A Rageful Woman

Send us Fan Mail There is nothing worse than ignorance (no tea, no shade) around all matters sexual. Lori makes the case for why comprehensive sex education is sorely needed for adults. Listen and shake your head. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram: harlemgurl155 Facebook: LoriAnn Holmes-Wheaton If you are interested in having me on a guest on your podcast or s...

Send us Fan Mail Single mothers are to blame for everything that ails society.  Single mothers have to settle when dating and they are not allowed to have expectations. According to deadbeat fathers, single mothers are trying to get rich off of the $50 a week they sporadically send to take care of their children. Single mothers did not become single mothers by themselves. It's hilarious to he...

Send us Fan Mail What happened to the uproar and hoopla concerning Livingston Allen aka D.J. Akademics? YouTubers and social media pundits where dragging him for filth. Everyone had commentary were giving commentary on his behavior.  Faux outrage and faux indignation. Labelling his sick behavior "weird" does not do justice to the predatory actions visited upon a 15 year-old boy. Support...

Send us Fan Mail Listen in as Loriann explore an age old issue. Society has two sets of standards. One for women and one for men. Men can do whatever they want with little or no repercussions. Women are held to a much higher standard and will be dragged if they dare step out of line. Black women catch the most heat. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram: harlemgur...

Send us Fan Mail Let's normalize talking about mental health and suicide in our communities. We must come out of the proverbial closet and stop reinforcing the stigma around black people having hard conversations about taboo subjects. Black people need a soft place to land, especially in our homes. Listen in as Loriann explores this often stigmatized topic. Support the show Stay connected: Yo...

Send us Fan Mail In 2025 so-called men of the cloth and church congregations are publicly shaming pregnant women. Bishop Terry W. Jackson from True Vine Apostolic Church in Hampton, Virginia decided it would be a good idea to publicly shame a 19 year old woman because she was pregnant out of so-called wedlock.  What was the pastor trying to accomplish? Why would her mother co-sign the misogyny? Wh...

Send us Fan Mail Why would a man sign up to be number 53 out of 100 men to have sex with a virtual stranger? Para-social relationships are not real relationships. I'm sure some of her fans think that they are in a relationship with her. Much of the disgust, disdain and hatred has been leveled towards Lily Philips, the young woman who was on a mission to sleep with 100 men in one day. What abo...

Send us Fan Mail Nothing like good old victim shaming. The blame game is alive and well. Blaming and shaming is low hanging fruit. Inevitably the victim will be blamed for the violation that they experienced. From "where are the receipts?" to "where were her parents?" Society is often looking for a way to take the onus off of the perpetrator(s). Support the show Stay connected:...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever heard of the "husband stitch?" Once again the patriarchy has found its way in-between women's legs. Also called the "daddy stitch" or the "vaginal tuck." Listen as Lori discusses the so-called "daddy stitch" and how it is harmful to women. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram: harlemgurl1...

Send us Fan Mail Men are losing their collective minds over Sophie Rain. But why? She is giving them what they want. The law of supply and demand. Why are they so mad?  XY's are okay with women and girls taking off their clothes and providing them with sexual gratification; but when these women make lots of money off these men, they go into shenanigan mode. Listen as Lori, discusses the patri...

Send us Fan Mail With all that's going on in the world, it's easy to forget the violence against women and girls that happens every day. I think that society has become jaded and those women and girls become statistics. Behind statistics are people, families and communities. We must ask ourselves why do the stories of so many woman and girls go unheard of. Do we not care? Are these women...

Send us Fan Mail What is the difference between a high value man and a high earning man? Just because a man has a lot of zeros in his net worth, that does not mean he is high value.  How do fairy tales set us all up for failure? What is the definition of a trophy? Listen as Lori tries to untangle this massive web of lies, myths and misinformation. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "O...

Send us Fan Mail What's up with this not all bull crap. When "not all" is added to the discourse it is a distraction. Let's start from the premise that of course it's never, "all." I find it interesting when the conversation is about women and the mistreatment at the hands of men, the first thing out of some folks' mouth is "well it's not all.&quot...

