does home repairs at 2 am? Or a spouse that never follows through with their shared housework? Welcome to everyday conflict. We argue easily about the things we care most about, and the small things seem too petty to be bothered with. Instead, we let them brew and fester until finally, we explode...

My piano lessons were a dark, 45-minute drive from home. Mom and I left home at 6:30 am on Tuesday mornings to get there before school. "Luke is really good at this," Ms. McGill said after my third lesson. I was eight, and that simple comment, deliberately made within earshot, gave me confidence with music that I carry even to this day (despite my obvious lack of skill as an adult). I never said t...

"I'm not sure if you feel things the way I do," she said. "I feel everything." I was twenty-one, she was twenty-three. The window looked out at a brick wall in my Lower East Side apartment. "I have emotional needs, and you're buried in your books and your work. You can see me." That was how it started on a Sunday afternoon. By Friday, I was helping her load CDs and tattered books into the trunk of...

I always wanted to be a writer. Kerouac, Hemmingway, and Carver were my heros. Later it was playwrights Kushner, Ibsen, and C hekov . I'd drag home backpacks full of books from the public library, and I finagled my way into just about every theater I could find in New York City from Broadway to deep Brooklyn fringe venues. If you met me at age 20, you'd never predict I'd be teaching backbends and...

The three largest mental health facilities in the USA are Rickers, Cooks Country and LA Twin Towers Jails. The mentally ill have literally been relegated to prisons since there are so few public resources for those in need. This is devastating to the mentally ill, of course, but also to their families, neighbors and communities who are forever impacted.  Listen & Learn:  How prisons have replaced...

Two mice are genetically identical, but one ends up obese and yellow and the other ends up mousy brown and healthy as expected. What's the difference? The mutated mouse's mother was undernourished during pregnancy, and different genes switched on. Genetics load the gun, epigenetics pull the trigger. Most of us have the potential for exceptional health, but some of us enter the world with serious h...

I have a challenge for you. Take a pencil to paper and map out your past five years on a line graph with peaks being the great experiences and valleys being the lows. I'd be willing to guess you have a deep valley (or two!) every single year, but what about a peak? What about a moment or an experience that you'll cherish as a memory for the rest of your life? Do you have one? Most people who liste...

Steve Jobs had genius-level intelligence and built one of the largest and most influential companies in the world. This is impressive, but at the same time that Apple was achieving success, Jobs denied fathering his own daughter, was forced to take a DNA test, and ended up paying a tiny amount of child support for her entire youth despite having millions. I never met Steve Jobs, but universally, h...

I started moonlighting as a yoga teacher and nutritional coach in my 20s while I still kept my day job. I didn't know if I could turn my passion into a career, so I dipped my toe into the water to see how it felt. I'm not going to lie, it was hard. It's still hard, but I figured it out. I know many of my podcast listeners are yoga teachers, trainers, health coaches, and entrepreneurs; and many of...

Loneliness, living alone and poor social connections are as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. It's worse for you than obesity. And you're much more likely to suffer from dementia, heart disease, and depression if you're isolated and alone(1). The importance of social connections and touch has been proven in both human and animal models, but the solution is much less obvious. How...

You could still smoke indoors when I moved to Spain in 2009. Thankfully, it was banned in 2010 as part of an on-going anti-tobacco campaign that has since failed miserably. Fifteen years ago, 32% of people smoked. Today, 34% smoke. Somehow, the US has managed to get smoking rates down to 14%, and yet, even with a nationwide campaign, consumption here goes up. Why?  My guest on this week's podcast...

I've set a personal goal to live to be 122, and I specifically chose this number because it seems like a stretch but also totally within the realm of reasonable given my age and the advances in science. My children, I'm almost certain, will easily surpass my age simply because they have even more time for science to make it possible. So if 80 is the new 50, what does that mean for our hair, teeth,...

When you're fasting, your body undergoes rapid healing that is very well-documented and exciting, but it's also extremely impractical. When you spend a few days without eating, you're weak, tired, hangry, and no good for much of anything except lying around the pool (hence the need for fasting resorts). But what if there was a way to get many of the same hormone-balancing and neuroprotective benef...

