Emotional Intelligence Developer

Reasons why it's important to get your life in order at 40 years old. Now that I'm 40, I can speak to a lot of people, both older and younger, and they understand. I've reached a point in my life where I know myself. I know my advantages and disadvantages, but if you don't trust yourself at 40, you need to realign your mind. The disadvantages of being emotionally immature at 40 years old can affec...

How do you deal with emotional changes due to stress? Let it go. As a grownup, you can not deal with everything that falls on your lap. Approach people and organizations that can help you, and you'll find peace. Listen to this podcast and go to the  ⁠⁠website⁠⁠  to learn more about how to improve your well-being.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/emotional-intel...

Do you have emotional outbursts, and do you break out of character like people we see on social media? Why do we enjoy watching people lose it on social media? One video will have one million views and a thousand likes, but in the end, we're making fun of someone's emotional imbalance. The key is not to be amused by someone's distress... we don't know what led to this situation, and we should've e...

How to see your behavior early and you don't behave badly. When you look within yourself, you can honestly see your behavior. What if you choose to be polite and act cordially with people? Sometimes, it may be hard, but the overall effect will be an advantage. People tend to help people who are welcoming, and I hope that you will choose inner peace and reflect it on the outside. Listen to this pod...

What if you can learn how to see your behavior early and you don't behave badly? That's something I'd be interested in. In this message, I'll share an event that occurred where I was able to diffuse a tense situation. I almost had a bad encounter with a John Doe, but because of my developed mindset, I was able to predict the future. I defused the confrontation early by using emotional intelligence...

I fixed my life by being honest with myself. Why? For a very long time, my honest assessment about myself was something I didn't want to query. Listen to this podcast and go to the  ⁠⁠website⁠⁠  to learn more about how to improve your well-being.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/emotional-intelligence-developer--6645891/support . Join Us Become a member:  https...

I fixed my life by being honest with myself. Why? For a very long time, my view about myself was something I didn't want to challenge. My advice to you is don't do too many things, or you'll lose yourself in the journey. Alcoholics Anonymous has a slogan that says, "Take it one day at a time." For a very long time, I wanted to be 10 steps ahead, but believing and loving yourself regardless of how...

Try your level best all the time, and one day, one day, you will see victory. If the honey badger and my crocodile totem inspire me, I can fight back like the honey badger, and I can be quiet and persevere like the crocodile. Your life is what you make of it, and if you're determined to succeed, I guarantee that in the end you will. Listen to this podcast and go to the  ⁠⁠website⁠⁠  to learn more...

Why it's important to fight until you succeed. In the animal kingdom, a honey badger is one of the toughest animals in the wild. The honey badger will wholeheartedly fight back for its life and food. It defends itself against the world, and that's why I emulate its heart and perseverance. If you want a key on how to break free from the grips of poverty. Choose an animal spirit to emulate. I'm Afri...

The secret to a happy life is to listen to advice. No matter your age, please don't stop learning. If a person gives you advice, take it. Don't shrug it off and listen to them and why they're telling you. Remember that you can not implement all the advice you're given, but it's foundational, and it opens your eyes to a lot of things. Be a willing learner, and you will succeed in life. Listen to th...

Did you know that unexpected advice is never unexpected? Sometimes, what you've been thinking about echoes through other people's voices. Confirming what your heart has been telling you all along. I met an elderly man who was busy with repairs at my workplace. It so happened that I was sitting next to them and we got to chatting. The elderly man was busy working with his coworker, and they were ta...

Did you know that successful people go through a lot of emotions, but they know which one’s to ignore? I love my emotions, but I’ve learned to let go of bad feelings, which cloud my judgment. When you’re not in control, you make a lot of mistakes because you’re driven by bad emotions. Did you know that envy encourages jealousy, which leads to bad reactions? You may not know if envy is the dominant...