Send us Fan Mail It is frightening to know that some of these men (and a few women) who committed heinous crimes, most against children could be walking amongst us and be released back into our communities. The behind the scenes at these boards needs to be monitored by us, the public. Trigger Warning: This episode contains content that discusses rape, sexual assault, sexual abuse and violence agai...

Send us Fan Mail You talk too much. Always running your mouth. So, I interrupted you again, what's the big deal?  In a 2014 study done by George Washington University, men interrupted women 2.1 times in a three-minute conversation compared to 1.8 times when they interrupted other men. If you're like me, you have probably experienced, "manterrupting." In this episode Loriann wil...

Send us Fan Mail It's no secret that pimp culture is glamorized and celebrated. While society is looking at pimp's as role models - the girls and women and exploit are forgotten and/or dismissed. The bodies of women and girls are bought, sold and violated by men. The demand for very young girls and young girls is in high demand. Listen in as Lori explores pimp culture, the sex trade, sex...

Send us Fan Mail Some women get cosmetic surgery for themselves. Some get surgery for their significant other and/or the pressure from society to look "perfect." What is perfection? Who gets to decide? The male and female gaze is alive and well. Even more disturbing is the number of tween and teen girls who aspire to have cosmetic surgery. Listen along as Loriann discusses some of the is...

Send us Fan Mail It's 2024 and in some circles, light skin, darkskin, 4C hair are topics of conversation. Remember the iconic musical number in Spike Lee's School Daze? Is it still jigaboos versus wannabees? Why do black women still hear "you are attractive for a black woman," or "if you were a little lighter, you would be fine." Support the show Stay connected: YouTu...

Send us Fan Mail Social media is bringing attention to the missing, murdered and abused women that too often the public does not hear about. Listen as Lori recites a horrifying list of cases from social media, Attention must be brought to these cases. Lest we forget. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram: harlemgurl155 Facebook: LoriAnn Holmes-Wheaton If you are i...

Send us Fan Mail Giving birth is supposed to be one of the most joyous occasions for women and their friends and family. Unfortunately, far too many Black women are dying after childbirth. Why? What can be done? In part one of a multiple part series, Lori examines the issue. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram: harlemgurl155 Facebook: LoriAnn Holmes-Wheaton If y...

Send us Fan Mail Who protects women? Why don't we believe women? The anti-woman sentiment is alive and well. Why do people not believe women, unless there is visual proof? Are women inherently liars? Lori discusses the P. Diddy sh** show and other issues related to domestic partner violence and intimate partner violence. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram:...

Send us Fan Mail What's appropriate or inappropriate teacher behavior? When and how should educators draw the line? Lori has over 30 years experience as an educator and has seen it all. Listen in as she discusses setting boundaries. Support the show Stay connected: YouTube - "OldDish Doll Instagram: harlemgurl155 Facebook: LoriAnn Holmes-Wheaton If you are interested in having me on a gu...

Send us Fan Mail Too often black girls are described as "fast", mature for their age and hypersexual. The Jezebel trope.  Other girls are given grace to be innocent so therefore are protected. The narrative about black girls is not true and if society thinks that they have no innocence - no one will protect them. Join Lori as she discusses this very important topic. *My apologies - this...

Send us Fan Mail In March 2024, a beautiful black woman who was a mom, wife, daughter, friend and social media influencer/personality died as a result of being misdiagnosed with fibroids. Turns out she had stage 3 cervical cancer. Why are black women disproportionately misdiagnosed with medical illnesses as well as mental illnesses? Please join Loriann as she explores this disturbing reality. Supp...

Send us Fan Mail Violence against women/girls unfortunately has become part of the fabric of the culture.  Misogyny and misogynoir has created an atmosphere that make women and girls vulnerable and victims to violence.  Join Loriann as she discusses violence against women and intimate partner violence and how the intersectionality of racism and sexism contributes to a culture of violence. Support...