After the Affair

There are lots of ways people choose or recommend as the way to heal from betrayal but that raises a question ... Is there a 'Best way to heal' from infidelity? Listen to find out. Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke

Happy New Year! Let's make 2023 the turning point in your recovery.   Today's episode is all about the Motivational Triad. This is the human need to;   - Seek pleasure - Avoid pain - Expend the least energy   This shows up in our lives daily and it makes perfect sense from an evolutionary perspective, but in today's world where food and material items are in abundance ... it often leads us to beha...

Come on, admit it. We are all guilty for consuming a great piece of advice, reading and inspirational quote in a magazine or learning that new technique on a webinar but, how often do you actively put that new found knowledge into practice.   I know from experience how easy it is to passively consume information, but then realise that nothing is changing for me because I haven't implemented any of...

What boundaries do you have in your relationships? Have you ever intentionally set a boundary? What is expected of other people who infringe on your emotional boundaries? Find out the answers to these questions and many more in today's episode.   I love to hear all of your questions that come to mind when you are listening to the episodes, let me know what comes up for you. Leave a comment, send a...

Following on from last weeks episode I explore the list of rules that we have for our partners. How they are something that we don't even notice yet they dictate our expectations and ultimately our feelings if left unchecked. In addition, to sign up for the upcoming Heal for Holidays workshop which will be held on Tuesday 13th December 2022 at 9am CT and 3pm UK time, click >>here!

We all see the world through a different lens. Sometimes it's easy to use the analogy of Rose-Tinted Glasses where you only see the positives, this would be great but is often not always the case!   This episode, along with next week's episode will look at the lists we have in our mind that act like a filter ... not dissimilar to Rose-Tinted Glasses. Enjoy!   Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Faceboo...

For episode 10, we're doing something a little different.    Whatever it is that you are going through, whatever stage of recovery you are at, there is always someone else out there who is experiencing something similar. Simply becoming aware of this, might just make you feel a little less alone on this journey.   Today I'm having a very open conversation with Mike who experienced infidelity back...

Such a common question after infidelity, how do I rebuild trust? How can I ever trust again? I could talk about this subject for hours but I've kept it to around 20 minutes so it will be manageable and accessible to all. If you've found this episode useful, or any episode for that matter... leave a review, it really helps to get it to more people like you who really need it right now. Thank you so...

REGISTER HERE --> www.lifecoachluke.com/holidays Click above to join us on Sunday 13th November at 12pm central time/6pm UK time. If you can't make the live event, still register and you'll get access to the recording. Attend as the betrayed spouse, the wayward spouse or as a couple. This week I am answering questions from men who have chosen to stay after discovery of the affair. Some of the issu...

Feelings! It's all about feelings.    Feelings/emotions are the fuel for everything we do. In this episode you'll learn what feelings are, why they matter and most importantly... what to do with them! This episode is relevant to anyone with a brain! Not just those who have been through infidelity.   Want to work together? Let's talk ... book a completely free, no obligation chat with me right now...

When betrayal happens, it's common to assume that guilt is only experienced on the side of the unfaithful partner. Further into the healing process however and sometimes a certain set of circumstances can align and cause the betrayed to have similar feelings, but for different reasons.   Find out more in this episode!   For those who haven't reached this stage in the recovery process, access and d...

Are you are trying to heal from infidelity? But no matter how hard you try, every discussion is like setting off a firework! Then this episode is for you. Things are rarely what they seem, and that includes your partner.   I'm currently compiling a list of questions to specifically answer in future episodes. If you have a question that you would like me to answer, then get in touch. See below for...

Truth, True and Fact ... are these the same things? In today's episode I'll explore my thoughts around how they affect the experiences we have within our relationships. The image I refer to in the show is this one (I take no credit for the production or creation of this image)   To contact me and discuss any of the topics within the show or to ask a question that I can answer in a future show... W...

In this episode I'm discussing the common ways we misinterpret each other, in particular within relationships. This stemmed from a recent conversation with my sister about how we can make quick judgements, react to that judgement and become blinkered to other possibilities as a result. Get your FREE how to survive after the affair guide from my website. Link below. Website: www.lifecoachluke.com F...

In this episode I am exploring the concept of letting go of the outcome. This is an important part of the healing process from infidelity. When your partner has cheated, it is challenging to not want to look into the future and attempt to predict it. This is often not as useful as you might think. I also talk about some useful steps to help you begin the process of letting go after the affair.  ww...

Join me in this first episode to discover a little about me, but more importantly an exploration into my thoughts and insights into the world of infidelity.  I talk about perception, and how what you experience may be different to your partners. All about relationships and what they really are. How you know you are doing ok after discovering an affair and some tips on what not to do. And finally,...