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This week’s Book Club, we’re diving into Stripped Down by Bunnie Xo. We talk about her journey, the resilience it takes to move through difficult experiences, and how she’s built the life she has today. There are so many moments in this memoir that highlight growth, self-discovery, and the importance of finding your own path. We also get into relationships, personal evolution, and the people and e...

Take two! I’m back with another Q&A and you guys brought some really thoughtful questions. In this episode, I talk through real-life situations around relationships, communication, parenting strong-willed kids, therapy, and figuring out what to do when you feel stuck. From navigating a friend’s relationship, to mismatched intimacy in marriage, to raising kids who don’t always respond to discipline...

I sat down to do a solo Q&A and then Bert walked in. What started as answering your questions turned into a conversation about pillows, knives, cigars, IQs, and more random topics along the way. This was a fun episode and I will definitely answer your questions next time.  Our Next book club will be Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic by Bunnie Xo Amazon - https://amzn.to/3P1swn9 Bookshop h...

Free Bert is officially renewed for Season 2 and we couldn’t be more excited to get back into production. In this episode, Bert and I answer your questions all about Free Bert. From behind-the-scenes moments to what you can expect in Season 2. You called in with your questions and we’re giving you an inside look at what it’s like working on the show, filming with Bert, and what’s coming next. Than...

Rachael Harris joins me for a really honest conversation about life, motherhood, and what happens when everything slows down. We talk about her career in Hollywood, the quiet seasons that no one really prepares you for, and how she found her way back to what she truly loves doing. We also get into parenting, relationships, and the work it takes to break patterns and show up differently for your ki...

Cathy, Kirsten, and I are back for book club and this time we read Gerald’s Game by Stephen King. The story follows a woman who ends up handcuffed to a bed after her husband suddenly dies, leaving her completely alone with her thoughts and memories. We break down what we liked, what didn’t work for us, and whether this book holds up decades after it was first published. We also talk about listenin...

Bert and I talk about our “sleep divorce,” or what we like to call sleep maxxing. We share what led us to this setup, including Bert’s snoring and our very different sleep habits. We also talk about how making this change has actually improved our lives and helped us get the rest we need while still staying connected as husband and wife. It turns out sleep divorce is more common than people think,...

Brianna LaPaglia, social media star and host of Plan Bri Uncut, joins me to share her journey from a pre-med student to becoming one of the most recognizable voices in digital media. She opens up about how she landed her role at Barstool, the rapid rise that followed, and how much her life has changed over the past five years. Through the highs and the challenges, Brianna reflects on what she’s le...

Steph Tolev joins me for a bold and hilarious conversation about everything from freezing fat cells to shutting down hecklers during crowd work. We dive into what life on tour is really like for her and talk about filming her special Filth Queen, which had me on the edge of my seat the entire time. Steph also opens up about getting married, what that next chapter looks like, and whether starting a...

Erin Maguire returns to the podcast for a catch-up after our last conversation when she had just made it home from a frightening travel experience. This time, Erin shares stories from her early twenties, including a string of questionable dating experiences that taught her a lot about trust and relationships. We also talk about the stand-up comedy world, why Los Angeles is such an important place...

Cathy, Kirsten, and I kick off this year’s book club with Separation of Church and Hate by John Fugelsang. This book opened up a deep conversation around how Paul reinterpreted Christianity in the Bible, and how that’s shaped much of what we see in modern religion. We also explore the disconnect between the teachings of Jesus and God. Love, compassion, and inclusion and the harmful messages often...

Christy Busby, host of From Atheism to Enlightenment and 2nd AD on Free Bert, joins me to share her powerful personal journey. We talk about her Christian upbringing, the unexpected health challenge that became a spiritual wake-up call, and how it led her to explore a more expansive view of faith. Christy opens up about what spirituality means to her now, how she’s grown, and why asking deeper que...

Nedra Glover Tawwab, bestselling author of The Balancing Act, joins me for a powerful conversation about connection, communication, and community. We explore the different attachment styles and how understanding them can help us show up more honestly in our relationships. Nedra shares why building community is essential for emotional wellbeing, and how we can create spaces that invite real convers...

