Emotional Intelligence Developer

Excerpt: "How to consider other people's emotions in order to develop strong bonds with them. I know it sounds simple enough, but a lot of people don't know how to consider other people's emotions in order to develop strong bonds with them. In this message, I'll explain why taking people for granted leads to regret if you don't play your part. I'm not perfect. I share this message knowing the disa...

Excerpt: "How men can deal with personal issues and overcome emotional problems. As a man, growing up, I kept all my secrets private. Real secrets I'd never share no matter how close you were to me. Unfortunately, I had to learn the hard way why asking for help enables you to deal with your problems. I crashed and burned many times when I could've found solutions. Success came when I finally asked...

Excerpt: "The advantages of being yourself in a world full of liars. I hate fake people who pretend to have what they don't have. Did you know that people who lie end up regretting it when reality knocks on the door? This is why fake people hurt their brand, image, and value when you lie. I can give you an example of a silly situation where a liar was caught red-handed. I was walking down the road...

Excerpt: "Why it's important to deflect harmful people in your life. Did you know that your emotions are strong but not that strong? We're all vulnerable to certain triggers, and if you find the right person at the wrong time, your life can change. You can be a cool and calm person until you're not, and learning how to deal with a bigot can save you from unimaginable pain. The definition of a bigo...

Excerpt: "Did you know that a lot of people want to see you fail, especially when you're doing something that benefits your life? Look at celebrities as an example who fall from grace. How quick are the trolls on the internet that laugh and ridicule a jobless celebrity, as if they can do better? It's unfortunate because most of us like to see people fail. That's why it's important to learn how to...

Excerpt: "Why wishful thinking without an action plan leads to failure.  Have you ever tried to change your behaviour but you fell short? It happens when your goal and heart are not aligned. In this message, I'll share insights on how to maximize positive thoughts and ditch wishful thinking. Because thinking, and doing are two different things.  I'm a good planner. When I work, I always take an A4...

Excerpt: "Why anger and uncontrolled emotions lead to outbursts.  I remember the day I had a Twitter meltdown when X was still called Twitter. I did not have control over my emotions, and I knew I was venting, but I didn't care. The outburst happened anyway. In this message, I'll help you understand how to deal with aggression and violent behaviour because it will benefit your life.  During my Twi...

Excerpt: "How to use emotional intelligence to manage bad behavior. Insights on the disadvantages that can lead to a weak mindset. In this message, I'll share my story about how to use emotional intelligence to manage bad behavior. I'm not perfect. I went through challenging periods in my life to understand why it's important to develop your mindset. I used to be paranoid. My mind was weak, and th...

Excerpt: "How to use motivational material to develop your mindset. If you want to succeed, you need to understand why encouraging yourself with motivation boosts confidence. I have a question: How do you succeed in life? Personally, the key to success is 99% effort and 1% of your dream. If you want to succeed, you must be intentional because all goals must have a target, or you'll find yourself r...

Excerpt: "How your spiritual journey empowers your dream to succeed. Is it possible to succeed by chance, or a higher power plays a role in your life? In this message, I'll share with you how your spiritual journey empowers your dream to succeed because you need faith to achieve it. If I conducted an experiment to test how you react to inhaling smelling salt. If you've done it before, you know how...

Excerpt: "Why regret can lead to depression if you don't manage your emotions. In this message, I'll share with you how to use affirmation words to overcome regret and anxiety. For me, whenever I feel happy, a few minutes later, I find myself feeling low and demoralized. When I'm in good spirits, I can not help but expect bad events to follow. I have a worrying mentality that psychologytools(.)com...

Excerpt: "Why believing in your goals before you achieve them is an advantage. In this message, I will give you my examples of how to use the power of faith to get what you want. Did you know that successful people utilize faith as part of their strategy? I've been writing for a long time, and I've seen writers give up because they lack faith. Why do they give up? It's because what they want to ac...

Excerpt: "If I were to ask you, have you been doing your part to succeed? Most people will say yes, without hesitation, but do you agree that Elon Musk has done a lot to be recognized as a successful businessman? We know that Elon Musk has built great businesses because most of us have used them. When you tell me that you're doing your part, I may not see it, because it hasn't reached me. Though y...

