A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction

In this episode, Jaime talks to seasoned tax attorney Hubert Johnson about the financial complexities of divorce. Hubert dives into the tax implications of divorce, from filing status changes to the proper handling of alimony, child support, and asset divisions. He emphasizes the importance of getting informed early to avoid costly mistakes and protect your financial future. Whether your concern i...

Betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker Lora Cheadle is joining Jaime to explore how to transform feelings of betrayal into empowerment. Lora shares her story of healing after discovering her husband’s long-term infidelity and reveals the practices and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild her life. They discuss the importance of grieving authentically, learning to reclaim self-trust,...

Dawn Wiggins is a divorce recovery coach and therapist and, in this episode, she shares her personal journey of healing from trauma and divorce and the transformative techniques she uses to help others, including EMDR, EFT tapping, and homeopathy. Jaime and Dawn explore how childhood attachment issues and unresolved trauma can impact relationships, and how holistic healing methods can empower indi...

In this episode, Jaime's joined by Victoria Kirilloff, a certified divorce financial analyst and mediator with a passion for empowering individuals during the divorce process. Drawing from her own challenging divorce experience, Victoria created the Divorce Impact Analysis Report, a comprehensive tool designed to provide financial clarity for those navigating this complex journey. Victoria discuss...

Jaime's joined by Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, a divorce financial preparation service. They share how financial preparedness can make or break a divorce settlement, highlighting the importance of financial clarity and separating emotions from financial decisions. Learn how their innovative approach empowers individuals to make informed decisions and ne...

Jaime and fellow family law attorney Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal, are tackling relocation in custody cases. As separated parents contemplate moving to a new city, state, or country, what happens to the children? Jaime and Theresa explore the factors judges consider, the impact of relocation on a child's well-being, and potential changes to custody schedules. Whether considering a move o...

In this episode, Jaime sits down with Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, to explore how divorce can compel a profound personal transformation. Karen, a seasoned divorce coach, shares her personal journey from a tumultuous divorce to finding serenity and purpose. Discover how embracing personal growth, setting boundaries, and emotional regulation can lead to a more fulfilling life po...

Jaime's talking with Tami Hackbarth, a certified life and work coach, author, and host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. Together, they explore the Fair Play system, a revolutionary approach to dividing household tasks that promotes equity and clear communication between partners. Tami explains how Fair Play can help both married couples and divorced co-parents by fostering cooperation, re...

Cat Flowers, the founder of Cat's Eye Private Investigations, discusses how and when private investigations can help in family law cases. With a background in law enforcement and a dedication to meticulous investigation, Flowers emphasizes the crucial importance of uncovering hidden facts that can significantly impact legal proceedings. As the landscape of private investigations in family law cont...

Join Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for family law cases. From addressing common litigant m...

Jaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find out how to figure out whether you’re emotionally r...

Jaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logistics of co-parenting a child living under two househ...

In this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide invaluable insights into what to anticipate during...

In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide for those facing a divorce involving a spouse strugg...

In this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common dilemmas individuals face while making this life-a...

In this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance of self-care. He empowers parents following separat...

In this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Together,...

In this episode, Jaime sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and renowned divorce financial analyst. Together, they delve into the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, shedding light on why every couple, not just the wealthy, should consider this crucial legal document. Lisa breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, reveals the common misconceptions, and shares...

In this episode, we delve into a profound conversation with Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation (NMF), as we explore the often-overlooked connection between menopause and divorce. Over and over again, in conversations, webinars, and group meetings with the NMF, women often reference feeling convinced that they were going to get a divorce during the journey to menopause. J...

In this episode, Jaime and family law attorney Melissa Essick delve into the complexities of crafting a holiday schedule that takes into account the unique needs of your family. With the holiday season fast approaching, Jaime and Melissa provide expert insights and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges, emotions, and unique complexities that can arise during this festive time. Discove...

To honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jaime and fellow family law attorney Meredith Cross are delving into the sensitive yet critical issue of domestic violence within the context of divorce. Domestic violence can complicate divorce proceedings, exacerbating an already complex situation. Hear more about the legal aspects, challenges, and potential solutions when domestic violence intersects...

In this episode, Jaime's joined by Rick Salmeron, a Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Salmeron Financial. Rick specializes in guiding individuals through the often-overlooked financial advantages of divorce, and he's seen the hidden silver lining within this life event and the powerful opportunities it can bring. From taking control of your financial ship to exploring investment strategie...

In this episode, Jaime sits down with board-certified family law specialist Lynn McNally, a partner at the Smith Debnam Law Firm in Raleigh to discuss practical ways to support your loved ones navigating divorce. Lynn and Jaime discuss the vital role that support persons can play during the process of divorce, including considerations for legal consultations, attorney-client privilege, and the del...

Join us as we tackle the intriguing and often taboo topic of open marriages and their potential effects on divorce cases. In this episode, Jaime is joined by fellow Gailor Hunt attorneys Melissa Essick and Grace Massarelli to discuss the legal implications that arise when couples have consensual non-monogamous relationships. Interestingly, they have recently seen an increase in divorce cases invol...

In this episode, Jaime delves into the topic of infidelity and its implications in divorce cases with Michelle Chiaramonte, a clinical social worker and therapist specializing in marriage and couples counseling. They explore why people cheat, the changing dynamics of infidelity across genders, and how individuals can navigate the aftermath of an affair. Discover valuable insights into the emotiona...