Come Talk with Aimee: Sex, Intimacy, and Conversations Worth Coming Back To

Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding. In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it i...

What if the thing you were taught to fear most about your sex life is actually… not a big deal? In this episode, we are dismantling one of the most overblown, misunderstood, and unnecessarily stigmatized topics in sex: herpes. And no, your sex life is not over. Not even close. I’m sitting down with the iconic Tricia Wise , also known as Safe Slut, for a bold, funny, and refreshingly honest convers...

What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live? In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need. I'm sitting dow...

Being a bad bitch isn't just about looking cute and doing self-care. It's about showing up for what you think is right, walking away from what's not working for you, and speaking the fuck out. In this episode, I sit down with comedian, actress, and Bad Bitch Brunch creator Brittany Brave to talk about what it really means to embody confidence in every area of your life, including the b...

From vibrator myths to dating app disasters, we're breaking down what sex education actually missed. In this episode, I sit down with licensed psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Sonya Maya to bust myths, challenge performative sexuality, and talk about what real pleasure actually looks like. Sonya breaks down why chemistry does not equate to compatibility, how vibrators actually build nerve en...

What if understanding your cycle could make you better in bed, more confident in your body, and more connected to your pleasure? In this episode, I sit down with fertility awareness educator Kate Douglas to explore how tracking your cycle isn't just about baby-making or avoiding pregnancy, it's about understanding when you're at your most creative, confident, and yes, turned on. Kate b...

Your body is always talking to you. The question is, are you listening? In this episode, I sit down with intimacy coordinator, sexologist, and podcast host Arielle Zadok to explore embodied consent, the practice of checking in with not just your mind, but your entire body when it comes to desire, boundaries, and sexual experiences. Arielle breaks down what it means to truly listen to your body&#39...

Pussy worship isn't just about technique. It's about enthusiasm, devotion, and creating a space where pleasure is mutual and unapologetic. In this episode, I sit down with psychologist, sexologist, and host of In Bed with Alexa, Alexa Andre. She talks about what real pussy worship looks like, why enthusiasm beats technique every time, how to identify true eaters versus people just going through th...

What happens when we stop whispering about desire and start telling the truth about it? In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee , I’m joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore , a platform dedicated to sharing real, confessional erotica. Not fantasy wrapped in perfection, but honest stories about sex, longing, curiosity, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human in a body. We talk about...

What does it actually mean to step into your pleasure power? In this quickie episode, I'm getting personal and sharing my own journey from purity culture to tapping into my pleasure power. I’m pulling back the curtain on how I reclaimed my pleasure and share about how I went from thinking "sex isn't fun" to discovering what my body is truly capable of.  This is the story of how I...

So, tell me about the last time you had sex…   In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing New York Times bestselling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner, whose books She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex have deeply influenced how I think about pleasure, intimacy, and sexual connection. Ian joins me for a grounded, refreshing conversation about sex scripts, perfo...

If you have ever been curious about play parties but also slightly terrified, confused, or convinced it is just one big chaotic orgy, this episode is for you. Consider this your permission slip to get informed before you go out to play.  In this episode, I sit down with Le Organizer, a longtime play party host and event producer, for a no-BS conversation about what actually happens at play parties...

If you have not watched Heated Rivalry yet, get off this podcast and start watching. No, seriously this episode will have a lot of spoilers.  In this episode, I have my first-ever repeat guest, Rebecca Giguere , intimacy researcher, relationship coach, and the person fully responsible for wrecking my emotional stability by recommending this series to me. We break down why women everywhere are losi...

Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without sha...

Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths ab...

Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emo...

TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST  There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body. In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, inclu...

There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body. In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks do...

There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud. In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire nigh...

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence  There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life. In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dyna...

There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink. In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot. Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it...

What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure? In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your abi...

What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again. In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes...

Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process? In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what i...

What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level. In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor...