Andrea Ashley
Adult Child
Raw, honest, and a little unhinged - Adult Child dives into the lasting impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family. Host Andrea Ashley, a recovering shitshow with 17 years sober, unpacks complex trauma, codependency, and inner child healing with unapologetic authenticity and zero BS.
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Episodes
226 - Losing Yourself in Love: Why You Become Whoever They Need You to Be w/ Tammy Sollenberger 15.04.2026 52:19
Tammy Sollenberger is an IFS therapist and host of The One Inside podcast, and today she's not holding back. She shares about the sudden loss of her father and a devastating breakup — and how both pulled her back to a wound she's been carrying since before she was born: unwanted. ✨ What this episode explores ▪️ Grieving a Parent You Had a Complicated Relationship With — What it's lik...
Shitshow Saturday #199 - The 4 Alarms of Hypervigilance 11.04.2026 31:08
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225 - The Deepest Wounds, the Darkest Shame: Covert Incest, Relapse & Radical Self-Compassion w/ Paul Gilmartin 08.04.2026 1:26:26
The parts of you that carry the most shame are the parts that most need to be seen. Paul Gilmartin , host of the Mental Illness Happy Hour , is back on Adult Child for the third time, and this is the most vulnerable he's ever been. He shares the story of his recent relapse, how the covert incest he survived as a child shaped his sexuality in ways he's been ashamed of for most of his life,...
Shitshow Saturday #198 - The Return of Nate 04.04.2026 34:22
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224 - Scared to Be Seen: Finding Authenticity Through Parts Work w/ Jesse Deal 01.04.2026 1:04:15
The moment you finally see yourself is the moment you no longer fear being seen. Jesse Deal is a trauma recovery coach, parts work practitioner, and host of the podcast Trauma Unbound. After a lifetime of playing it small, he walked away from the life he'd been surviving in and started building the one he was actually meant for. This is a conversation about the fear of being seen, finding auth...
Shitshow Saturday #197 - Wendy N. 28.03.2026 39:55
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223 - Love That Looks Like Rescue: Trauma Bonds & Outgrowing Relationships w/ Marina Triner 25.03.2026 1:01:23
When the person you're trying to save feels exactly like the parent you couldn't. Marina Triner is a somatic coach and host of the Deep Within podcast who helps people move through deep-rooted patterns of stress, emotional disconnection, and shutdown through nervous system regulation and body-based healing. In today's episode, she shares how outgrowing her marriage allowed her to acces...
Shitshow Saturday #196 - Sarah O. 21.03.2026 49:14
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222 - Feeling What You've Been Thinking: Embodying Your Emotions w/ Cory Scott 18.03.2026 1:12:05
Cory Scott is a therapist, somatic experiencing practitioner, EMDR specialist, and VITA sex, love, and relationship coach who's back for round two. As the scapegoat child in her family, she spent years channeling repressed anger from childhood into righteous blame, eating disorders, and a stress response she'd mistaken for her personality. She now helps people access the aliveness and free...
Shitshow Saturday #195 - Katie M. 14.03.2026 40:27
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221 - The Perfect Daughter Trap: Learning Who You Are Without Them w/ Vevian Vozmediano 11.03.2026 1:05:27
You don't know who you are because you were too busy being who she needed you to be. Viviana Vozmediano is a trauma-informed coach who works with women who grew up with emotionally unavailable mothers - and she's speaking from experience. After spending her childhood as a Jehovah's Witness trying to be the perfect daughter to earn her mother's love, she was excommunicated and lost...
Shitshow Saturday #194 - Fear In All It's Forms 07.03.2026 33:25
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220 - The Trauma You Didn't: Unconscious Wounds & Epigenetics w/ Mark Wolynn 04.03.2026 1:05:06
What if the anxiety you feel didn’t start with you at all? This episode uncovers how inherited trauma and unconscious patterns shape our lives, Mark Wolynn is a leading expert in inherited family trauma and director of the Family Constellation Institute. , and author of the acclaimed ‘It Didn’t Start with You. He recently published a revised and updated edition of his international bestseller It D...
219 - Phone Addiction Through the Lens of Trauma: The Truth Behind Your Screen Time 25.02.2026 44:18
This is an epidemic no one is talking about: adult phone addiction. Millions of people are struggling worldwide—and most don’t realize how much it’s impacting their focus, mood, relationships, and ability to be present. In this episode, I break down 8 manifestations of compulsive phone behavior, how to tell when you’re in it, and why “just stop” doesn’t work when your phone has become your nervous...
Shitshow Saturday #192 - Why You Can't Ask For Help 21.02.2026 37:24
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218 - Finding Your Voice Through Intimacy: Beyond Freeze, Fear, and Fawning w/ Leah Carey 18.02.2026 1:07:11
Leah Carey is a Sex and Relationship Coach and host of the Good Girls Talk About Sex podcast. She helps thoughtful, self-aware adults who grew up in fear-based environments to stop freezing, over-explaining, and second-guessing themselves in relationships. In other words: in a world filled with confusion and fear, Leah helps sex make sense. Drawing on her own healing journey from fear and repressi...
Shitshow Saturday #191 - Courtney B. 14.02.2026 37:34
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217 - Good Kid, Quiet Wreckage: Relational Shame, the Silent Treatment & The War You Waged on Yourself w/ Maggie Nick 11.02.2026 1:17:55
Maggie Nick is a trauma therapist and author of the newly published book Good Kids: Why You Suffered in Silence and How to Break the Cycle . She grew up as the good kid in a home with a personality-disordered mother - performing, complying, and quietly falling apart while making sure nobody ever saw the real her. After years of working through what she thought was the "real" trauma, she di...
Shitshow Saturday #190 - The Betrayal Wound 07.02.2026 39:01
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216 - How Trauma Becomes Sexual Compulsion: Shame, Betrayal & Technology Addiction w/ Duane Osterlind 04.02.2026 1:17:15
Duane Osterlind is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – and the host of The Addicted Mind . He specializes in helping individuals and couples impacted by sexual compulsion, porn addiction, and betrayal trauma. His Shame to Resilience group program helps men who've caused sexual betrayal learn to regulate their shame so they can finally show up with t...
Shitshow Saturday #189 - The Many Faces of Dysfunction 31.01.2026 1:16:17
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215 - Repeat or Recover w/ Dr. Tian Dayton: The Cost of Relational Trauma 28.01.2026 1:26:23
Dr. Tian Dayton is a clinical psychologist, Senior Fellow at The Meadows, and author of 15 books, including the upcoming Growing Up With Addiction: How Adult Children of Addicts Can Heal Family Trauma, CPTSD, and Codependency . In this conversation, Tian draws on her 40+ years as a professional in trauma and addiction, alongside her own lived experience growing up with alcoholism, to paint a deep...
Shitshow Saturday #188 - Crystal 24.01.2026 49:48
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214: Challenging the Narrative on Personality Disorders w/ Dr. Peter Salerno: Is It Always Trauma? 21.01.2026 1:38:22
Does narcissistic personality disorder always trace back to trauma? This episode explores what truly lies beneath personality disorders. Dr. Peter Salerno is a psychologist specializing in personality disorders and the author of “ The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism ” and “ Cruelty by Nature .” His work challenges mainstream assumptions, arguing that personality disorders can develop independentl...
Shitshow Saturday #187 - Same Family, Different Childhoods (Amy & Kristie) 17.01.2026 42:05
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