Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Matt and Marie recently started hotwiging and they both called in to talk all about it.  Tune in to hear all the details including what his wife did that made him realize he was into hotwifing, how and when he let her know about his kink and what they did about it at first, how and when he got her into meeting a guy in person, the first guy they met up with, what went down and how and why Matt did...

BONUS EP! Tune in to this bonus episode ate hear Kathy and Luna answer listeners questions. How can a gy find a woman who would be down to got to sex parties with him? How can a guy who has been in a sexless relationship get back his confidence in the bedroom and how can a couple avoid awkward role playing scenarios??? Tune in to find out plus hear all about the apps and places where people will m...

Ally Iseman, Modern Relationship coach called in to talk all about jealousy, mistakes in relationships, cheating definitions and more. Tune in to find out how and why she prefers "modern relationships" vs non-monogamous, monogamous, poly etc., how and why she sees jealousy as a tool in a relationship, what to do with jealousy when it does comes up, how “mistakes” in relationships can actually help...

Alex is Into pantyhose and crossdressing and his wife now know and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was first  into hose and high heels, how he got caught wearing and how his parents reacted, where he’s stole his hose from at first, how and when he started hooking up while wearing hose with his guy friend and what would go down, when...

Lena got pregnant by her married boss and had an affair with her high school teacher and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she wound up having g an affair with her teacher in high school, and exactly what went down between them, how and why that affair wired her into liking older guys, the older married guys she started sleeping with at her job and h...

Mr. Mocha was a stud for couples and now he's swinging with Mrs. Mocha and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he wound up banging his co-workers wife in his twenties and exactly what went down, the next guy who asked him to bang his wife and what went down including exactly how he cucked the guy, the swinger club experiences he had early on and what wo...

Layla came on to interview me about my brand-new book and we wound up talking about so much more. Tune in to hear all the details including the unexpected way I started my show and how Craigslist became the gift that kept on giving, how and why non-monogamy can work out and why it’s important it is that people know that, how and why revealing your fantasies is the key to good sex, the hotwife fant...

Lizzie and her wife are having threesomes with her wife and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she met her wife and how they both label themselves sexually, how they were both in other relationships and cheating at first and how they fell in love and wound up together, their first hook up with each other and exactly what went down, how and when they s...

Jamal on getting busted, going to prison, prison sex and a wholeeeeee lot more. Tune in to hear all the details including the early trauma he encountered including his father’s total disapproval of his sexuality, how and why he started taking crystal meth, how and when he started going to adult bookstores and sex parties, how and why he lost his virginity, how he got busted by the feds and what ex...

Layla and Kathy discuss horny women in their forties, HRT, slow fucking, dry humping and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how women in their forties are hornier than ever and why, how and why pellets are a game changer when it comes to sex drive, how peri-menopause is a woman’s ovaries hurrah and how that plays into why women are so horny during that time, how and why you don’t need...

Tucker is into adult arcades, gloryholes, gangbangs and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he first realize he was into guys? When did he go to his first adult arcade? What exactly does he like to do when he’s there? Tune in for all the details including the first time he saw a guy showering when he was younger and how that effected him, the bathhouses and arcades he frequented w...

Tune in to hear a bunch of anonymous cheating confessions plus get Kathy’s take on them. Why do men cheat on women? Why do women cheat on men? And once someone cheats will they always be a cheater? Tune in to find out plus hear from a guy who can’t stop secretly groping his wife’s best friend under the table when the wife is sitting right there, Morgan (ep. #479) who had a free pass to start hotwi...

Halle (ep #956) hotwifes solo now and tapes it for her husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the detials including how she got her sex drive back after losing it after menopause, how and why they decided she should start playing solo with guys vs. the MFM threesomes they normally enjoy, the rules they have for solo play, her first solo play and what went down, the thr...

Natalie's Husband Cheated and then they started swinging and now they’re poly and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when her husband had an affair and how she found out, how and why she stayed with him and how that led to them going to their first swingers club, their first swinger club experience and what went down, their first couple swap and w...

Cate (ep. #1238) is now into women, swinger resorts and clubs, being an exhibitionist and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the detials including when her and her husband decided to open things up, the app they went on and what they went looking for, the first unicorn they met up it’s and exactly what went down including the woman using a strap with her, the nudist s...

Kathy decided to answer a whole list of questions guys are always dying to ask women. Tune in to hear her answer all the questions plus discuss what women really think about body count, whether we actually like dick pics, how often girls masturbate, if waking us up for sex is hot or annoying, whether nice guys really finish last, why women go to the bathroom together, if a wedding ring stops flirt...

Dr. Elliot called in to talk all about penis pumps, tech cock rings, nocturnal erections and a whole lot more. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why a man’s nocturnal erections are a leading indicator of cardiovascular disease, why blood-flow data is key to men’s sexual health, why just taking a “pill” isn’t enough,  how and why he’s now selling a penis pump along with his tech coc...

Lilith is into domming and pegging guys and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when and why she decided to join Fetlife and what she was looking for at first, when she realized she was into domming guys, the first munch she went to and how the guys there treated her, the first hook up she had domming a guy and exactly what went down, her experien...

Bethenny  is dating and sleeping with four guys all at once and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her first threesome led her to dating two guys at once, how she fell for and started hooking up with the other two guys, how she felt when’s she started copping feelings for all of them, how all the guys are friends and the rules they have set in place,...

Dr. Zhana, PhD, NYU professor of Sexuality, called in to talk all about sex and science and how and why some people are actually wired for non-monogamy and kinky sex. Tune in to hear all the details including the fair amount of evidence out there that shows there’s a strong genetic component to some people being way more open sexually than others, how and why non-monogamy should be an option for c...

Socrates was a swinger, then a bull  and now he’s in a stag/vixen relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he got into the lifestyle with his first QOS wife and what they started doing, the Vegas swinging party that he went to and how and why he realized then he was a stag and also wanted to be a bull one day. what went down between the bull...

Jen cheated on Corey and he got turned on by it and now she's a hotwife and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when Corey realized he was into sharing his partner, Jens poly relationship when she was younger and the group sex it led to, how and why she was cheating on him galore, how he found out and how he felt about it, how they used her cheating...

Here's a quick entertaining, bonus episode featuring Adam and Kathy discussing the Strictly Anonymous, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers book pre-orders, X rated Discord access and more. Tune in to hear what's coming up on the remaining Sundays in 2026 and why, sex book writing and how hard it was for Kathy to actually write her book, how annoying Kathy was when writing her book,  how and why sh...

Annie called in to talk all about her experience with the O-shot, female viagra and oxytocin and testosterone cream and how it all led to her taking in seven guys in one night!!! Tune in to hear all the details including her first O-shot experience, what it was like and what it did for her, the guy she banged afterwards and what went down with him, how and why she got a second O-shot experience an...

Bran is into dommes, being humiliated, sph and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what led to him being into humiliation, the super hot domme he met, the online humiliation experiences he had before he met up with her, exactly what went down during their sessions, how he would try to get vanilla girls into dominating him, how he got into sph and h...