My worst fear with aging is losing my cognitive abilities, forgetting my kids' names, and just becoming an old fool. It's easy to assume that the brain will go along with the body, but there's pretty good evidence to suggest that your mental age can be a decade younger than your physical body's age, but you have to start working on it now. On this week's show, you'll meet a neuroscientist whose mi...

Hormonal birth control has been directly correlated with weight gain, mental health problems, and decreased libido—not exactly an ideal mix when it comes to sexuality. But what are you supposed to do? What is the alternative? With anything health and wellness, all decisions are personal, but unfortunately, most decisions are uninformed.  Our guest on this week's show will shed some light on the re...

I had a rough year in 2006. It was the year I opened my first yoga studio. I should have been on cloud nine, but I wasn't ready for all that responsibility and all that stress. I had a staff of 12, hundreds of students, courses, a restaurant, and very little support. Mostly, I was alone. An old friend sent me some audio meditation tracks he'd be using that had a technology called binaural beats. I...

I wanted to run a marathon this year. The truth is, I hardly ever run, but like any good mid-life crisis man, I wanted to tackle that goal to prove to myself I still could do hard things. Sounds great, right? Fun and challenging? Here's the problem—I didn't do it. I don't even think I wanted to do it. If I had been smarter, I would have set a tiny goal, like running 5 km per week for a year for ex...

You close your blackout curtains, flip your phone to airplane mode, and crawl into bed with all the best intentions to get 7.5 hours of sleep—and then your monkey mind starts peeling bananas. Work deadlines stream through your mind, the next episode of your current favorite series beckons, and for no good reason, you're dying to see what your friends are posting on Instagram. Thirty minutes pass,...

I said goodbye to my grandfather when I was 8 years old. He had his first heart attack, and my mom was convinced he didn't have long to live. Turns out he had many, many years ahead of him. Unfortunately, he was riddled with recurring heart problems, Parkinson's, and a whole host of medical challenges. He lived a long life, but not a healthy one. His rapid decline shook my family, turned my mother...

Would you survive if you had to grow or forage your own food for an entire year? Would you eat roadkill, wild yam, coconuts, and acorn grubs? Rob Greenfield is finishing up 365 days straight growing and gathering (from the 'wild') as his own food. Rob is an adventurer, environmental activist, humanitarian, and a guy on a mission to create a more sustainable and just world. Listen & Learn:   Why ou...

"Inhale fresh, life-giving oxygen… exhale toxic, dead carbon dioxide," said my yoga teacher. I've heard some variation of this hundreds of times in classes. Oxygen is good, carbon dioxide is bad. In with the good, out with the bad. Right?  As it turns out, this kindergarten understanding of breathing physiology is wrong. Most of us could really benefit from more CO 2 because it opens up your air p...

People often compare the human body to a car, but this is a bad analogy (unless it's a Tesla) because your body doesn't contain a combustion engine. You're electric, my friend, and your nerves are in the driver's seat. One electrical stimulus makes you anxious, another makes you calm; mostly, you're an out-of-control cross-fire of signals that kicks you around energetically and emotionally through...

My second child has black circles under his eyes in all his photos from birth to age four. He slept as little as possible and willed himself through most days with all the angst and irritability of any insomniac. At age four, he finally started sleeping and quickly became a new person. He learned more, laughed more, talked (a lot) and was a joy to be around. Was it just the sleep? No, but it made...

The American life expectancy is currently 79, which sounds great until you realize that is the 26th in line worldwide. Despite being one of the most developed and wealthy nations in the world, the US system is not only ridiculously overpriced (at least 2x), it's also ineffective. It's a double fail with upstream and downstream effects that are impossible to even begin to quantify. This wonky syste...

I live in Spain where the average life expectancy just hit 83 years—number three in the world, less than one percentage of a point behind Switzerland and Japan. Foreigners often hypothesize that the reason is due to the diet, the long walks, or red wine that keep people alive until such an old age, but after I've lived here for 10 years, I must disagree. As I look out of my office window right now...