Let’s not beat around the bush. A global recession is coming, and the people who are mentally ready for it cope better than people with anxiety. The reason why emotional intelligence helps you in a global recession is due to the intentional development of your demeanor. As we deal with financial constraints. You’ll find yourself needing support for a lot of things, and making sure that your emotio...

Do you ever think about the past and wonder where you’d be today if you knew what you know now? I battled with this because I used to overthink everything, and it left me vulnerable to emotional attacks. In this message, I’ll share how envy cost me some happy years due to an unsettled heart. For a long time, I used to overthink everything. I failed to live in the present because my mind was always...

Why it's important to be mentally ready for bad periods in your life. Let's not beat around the bush. A global recession is coming, and the people who are mentally ready for it cope better than people with anxiety. The reason why emotional intelligence helps you in a global recession is due to the intentional development of your demeanor. As we deal with financial constraints. You'll find yourself...

I fixed my life by being honest with myself. Why? For a very long time, my honest assessment about myself was something I didn't want to query. It confused me because I'd questioned why I used to drink and why I watched a lot of dirty movies? I sought out help, but throughout all the interventions, I failed because I didn't work on my inner peace. It's only after I sat myself down and I asked myse...

I fixed my life by being honest with myself. Why? For a very long time, my honest assessment about myself was something I didn't want to query. It confused me because I'd questioned why I used to drink and why I watched a lot of dirty movies? I sought out help, but throughout all the interventions, I failed because I didn't work on my inner peace. It's only after I sat myself down and I asked myse...

Why holding on and believing in your goals is important. As you approach the finish line, that's when you begin to tire. All along, during your race, you were hopeful of reaching the finish line. You envisioned the end result with you on top of the podium, raising your hands and acknowledging the win. But it takes you not giving up to achieve that dream. How long can my Army-like Hell Week last be...

Have you tried everything to succeed, but you're still failing? If you feel that you're now officially at rock bottom, and you're struggling to overcome challenges, this message is for you. I want to let you know that I know where you are, and I know how difficult it is when you're not in control. What is rock bottom if this is not it? This is a question I've asked myself because it feels like my...

I remember gossiping about a colleague at work named Steven, and he confronted me about it. It was a group discussion, but my workmates labelled me as the ringleader! Effectively throwing me under the bus. I learned a valuable lesson because the disadvantages of gossiping are that it always backfires. In this message, I'll share why I shouldn't participate in negative talk because gossiping does m...

Can I heal quickly and move on? For those who've tried to bypass important steps in life, one major setback is that it doesn't work. How old are you? I bet you have old wounds that come up as you reminisce about the past? I know because I have a few I wish I had done differently, but life is life, and doing better tomorrow is the key to development. How much time do I need in order to heal? For so...

The roller-coaster emotions you need to control. I remember the day I lost my job as I was about to be hired full time. My hopes were shattered because I had gone window shopping a few days back; I knew which outfit and shoes I'd buy with my first pay check. Things were looking up until I was informed that after my trial period, I'd be let go. When you lose something, you go through a lot of emoti...

How to deal with people's emotions and mood. Have you ever asked yourself... Why me? Why do I have to deal with people who've shown me their true colours? In most cases, you can not cut these people off. It's people you deal with on a day-to-day basis, and understanding what can I learn from spiteful people and their character will help you control your emotions. If you don't have a buffer between...

What can I do to find sustainable inner peace in my life? For the past two weeks, my mind hasn't had a break to detach from my daily routine. We all work hard, but a lot of us find it difficult to rest our minds. A lot of people don't know how to find inner peace, which may lead to health related conditions because our minds are always active. In this message, I'll share why a frequent emotional r...

Excerpt: Why is minding your own business important? To be honest, I was never good at minding my own business, but I've learned to keep quiet. I don't react... especially in cases where people run your name through the mud. Minding your business is an art, and learning how to discourage yourself from gossiping develops your well-being. Did you know that I don't view peoples statuses on WhatsApp?...