Adventurous Polyamory

Send a text I kissed a girl and I liked it. Or did I? Did she? WTH just happened here anyway? Here’s a couple handy articles about comp-het, performative bisexuality, and hegemonic masculinity for those who want a deeper dive: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_heterosexuality https://www.bitchmedia.org/post/visibility-performing-bisexuality-katy-perry-lowndes-music-feminism https://en.wikip...

Send a text Peg-Leg Pete is IN THE HOUSE yo. Shout out to Anita Wagner, in whose MeetUp I posted my first event waaaay back in 2014. Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Visit me on Patreon for the wilder stuff: patreon.com/AdventurousPolyamory Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon: I like to make up names for pe...

Send a text Divine fire, Old Scratch, racism, rudeness gets the results it truly deserves. It’s Bible time, y’all! The text I reference is 2 Kings 1.2-1.18. The translation I prefer is the Jewish Theological Seminary translation. I do not currently have a favorite New Testament to recommend, as I have not developed enough expertise in that text to give myself airs just yet.  Read my noble words: h...

Send a text Baby, I need your lovin/Got to have all your lovin/Baby I need your lovin toniiiiightt Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Visit me on Patreon for the wilder stuff: patreon.com/AdventurousPolyamory Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon: Not this month. Go look up St. Valentine though. He is not that...

Send a text There's no Robinson Caruso to give you the D on this island. Worst island ever.  Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon: Not this month.  The Amazon, for new folks, is my boyfriend John's other girlfriend. I adore her. Support the show

Send a text John & I look back and forward together. And make jokes. Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon:  "Shmuel" is the original Hebrew pronunciation of the name "Samuel." Support the show

Send a text This week is pretty heavy. Bear with me. Death is a door we all have to pass through eventually. Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon:  Polycule, meaning the extended family unit of polyamorous relationships including your own partners, their partners, the partner...

Send a text We have met the enemy, and he is us. Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon: Polycule: a portmanteau of “polyamory” and “molecule,” intended to express the idea of a larger family/romantic unit. This may take any number of configurations and does not necessarily mea...

Send a text Who’s in charge of what? And why is it pissing me off so much? Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Fancy Jargon: Primary bedroom: we used to call this the master bedroom. But then we realized that the idea of masters is highly problematic. And that historically, the bedroom o...

Send a text Dead-naming! Divine wrath! A bit of casual blasphemy! John and I talked so much on this topic and of course there was about 45 minutes of stuff I couldn’t even use because I suck at technology. This episode is not specifically about only polyamory; I think it’s time to normalize all of us having access to our own faiths and not tolerate anyone pushing us out of something that truly bel...

Send a text I don't play games. OR DO I? Link to  The Yoopers' Second Week of Deer Camp: https://youtu.be/3Q57eWfaZmM Read my noble words: https://wordpress.com/home/unlimitedheartcoaching.com Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text You can take the girl out of the ivory tower, but you can’t take the ivory tower out of the girl, as it turns out. In this episode I veer into radical territory. Shout out to my autocorrect which actually knew how to spell "bourgeoisie" If you want to hear a more nuanced discussion about cleaning your sweetie’s place, the Benjamin Franklin effect, and all that sort of thing,...

Send a text You can't be in polyamory long before you start hearing about the veto. Let's take a closer look at this contentious tactic. References: Here’s Jocko Willink giving an epically manly TED Talk: https://youtu.be/ljqra3BcqWM *I am a giant fan of Jocko. However, sadly, embracing his doctrine of taking full responsibility still did not save my marriage. Perhaps I’d have been a bit...

Send a text Honestly it's possible this episode was just an excuse for me to say "butts" a lot. Books: Folks, This Ain’t Normal, by Joel Salatin. He’s written a bunch but this is the one I read and it ranges over a very broad swath of subjects.  The Art of War, by Sun Tzu. I bet we’ll be revisiting this bad boy soon. And for the young at heart, I recommend Maurice Sendak's book...

Send a text Can we call modern polyamory a matriarchal system? Who's really "ruling" the pride anyway? Contact me: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Books referenced in this episode: Sex At Dawn, by Cacilda Jetha and Cristopher Ryan. I admit with shame that I do not know how to pronounce the first author's name and so I chose not to mangle it out loud i...

Send a text Because you should be like NASA, and only get busy with people who are as smart as physicists and as sexy as astronauts. Get in touch: Email: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text A pithy rundown of some polyamory dynamics to avoid. CW: emotional abuse Get in touch with me: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text This week I'm here to give you the dope about the BIG D. It's been a while coming y'all. Contact me: unilimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Contact Mike Sinay the Awesome Divorce Lawyer (MD Local peeps only) msinay@familylawattys.com Tell him I sent ya! Support the show

Send a text The most beautiful buzzsaw you'll ever cram your face into. Has ANYONE succeeded at this quest? Get in touch:  Unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text It's been a wild month and my mind is kind of all over. Here you are, my thoughts on our constant visibility in polyamory and life in general. Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text My son would want me to say here, just like Tazerface in "Guardians of the Galaxy," that IT'S METAPHORICALLLLLLL!!! So there you go, Jack. Don't say I never think of you. Anyway yeah, this one's got a lot of metaphors. Because I just can't help myself. Get in touch: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: @unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text Get in touch! unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Elderly Athletes: https://www.runnersworld.com/uk/news/a33469615/87-year-old-ironman/ https://www.cnn.com/2021/11/24/sport/edwina-brocklesby-triathlete-iron-gran-spt-intl-cmd/index.html https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanis%C5%82aw_Kowalski Mental Health & Isolation: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/...

Send a text The more you know, baby! How do you plan to address some of the new and confusing situations in your life? https://theetiquetteconsultant.com/blog/2018/2/1/hands-on-the-dining-table-right-or-wrong https://swampfoxfarms.co/etiquette-is-for-your-safety/ Don't attack someone who is taking a dump, fool!  https://etiquipedia.blogspot.com/search/label/13th%20C.%20Etiquette Support the s...

Send a text Yeah I said it. There's some very good reasons you might want to avoid polyamory. Go on, fight me. Here's the essay by Mark Manson referenced in this episode: https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes Get in touch with me! unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show

Send a text We hear a lot these days about the wonder of non-hierarchy. But. . . hmmmm. email me: unlimitedheartcoaching@gmail.com IG: unlimitedheartfreedom Support the show