My longtime friend Jenny Bornoff joins me for a much-needed catch-up. We dive into everything from her experience running boutiques during the pandemic to her evolving journey with motherhood and entrepreneurship. It’s a warm, honest conversation about navigating life, business, and big transitions.  --------------------------------------------------- Sponsors  BetterHelp - BetterHelp makes it eas...

Lisa Jammal and Brooke Levy join me to talk about their new app, Social Agent. Think of it like a food delivery app but instead of ordering takeout, you're booking on-demand content creators. Lisa and Brooke explain how the idea came to life, why this model is a game-changer for the creator economy, and how it's making high-quality content creation accessible to everyone Social Agent Promo Code “W...

Bert and I are back to answer your questions about taking risks, understanding and managing anxiety, confronting behavior in a partner, parenting challenges, and so much more. If you’ve ever called in before, we’d love to hear from you again. Call back, give us an update, or let us know how things turned out! --------------------------------------------------- Our Next book club will be Separation...

Many of you know my podcast producer Halston Ray, who has worked with me and Bert for the past eight years. In this episode, Halston shares that he’s moving on to pursue his dream of making music in Nashville. We reflect on his journey from delivering pizzas to producing podcasts, the lessons he’s learned over the years, and why now feels like the right time to take the leap. I couldn’t be prouder...

Kyle Thiermann joins me to talk about his book One Last Question Before You Go, a thoughtful guide designed to help readers ask their parents meaningful questions that reframe how we see them. Kyle shares how asking the right questions can unlock powerful family stories, deepen connection, and give us new insight into who our parents are beyond their roles. We also explore how storytelling plays a...

Cathy, Kirsten, and I sit down to talk about How About Now: Poems by Kate Baer. We explore the poems we connected with most, whether the tone feels heavy or introspective, and what the collection reveals about navigating the everyday. We also dive into how poetry can find beauty in the mundane, and why reading work like Baer’s feels so important right now. -----------------------------------------...

It’s been a year since my daughter Ila joined me on the show, and I’m so excited she’s back! We dive into our thoughts on The Golden Bachelor, The Bachelorette, and The Bachelor,  what we love, what we don’t, and the moments that had us yelling at the screen. Ila also shares what college has been like so far, her journey studying interior design, and how much she’s grown since leaving home.  -----...

Ryan Sickler’s new special Live and Alive is out now! He shares with me the creation of his stand up, why he was meant to be a girl dad, and highlighting his lowlights in life through the special and his podcast The Honeydew. Check out Ryan Sickler YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rsicklerhttps://www.instagram.com/ryansickler/?hl=en Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryansickler/ --------------...

I’m so grateful for your trust in me to offer advice on everything from finding yourself to communicating better, parenting, and so much more. If you have a question or want to hear Bert and me weigh in, call me at (818) 949-8536, we love hearing from you. --------------------------------------------------- Sponsors Uncommon Goods - To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://UNCOMMONGOODS.com/le...

Cathy, Stacey, and Christine join me for a follow‑up conversation about how they’re feeling after working with Danese Rexroad from Ways2Well. We talk about their progress, any changes to their medication, and whether they’re actually remembering to take it. We also reflect on how little our own mothers discussed menopause, and how it feels like our generation is the first to truly acknowledge it a...

Whitney Cummings and Chris Cole are engaged! In this episode, we talk about what it’s like to finally find the right person, the journey toward motherhood, and how comedy continues to evolve alongside real life. It’s a warm, funny, and honest conversation about love, timing, and growing into the next chapter. Follow Whitney Cummingshttps://www.whitneycummings.com/ https://www.instagram.com/whitney...

Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, author of You, Your Husband, and His Mother, joins Kirsten, Cathy, and me to dive into the complex world of mother-in-law relationships. Tracy breaks down the dynamics between a husband and wife, and why it’s essential to address an overbearing in-law early and openly. We also explore the different types of mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws, and how to navigate those roles w...