A Little Throuple Tea – Gay Throuple Podcast | 3Dudes1Life

We finally escaped for a much-needed vacation to Lake Tahoe and Reno… and honestly, it was exactly what we needed. This week we’re breaking down our entire Tahoe trip, from beautiful hikes and lake days to family time, casino adventures, Lime scooter rides, giant pine trees, and the reason we ended up extending the vacation instead of coming home. We talk about what surprised us most about Tahoe,...

☀️ Episode 24 is here and we’re kicking off summer vacation season! This week we’re talking all things summer including vacations, road trips, beach days, pool life, fireworks disasters, camping stories, and the summer memories that still make us laugh years later. We also answer two new Throuple Hotline questions that immediately turn into chaos:📞 Are you supposed to arrive at 6:00 PM… or leave...

🎉 Episode 23 is here and we’re celebrating Daniel’s 40th birthday! This week we look back at the last 15 years together, talk about what has changed (and what definitely hasn’t), discuss life lessons, aging, friendship, family, and what we’re most excited about for the future. We also dive into one of our favorite Throuple Hotline questions yet, wrap up Pride Month with a Pride-themed Bowl of Cha...

Remember when making friends was as easy as sharing crayons or sitting at the same lunch table? This week, we’re talking about how friendships change as you get older. From childhood best friends and high school friend groups to adult friendships that somehow survive years without a text message, we’re diving into what happens when life, careers, relationships, and responsibilities start pulling e...

What happens when the Bowl of Chaos goes on vacation and leaves us unsupervised? In Episode 21 of A Little Throuple Tea, three gay men in a real-life throuple turn Never Have I Ever into a full episode… and immediately regret it. What starts as a simple drinking game spirals into hookup confessions, relationship crimes, household secrets, Pride Month chaos, Summer House tangents, and one very impo...

Have you ever wondered what would happen if a professional astrologer sat down and analyzed your entire personality? This week, we found out. After visiting a spiritual expo in Southern California, Daniel and Will had their birth charts professionally read while Caleb received his first-ever tarot card reading. What started as a fun afternoon quickly turned into a surprisingly accurate deep dive i...

This episode starts with Vegas…and somehow ends with incest jokes, dragon fruit trauma, and an emotional goodbye to a huge chapter of our lives. 😭 In Episode 19 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we talk about: ​Daniel surviving the Wizard of Oz Sphere experience in Vegas 🎰 ​Why sitting FRONT ROW at the Sphere is a terrible idea ​The emotional moment we officially handed off Out at the Fair after 14 ye...

One side of the bed got a perfect sleep score…The other side apparently VANISHED for almost 2 hours. 👽 In Episode 18 of A Little Throuple Tea, we spiral into one of the weirdest things that’s ever happened to us after Caleb’s Sleep Number data showed he disappeared from bed for 1 hour and 49 minutes — with ZERO memory of it happening. Was it sleepwalking? A glitch? Aliens? Honestly… we’re not rul...

Before the throuple, before California, before the chaos… we were just three very different kids growing up in very different worlds. This week, we’re going all the way back — childhood memories, teenage chaos, first jobs, first relationships (yes… even the girl era), and the moments that shaped who we are today. From desert lizard hunting to Midwest lake life… from religious upbringings to party...

Is it a red flag… or is it just gay? This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we break down the behaviors, habits, and reality TV moments that make people ask: Is he toxic? Is he confused? Is he secretly gay? Or is he just moisturized and emotionally available? We talk red flags, gaydar, reality TV men, Summer House chaos, modern masculinity, beauty routines, emotional intelligence, and why some people...

What do straight people always ask gay couples and throuples? This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we break down the funniest, weirdest, most common questions straight people ask about gay relationships. Who’s the girl? Who’s the top? How do holidays work? Do your families know? How does a throuple even work? We talk chosen family, communication, boundaries, stereotypes, why LGBTQ+ spaces matter, a...

What happened after Death Valley? In this episode, we finish our Death Valley road trip and break down everything from our final stops in the park to the total chaos of getting home. In Episode 14 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we pick up where Part 1 left off — this time from home — recapping how the trip ended, what stood out most, and why the ride back somehow became its own adventure. This is Par...

