The Susan Winter Show

You thought the two of you were on the same page.  Affection, dates, time together, and time with each other's friends. THEN, this happens. They say they're ‘not ready.' What should you do? #Situationship #NotReady

Are you caught in a loop of waiting and hoping for your ex to come back? Wondering why it's so hard to let go and why you can't stop thinking of them? Here's the cure: #ex #breakups #getbackwithex #obsession

Are you waiting and hoping that one day your ex will realize your worth? Here's why you're  stuck in a loop, obsessed and yearning for a ‘good review' (to make them return): #breakups #worth #ex #goodreview

The ‘justified narcissist' is my term for a person who claims their bad behavior isn't their fault. Their ‘condition' (aka the ‘fake hall pass'), is to blame. Therefore, you're insensitive for complaining and need to accept this reality.# justifiednarcissist #hallpass #selfindulgent #fakecondition #gaslighting #datinggames

Are you struggling to manage fear in your open relationship? Wondering how to be fully present but can't help feeling insecure? Here's the answer to this internal conflict: #openrelationships #fear #insecurity #nonmonogomy

Are you struggling to enjoy a committed relationship but find yourself worrying about the future? When life goals and values don't match, hard decisions must be made. Rather than tread water, try this: #committed #couplegoals

‘Hardballing' means sharing your dating goals on the first date. Done properly, it brings the right partner in. Done improperly, it pushes a qualified partner away. Here's the right and wrong way to hardball: #hardballing #partnerselection #couplegoals

Your ex wants you back — in the future. They need to ‘grow' and ‘heal. Do you trust them? Should you wait? Here's your answer: #ex #breakups #backwithex 

Your human rights supersede any condition of your relationship, including dating title (or lack thereof). You deserve to be treated with respect. Here's how to set that expectation: #humanrights #datingrights #selfworth #respect

Stunned by the fact that someone close ghosted you? Stuck in a loop of wondering ‘why?' This isn't some random person. You can talk to each other. Still confused? Here's the answer: #ghosted #datingadvice #breakups

Too cautious. Too guarded. Too late? Did you lose their love for good? Maybe not. Here's how to tell if you still have a chance: #toolate #lovelost #selfprotection 

Has your partner shut down, gone radio silent silent, or ghosted you? What's the right move? Here's when to reach out and when to cut your losses: #closure #pulling away

It's scary enough running into your ex unexpectedly. But what about running into them with their new lover? Rather than fear this possibility, prepare for it with forethought and confidence. Here's how: #breakups #ex 

Wondering why your partner won't give you a “label?” There are two distinct reasons for not clarifying your status. Want to know which applies to you? Watch this: #nolabel #situationship #datingadvice #validation #title

Finally! You got your ex back. You should be thrilled, right? But you're in the same pattern of arguments and triggered responses. Here's how to exit the loop of reactivity:  #exback #triggers 

Do you have an ongoing fear that the person you want will reject you…even when things are going well? Here's what's happening and how to turn your insecurities into confidence: #rejection #fear #loss

Don't buy the lie when someone says, “I'm a bad texter.” It's a choice. You'll never be a priority with this type of person. Here's why: #badtexter #datinggames

How do you know if they like you? Watch my video for the signs of someone who's seriously interested, as opposed to a fleeting (and self-serving) desire: #attraction #chemistry #love #likeyou

Are you pushing someone away (and wondering whether it's self-sabotage or self-protection)? Here's the difference between setting healthy boundaries and running away from love: #selfsabotage #boundaries #fear #trust

You went No Contact with your ex for your mental health. Now, a trusted friend says you're overreacting. Who do you trust? Your friend, or yourself? Here's the answer: #nocontact #trust #friends

You MUST have that specific partner, right? Why are your thoughts so limited? Learn the secrets of the Law of Substitution to manifest your ideal mate (and release the lesser). #LOA #manifestation #lawofsubstitution #love

Do you (really) want what you say you want? Here's how the Universe will test your newly amended request for a greater love and better partner:  #LOA #manifestation #LawOfAttraction #partnerselection #LoveTest

Partner trying to sabotage you through ‘humor?' Making a joke at your expense is humor that hurts. Deactivate the emotional trigger through this countermove: #control #joke #datinggames #humorhurts


What do you do when your partner loses interest in you? Can you fix it? Learn how to regain their attraction (and desire) while rebuilding your confidence: #attraction #pullingaway #losinginterest #desire 

What makes a person suddenly bail after they were ‘all in'? Here's what happens when their future plans collide with today's reality: #dumped #breakups #allin