Adventures in Marriage

We would love to hear from you! Courtney & Shawn began dating 32 years ago today! In this episode they talk about the "Epiphanies" they have shared in their relationship. Husbands and wives can (and hopefully will) experience new revelations about their spouses and their marriage.   You'll also get a few updates on their latest adventures, visits with friends, and more. Thanks f...

We would love to hear from you! Happy New Year! As the first year of AIM ends, Courtney & Shawn talk about some of their favorite moments from the early episodes, the challenges of working together on the podcast, and keeping everything real as they encourage others and work through their own challenges.  They will be back in 2025 for more great interviews and conversations! Thanks for sharing...

We would love to hear from you! Beyond the wrapping paper, boxes, ribbon, and bows, every husband and wife has gifts that only they can provide for their spouse. While it's great to get a thoughtful present, Courtney & Shawn talk about the intangible gifts they have come to appreciate in one another.  May your Christmas be filled with the Peace of Christ! We recently created a IG account...

We would love to hear from you! With Christmas "arriving" in days, Courtney & Shawn take some time to discuss how the Church's long time observance of Advent can be used to strengthen your marriage. Courtney reads from a great article found at Fierce Marriage . Also, if you want to follow along with liturgical readings or know more about reading the Bible with the lectionary, yo...

We would love to hear from you! During this holiday season, pay attention to those seemingly routine and casual traditions because they mean a lot more than you think! Courtney and Shawn discuss how their family traditions have changed over the years with growing children and how they have adopted new traditions just for the two of them to share as husband and wife. What traditions have come to br...

We would love to hear from you! Happy Thanksgiving from Adventures in Marriage! Remember that your spouse brings amazing gifts to your marriage that would otherwise be missing from your life. Take time to celebrate those gifts and to THANK GOD for them. Also, let your husband or wife know how grateful you are for their gifts. Check out this article referenced by Courtney & Shawn: Focus on the...

We would love to hear from you! Borrowing from Willard F. Harley's book 'His Needs, Her Needs,' Courtney and Shawn share their latest adventure. Harley talks about the importance in 'recreational companionship' in your marriage. Courtney and Shawn recap their experience in Birmingham completing a 12 mile ruck around the city with an events and apparel company called GORUCK...

We would love to hear from you! The incredible challenges of selfishness can really wreck a relationship! Courtney & Shawn share their struggle with self-awareness and communication to set their marriage up for more harmony and love. Check out this great read from Father Matters Chris Garner.  https://fathermatters.org/the-number-one-problem-in-marriage-selfishness/   Also, here are the Script...

We would love to hear from you! Have you offered your marriage to God for His Kingdom work? Grant & Danielle Tolbird share their story of trusting God through grief and difficult challenges as they grow their family. In particular, they discuss their experiences with CASA, infertility, and becoming foster parents all while God uses them to break generational curses and again make families whol...

We would love to hear from you! Have you offered your marriage to God for His Kingdom work? Grant & Danielle Tolbird share their story of trusting God through grief and difficult challenges as they grow their family. In particular, they discuss their experiences with CASA, infertility, and becoming foster parents all while God uses them to break generational curses and again make families whol...

We would love to hear from you! Besides the big moments when it's predictable, conflict comes at the absolute silliest times in a marriage. Courtney & Shawn talk about the importance of establishing some ways to 'fight fair' before tempers flare. After all, who knows how to push your buttons more than the person who shares your life everyday?   We recently created a IG account f...

We would love to hear from you! On location in Vicksburg, Shawn & Courtney discuss the challenges of a difficult August. They discuss a difficult anniversary 10 years in the making and a new reality in the life of parenting adult children. More episodes following soon. As always, thanks for listening! We recently created a IG account for the podcast and would love for you to give it a look @ho...