What is Death Valley actually like? In Episode 13 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we take the podcast on the road — recording from our hotel room in Stovepipe Wells Village after the first few days of our trip. This is Part 1 of our Death Valley series, where we break down everything we’ve experienced so far, what surprised us, and what the desert is actually like beyond the photos. Over the first thr...

You see what we post. But you don’t see everything. In Episode 12 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we talk about the parts of our life that stay off the internet — not because we’re hiding anything, but because some things are meant to be protected. This isn’t drama. This isn’t exposing each other. This is about boundaries. We get honest about: • The fights you don’t see — and why conflict isn’t conten...

Gay culture loves youth. But what happens when you’re not 25 anymore? In Episode 11 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we have an honest conversation about aging as gay men — what changes, what gets better, and what people don’t talk about enough. This isn’t a rant. This isn’t anti-young people. This is just a real conversation about how life shifts through your 20s, 30s, and 40s — especially in a cultur...

How do you go through life… and not see  these  movies? In Episode 10 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we put Daniel on the spot and run through the ultimate list of movies everyone assumes you’ve seen — and quickly realize… he has missed A LOT. From classic 90s blockbusters to iconic comedies, cultural staples, and the entire gay movie canon, this episode turns into a full-on roast, reaction, and chao...

What does 10 years of love actually look like? Not the highlight reel. Not the fantasy. The real version. In Episode 9 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we talk about what long-term love actually becomes after the early excitement fades — and why that’s not a bad thing. We break down the difference between what people  think  a throuple relationship looks like versus what it actually takes to maintain o...

Every friend group has Golden Girl energy… the real question is which one you actually are. In Episode 8 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we attempt to figure out which Golden Girl each of us truly is — and quickly realize you don’t get to assign your own character. Your friends do. We break down the personalities of Dorothy, Blanche, Rose, and Sophia, argue about which one we think we are, and reveal...

Is  Tres Amigos, Una Vida  a true story… or fiction? In Episode 7 of  A Little Throuple Tea , we finally unpack the question we get asked constantly: How much of the book is real? This episode goes deeper than the surface. We talk about why we wrote the book in the first place, what parts of our real lives inspired it, what was changed for storytelling, and why the ending of Book One was never mea...

In Episode 6 of  A Little Throuple Tea , three gay men in a real-life throuple share the story of the one and only time they met another throuple in the wild — and why it completely changed how they see relationship dynamics. No names. No timelines. No identifying details. This isn’t gossip. It’s a cautionary tale. From subtle red flags to a power dynamic that felt… off, this episode unpacks the m...

Can your hands expose your entire relationship dynamic? In Episode 5 of  A Little Throuple Tea , three gay men in a real-life throuple let the Sassy Palm Reading Queen take over and read what’s written in their actual palms. Heart lines. Head lines. Life lines. Fate lines. Who loves the hardest? Who overthinks the most? Who’s built for longevity? And somehow… why does it all feel accurate? It’s ca...

Is it just us… or did everyone collectively lose the plot? In Episode 4 of  A Little Throuple Tea , three gay men in a real-life throuple clock the chaos of modern life and ask the real question: Are things actually weird now, or are we just tired? From social norms that make zero sense to internet behavior that feels fully unhinged, this episode is rapid-fire, observational, and slightly unhinged...

In this episode of  A Little Throuple Tea , three gay men in a real-life throuple lean into curiosity, conspiracy-adjacent questions, and the kind of topics people love to side-eye but secretly think about anyway. We’re talking aliens, other dimensions, parallel timelines, déjà vu, and things we can’t quite explain — not as experts or truth-tellers, but as three very curious people asking, “Okay b...

In this episode of  A Little Throuple Tea , three gay men in a real-life throuple answer listener-submitted questions that challenge assumptions, test boundaries, and spark honest conversations about visibility, relationships, and public perception. Some questions made us laugh. Some made us pause. And a few reminded us why we don’t answer everything. If you’re into LGBTQ podcasts, throuple dynami...

Season 2 starts here — and Season 1 changed everything. In this episode of  A Little Throuple Tea , three gay men in a real-life throuple break down what actually happened behind the scenes of Season 1: what popped off, what feedback hit harder than expected, what boundaries we learned the hard way, and why Season 2 had to feel different. If you’re into LGBTQ podcasts, gay relationship dynamics, p...