According To Wes

Have you ever been compared to someone else in your relationship? That sinking feeling when your partner suggests you should be "more like" someone from their past is something many of us have experienced—and it rarely ends well.

Ever wondered why some people seem to navigate life's challenges with grace while others constantly bounce from one crisis to another? The difference might be a virtue we rarely discuss in modern times: prudence. This episode explores how the ancient virtue of prudence—acting with care and thought for the future—creates a foundation for exceptional quality of life. While our culture celebrate...

What lies behind the walls we build around our hearts? Why do we sometimes push away the very connection we crave most deeply? This exploration of emotional barriers goes straight to the heart of a profound paradox in human relationships, revealing the silent tests we create for others. The walls we build aren't always meant to keep people out—sometimes they're secret pleas to see who ca...

Relationships require proper acknowledgment and clear boundaries, whether in marriages, parent-child relationships, or financial arrangements. • The importance of making your partner feel valued, especially when competing with other priorities • How to navigate adult children living at home, including establishing financial responsibilities  • Setting boundaries and clear expectations helps prepar...

We introduce the concept of "passive simping" - knowingly acting like a simp to get what you want - and discuss how this strategy plays out in everything from casual dating to marriage.

We explore the profound meaning behind the quote "No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training; it is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable." This ancient wisdom challenges us to reconsider our relationship with physical wellness as more than optional—it's a fundamental responsibility we have to...

We explore what our 25-year-old selves would think about our current career paths and discuss how traditional career advice has failed our generation. We encourage you to share your own career journey with us on social media and let us know what advice you'd give your younger self.

Ancient wisdom reminds us not to let future anxieties rob us of present peace. Our capacity for reason and problem-solving remains constant, providing the tools we need to face whatever challenges may come.

We dive deep into the uncomfortable realities of dating, relationships, and personal hygiene that nobody wants to talk about but everyone needs to hear. From mortifying intimate encounters to financial decisions that make or break relationships, this episode doesn't hold back on the messy truths of adulthood. • Dating dynamics in your 30s and the evolution of relationship labels • Home renova...

We explore the complex balance between personal autonomy and partnership in marriage, examining how control, boundaries, and mutual respect shape our daily happiness. • Keeping certain purchases private from your spouse can sometimes maintain peace • Late-night conversations when you're tired often lead to saying things you'll regret • The concept of "provider" means different...

Tim Allen's transformation from cocaine dealer to Hollywood star reveals stark privilege in the justice system. His cooperation with authorities after being caught with 650 grams of cocaine led to multiple convictions while allowing him to avoid a life sentence and build a successful entertainment career. • Tim Allen faced life imprisonment for cocaine trafficking before becoming a TV star •...

Wes and DeLaw tackle the financial pressures of modern life, from the shocking $80 price tag for pay-per-view boxing matches to the complex question of whether one spouse should pay for another's $73,000 student loan debt. • Boxing pay-per-view events now cost $80 regardless of Amazon Prime membership status • The concept of "stressed man strength" versus the traditional idea of &qu...

We venture into the dynamics of charm and communication within lasting relationships. With humor and honesty, we reflect on what it means to maintain attraction and strengthen bonds in marriage.  • Examining the evolution of charm in relationships  • Reflecting on past experiences and learning from team dynamics  • Conversations on job security, downsizing, and its emotional impact  • The signific...

Balancing humor and honesty, this episode navigates the complexities of relationships and everyday challenges couples face. From a Valentine's Day spending spree to the tension surrounding gym friendships, discussions reveal insecurities, trust, and the journey of maintaining love amidst chaos. • Valentine’s Day spending impacting relationships  • Light-hearted conversations about raising chi...

My love language is expensive car parts but I'll settle for a new video game and some good food 

How big does your circle of friends need to be? The dynamics of friendships and relationships provides never-ending stories of loyalty, trust, and the evolving nature of personal values. 

What really happens when you mix gambling winnings with personal spending? Balancing the love we have for our wives and our check books, nothing has changed on our end. Happy New Year!

Election Day and marriage advice from random guys on the internet, what could go wrong ?

Can contentment truly be the greatest form of wealth? Inspired by the wisdom of Socrates, I embark on a personal journey to unravel the pressures of modern life. Through a tapestry of personal anecdotes, I explore how social media algorithms weave illusions of success that tempt us with the allure of bigger houses, faster cars, and dream vacations. I open up about my own curated feed of cats and c...

Boundaries need to be set no longer will you be obligated to be a team player, help people in need or pay child support. 

Ever wonder if it's ever okay to crush your nephew in a video game? Today on the According to Wes podcast, we dive into a heated Tekken 8 match between an uncle and his young nephew that spiraled into a Reddit debate on sportsmanship and life lessons. You’ll hear Wes recount his own battles with family game nights and the challenge of balancing tough love with encouragement. From Uno and Sorr...

All we can say is protect your peace King, they only want you for your DJANGO.... (The JANGO Is Silent)

You hate to hear it but one of you in the relationship is the cook, house keeper, chauffeur....you know who you are  

You hit on a parlay, are you telling your wife ? The answer is always no, she'll try to quit her job or something like that. 

Time to sip wine and break out the "Sharkoochie" board as DeLaw and Wes discuss facts vs opinions in life and relationships along with draggin' employers for being them....MESSY!