We would love to hear from you! The conversation with Jeremy & Dana Lowe continues! Intentionality in your marriage changes the essence of your marriage. Thanks for coming back for part two of the AIM conversation with Jeremy and Dana.  We recently created a IG account for the podcast and would love for you to give it a look @hornsbymarriageadventures If you found anything helpful or encouragi...

We would love to hear from you! A conversation with Jeremy & Dana Lowe on Kingdom living and intentionality in your marriage. This two part discussion begins with a sweet story of two best friends who fall in love. Shawn & Courtney have known the Lowes through soccer teams, elementary choirs, and shared ministry in the area. Enjoy getting to know Jeremy and Dana.  We recently created a IG...

We would love to hear from you! Leadership always presents challenges but never so much as in the marriage dynamic. Ideally husbands lead their wives and families in worship and devotion but sometimes the role goes unfilled. How do you get started when you haven't filled that position? Shawn & Courtney talk through the benefits of pursuing the Lord together and the potential trials of wha...

We would love to hear from you! Building on an article on the role of a poor self-image in marriage, Courtney and Shawn discuss the challenges of meeting your spouse where they are in receiving praise and understanding how they can be attractive. They share a little insight into their own insecurities as well as some pretty exciting news about life as parents of young adults. We recently created a...

We would love to hear from you! Courtney & Shawn review some of the content from their discussion with Alan & Shawna. Alan's reference to the marriage triangle with God at the pinnacle remains particularly helpful as we talk about building a stronger relationship with our spouse. Also, Shawn goes into the tremendous importance of men understanding the will of the Father just as Jesus...

We would love to hear from you! We continue the conversation with Alan & Shawna Johnson with problems they have learned to deal with, the communication dance of learning to listen, and the next 40 years! If you missed Episode 8, The First 30 Years, go back so you can get to know this great couple. We recently created a IG account for the podcast and would love for you to give it a look @hornsb...

We would love to hear from you! Welcome back (sorta) Alan & Shawna Johnson who have been long time friends in ministry and life. Alan & Shawna introduce themselves to the AIM audience as Alan gives his 'perspective' on how they met. We always laugh when we are with these two! More importantly, they share a deep love of the Lord with one another and it shows in their marriage. Enj...

We would love to hear from you! Courtney & Shawn recap some of the difficulties experienced after the accident discussed in the last episode with Dana & Drew. Courtney struggled with the dilemma of encouraging Shawn to heal while caring for and protecting the family from his pain.  Healing so often takes time and especially patience in marriage. Courtney & Shawn deeply believe in the i...

We would love to hear from you! The conclusion of our conversation with Dana & Drew. We consider ourselves blessed to have such great friends in our lives. We could never thank them enough for their friendship and love. We pray you are encouraged by their stories and their desire to love their family and others.  We recently created a IG account for the podcast and would love for you to give i...

We would love to hear from you! We continue the conversation from Episode 4 as we talk about Dana & Drew's message to their grandchildren as well as their thoughts on 'for better, for worse, in sickness, in health.'  Enjoy the conversation and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE too! We recently created a IG account for the podcast and would love for you to give it a look @hornsbymar...

We would love to hear from you! Dana & Drew became family over the years in the way that people who share great struggles and joys together often do. They have loved our children, gone on some fun adventures with us and much more!  We enjoyed learning more of their adventures together as well as asking them some great questions about life and marriage. We recently created a IG account for the...

We would love to hear from you! Courtney & Shawn round out their Essentials in Marriage list with: - Kids Change You - Keep Dating - Friendship When someone asks you who your best friend is, do you name your spouse?  Courtney & Shawn discuss how to keep their relationship primary in the midst of family, work, and social dynamics. Thank you for listening and for sharing your feedback! As al...

We would love to hear from you! Part 2 of the Marriage Essentials list: Financials, Expectations & Gender Roles, Extended Family Thank you for listening and please feel free to reach out to us on social media. We recently created a IG account for the podcast and would love for you to give it a look @hornsbymarriageadventures If you found anything helpful or encouraging, please consider subscri...