Excerpt: "Why it's important to show people gratitude. In this message, I'll convey to you why appreciating a person for helping you is important. Because when you show people love, they don't forget it. For example, if I didn't thank people for helping me, I would've given up a long time ago. I've learned that saying thank you is a powerful tool because when you show people affection, it touches...

Excerpt: "In this message, I'll tell you how I overcame intimidation and harassment at work. Have you ever thought about quitting your job because of someone else? I've come close to quitting because of toxic employees who intimidate you with impunity. They bully you in a professional way, which isn’t obvious to other people. For example, I used to work shifts, and dealing with a bully, I'd find m...

Excerpt: "I want to share my story about how to say no to family and friends because a lot of people find it hard. I remember my AHA moment! When I got to understand that saying no is not bad. My friends and I used to play monopoly, and I'd lose a lot of games. The games were heated because everyone wanted to win, and for me, my frustrations of losing hurt my feelings.  One day, my friend won the...

Excerpt: "In this message, you'll understand why developing your well-being and mental health is important. In today's greedy society, your emotions are under attack, and it's important to protect them from bad influences. Did you know that when you defend your heart from manipulative attacks, it improves your well-being? It's not easy to pinpoint where emotional attacks will come from, but you ca...

Excerpt: "I'm frustrated, and this is my Hail Mary cry to God for help. To you who may be going through what I'm going through, How low do you get when you feel depressed? Do you do what I do, and look over my shoulder for dangers trying to prevent my dreams from succeeding? And do you pray continuously, but there's no change? Reasons why I feel like quitting today. I'm done. I'm not giving up on...

Excerpt: "Why it's easy to sway or trigger people who lack self-confidence. I can not lie and say that I don't get triggered because as a motivational writer, not all readers find joy in my work. But if I was easy to trigger, I'd shout at people for having an opinion. As a writer, if I was easy to sway, it means writing can not be my profession. Whatever job you're in, you get tested all the time;...

Excerpt: "I have a lot of people I don't interact with anymore because they chose bitterness over friendship. People I used to call friends with whom I no longer chat with. What happened? I got to see their true colors. If someone's shows you who they are, and you carry on trusting them, it's your fault when things go south. It's important to let go of bad company or your well-being will be affect...

Excerpt: "Did you know that successful people go through a lot of emotions, but they know which one's to ignore? I love my emotions, but I've learned to let go of bad feelings, which cloud my judgment. When you're not in control, you make a lot of mistakes because you're driven by bad emotions. Did you know that envy encourages jealousy, which leads to bad reactions? You may not know if envy is th...

Excerpt: "We're not alike. It sounds odd to some people when I say I have anxiety attacks when I try and praise my achievements. Why am I triggered by this? Because mentally, I'm afraid to jinx it. I was amazed when Snoop Dogg was honored with a star on The Hollywood Walk of Fame in November 2018. His speech echoed around the world, and I believe it's because of what he said, which is unusual. Sno...

Excerpt: "In my opinion, when you win the lottery, the probability of losing it is about 80%. But when you work hard to achieve your dreams, chances of success are above 80%. So, which probability entices you? Do you go for the jackpot, or do you favor a better way to live your life? Did you know that winning the lottery is very hard? Trust me because it takes time, money, dedication, and luck. Yo...

Excerpt: "Don't absorb labels in order to demoralize yourself. I once heard someone react when a family member labeled themselves as, the black sheep of the family? The other child replied and said, but I too thought I was the black sheep of the family? This interaction taught me how a lot of people label themselves incorrectly in order to demoralize themselves. Both of them absorb one label for d...

Excerpt: "When you see a need that you usually ignore, and you act on it, it is a service. Your mindset evolves with every decision you make. For example, if you argue with someone, and you win the fight, even if you were wrong. Your mindset holds onto the win and expects the next argument to go your way. When the next fight comes... you'll want to win. Instead of controlling yourself if you liked...