A Quiet Divorce

This is the week of all weeks, I’m going to be signing my divorce papers that will officially end my 10 year relationship. Not really sure how to prepare for this but we do what we need to do and find the strength to keep going. Deep breaths….

We are now a few months into the divorce process and so many things can happen and go wrong. Can we agree on a settlement? Tune in to find out. 

What do you think of when you think of the word, closure? I use to think closure with an EX meant that you would talk about the break-up, maybe even have an argument or some form of communication before you stopped communicating altogether. In this particular case, my closure was in the form of a letter that I wrote and emailed. Tune into this episode to learn about my letter and what it did...

My "Divorce Process" was a very tedious one as there wasn't alot of property, money nor ties between my Ex-husband and I. Divorce becomes a long process due to lack of cooperation of one or both sides. In my case, it was my Ex-husband. You endure alot of loss when it comes to divorce. You can loose your friends, money, dignity and self-worth but it doesn't have to be this way.  Become your ow...

What do you think of when you hear the word, "FORGIVE"? Do you feel that you can truly forgive and forget? Who is the most important person that you have to learn to forgive? and Why? Listen to this episode to learn my perspective on forgiveness.

It's moving day soon and I never thought I would be relieved to be moving on but so terrified at the same time. Find out what worries me the most and how I make it through my "First Night" in my new house. 

The time has come to move on to a new address and essentially a new start. I continue to learn more and more about how I got here, how my EX husband plays such a big role in my decision to move forward with the divorce. I also loose more than just my marriage in this episode. 

How would you handle getting the worse news you could possibly imagine? Or having to find a new place to live after almost a decade of marriage. In this episode, I talk about all the main events that led me to the final decision of separation. New address and new chapter.

What a year 2016 was for me, my marriage and my life! Learning about a dear friends illness, having to re-evaluate my marriage and making all these decisions about my life that I wasn't prepared to make. Life throws you all kinds of curveballs and how we handle them directly effects the outcomes. 

This week is all about my "Training Day”. My baby boy is now home and I’m learning how to deal with all the different things that all mothers go through at some point. I tackle how to handle the judgement from others and from yourself. This episode really deep dives into all the issues that we as new moms face and continue to learn from every day. I also reveal a secret that was kept and was...

Thank you for being here with me and welcome!  "A Quiet Divorce" is a podcast about not only my story but yours as well. Follow my relationship journey from first meeting, wedding, challenges to ultimately divorce. As you feign to understand my relationship, I hope this podcast will help you better understand you and your relationships too. 

It's life after the wedding and the honeymoon. We just moved into our newly renovated house and our new life together was about to begin. But our new life came with new and old problems.  Newly married or not, new house or not, issues always seem to be around us with such a large family. Who can relate?

Every little girls dream is about her BIG DAY...Her Wedding! In last week's episode, The Wedding talks about the planning and the few hiccups that come with planning a wedding. The flowers, the dress, the food and all the possible family feuds. The Wedding Part 2 continues to the next day after the argument we had and really dives into how I was feeling, what I was thinking and all the other thing...

It's been a year since I moved to San Francisco and we just got engaged!!! I am starting to wedding plan with his family and getting to know everyone on a more personal level. We run into a couple of hiccups all before the wedding day, listen in to see what happens. 

My time has finally arrived, the day he would propose and move our relationship to the next level. As a young girl, I would occasionally think about the day someone, my special someone would ask me to marry him. Even though I wasn't big on marriage, we all love the magical part of any story. The fantasy part of getting married besides the actual wedding has to be perfect, memorable and life c...

This episode is all about my Big Move to San Francisco and learning about expectations and how to make sure we ask for what we need and want no matter how uncomfortable it can be at times.

This episode is all about my time spent in Vegas and how I met my Ex-husband. I think it is very important to understand how the beginning of any story started, get the details in the middle and ultimately learn how it ended. This is the best way to relate to another person and hopefully learn from their mistakes, and believe me we ALL make them. Thank you again for tuning in. Bye for now.