Wife Approved with Shane & Caroline

Marriage, technology, parenting teens, and the little things that secretly matter more than the big ones. We ran through a bunch of “Would you rather” questions couples are probably NOT supposed to answer out loud — thermostat control, flirty texts to exes, sharing toothbrushes (??), awkward PDA at family dinner, and whether sarcasm should be banned. Some answers matched. Some absolutely did not....

Ever wonder if your home security is actually keeping you safe? Join us as we dissect a recent porch pirate incident and the tech that failed us (any why). In this episode of the Wife Approved podcast, we dive into home security after a bold porch pirate targeted our home despite our multi-camera setup. We break down the crucial difference between cloud-based and local recording storage, and why r...

Caroline officially quit her corporate job… and the first week might be off to a rocky start. Instead of celebrating freedom, she ended up stuck at home with brutal back pain, drowning in health insurance research, and they're already getting on each others' nerves. In this episode we talk about: What the first week after quitting a job actually feels like Why health insurance outside corporate Am...

BIG announcement this week! Caroline officially quit her job after 11 years. And we're nervous...In this episode, we’re talking about what pushed her to finally do it, how bad the stress had gotten, what the last two weeks were really like, and why this felt like the right time to bet on ourselves. We also get into the reality of corporate burnout, working together as a married couple, the fear of...

Last week got a little heavy… so this week? We’re airing out the petty stuff 😅Snoring. Hair in the sink. Tupperware avalanches. Dishwasher wars. Chewing too loud...These are the little things in marriage that drive us absolutely insane… but aren’t dealbreakers. This one gets real, a little heated, and honestly hilarious. If you’re married (or have ever lived with another human), you’re going to f...

Marriage is beautiful… and it can also be hard as hell. This week we’re talking about the stuff nobody really says out loud: how raising kids (especially teenagers) can push your marriage into survival mode, and how trauma doesn’t just hurt you — it spills into everything. Grief, loss, acting out, shutting down, resentment… all while you’re still trying to keep the house running and be a parent. T...

This week we played “Who’s More Likely” and let’s just say… feelings were felt. 😅 Who overreacts? Who impulse buys? Who avoids conflict? Who caves to the kids? Somehow this episode turned into a real conversation about conflict, parenting teens, money stress, smart home rage, and that time our daughter fell and we learned how differently we handle emergencies. It’s funny. It’s honest. It’s slight...

This week on the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane and Caroline talk about the pressure and expectations around Valentine’s Day, why it never quite goes as planned, and how good intentions can still turn into frustration. Along the way, they dive into their recent trips to Ikea and Apple Stores, smart homes, privacy concerns, yelling at HomePods, and the weird moment when your spouse becomes “the tech...

Public displays of affection. Cute? Cringe? Or a straight-up red flag? 🚩This week, Shane and Caroline go deep (and very honest) about PDA — If you’ve ever cringed at PDA… or wondered if you are the cringey ones… this one’s for you. 💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/ ⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us...

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane and Caroline talk about camera anxiety in YouTube videos, doing hard things (and when you’re just over it), the pressure of goals vs protecting your peace, and why January always seems to bring stress into their business and marriage. What starts with an awkward YouTube moment turns into a full-on conversation about burnout, running a business to...

We’re back from CES in Las Vegas — and wow… what a week 😅 In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, we’re recapping everything that happened behind the scenes at CES: late nights, travel chaos, getting sick (or barely avoiding it), meeting creators, awkward moments, and why this trip always leaves us exhausted but inspired. 💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.co...

As the year comes to a close, we’re reflecting on everything that truly mattered in 2025 — not the numbers, the goals, or the gear... but the real stuff: marriage, parenting, burnout, therapy, and the small wins that meant the most. In this episode, we talk about the unexpected lessons we learned this year and years pas — what tested us, what helped us grow, and what we’re grateful for looking bac...

Is the holiday magic turning into holiday madness? 🎄 From overwhelming to-do lists to family traditions that feel more like hostage situations, we're getting real about the chaos of Christmas. Caroline opens up about the immense pressure and burnout that comes with making Christmas perfect for everyone. Is it just her, or does one person in every family do it all? We're diving into some spicy hol...

Is finding true balance in life even possible? In this episode, we dive deep into the chaotic juggling act of modern life, exploring the constant struggle to balance marriage, parenting, work, health, and personal happiness . We kick things off with some tech mishaps, including a run-in with a robot lawnmower and some smart lights, before getting real about the pressures of life . We share our per...

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, we dive deep into what it’s really like being a full-time content creator — not just the gear and editing, but the impact it has on marriage, family life, mental health, and burnout. Caroline asks the real questions about time, guilt, balance, and whether Shane ever thought about quitting. We talk about how being a YouTuber has tested our marriage, how...

Ever wonder what it’s  actually  like to be a full-time YouTuber? In this episode, Caroline flips the script and interviews Shane about his journey from hobbyist to full-time content creator. We’re pulling back the curtain on how YouTubers make money, the truth about brand deals, quitting the 9–5, LLCs, sponsorship drama, and what most people get completely wrong about being a YouTuber. Whether yo...

In this episode we’re diving into something wild we both experienced this week — and no, it’s not just us sleeping in separate bedrooms and we may have been wrong about that. Shane found a company (that he likes) using an AI influencer in their ads.. So we’re asking: is AI coming for creators’ jobs next? And what does this mean for real-life, real-people content? IN THIS EPISODE: • Why we suddenly...

In this episode, we share a personal story about a friend's cancer treatment experience and why we regret not speaking up sooner when witnessing poor treatment of patients and staff. We discuss the importance of standing up for what's right, even when it's uncomfortable. We also celebrate some incredible news: Caroline's best friend is officially cancer-free and in complete remission! Plus, we tal...

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Caroline breaks down EXACTLY why women get so stressed during the holidays (spoiler: it's because we do literally everything). We debate whether gift cards are lazy or genius, discuss our family holiday traditions (including smart Christmas lights), and get real about the pressure of making Christmas magical. Topics we cover:• Why holiday planning fall...

It’s Halloween week, and things get wild. 🎃 From trampoline builds and jiu-jitsu at 40, to Caroline’s  worst hangover ever  and Shane’s haunted garage stories, this episode is equal parts hilarious and heartfelt. We also open up about the terrifying car crash that changed how we drive forever, share some spicy Halloween hot takes (like whether parents deserve 40% of the candy), and end with a wif...

Emotions are high this week. We get vulnerable about Caroline's best friend finishing chemo, why it's so hard to cry when you feel like you need to be strong, and our answer to your question about faith and believing in a higher power. We also talk about toxic people who drain your energy, why advocating for yourself medically matters, Shane's 3am water leak adventure, and whether motion sensors a...

Episode 10 We cover a lot this week—starting with Caroline’s new iPhone 17 Pro Max. Then it’s off to the State Fair (why Shane dreads it, why Caroline loves it, and teen-years ride horror stories).From there we dive into real-talk marriage hot takes:Do date nights fix problems—or prevent new ones? Is sleeping in separate rooms “healthy”… or just toxic?“Too tired” for intimacy: logistics vs. libido...

Episode 9 In this episode, we dive into the chaos of our week, from sore backs and new MMA class adventures to Caroline’s ongoing battle with bedroom smart home automations. We chat about raising older kids, our thoughts on modern movies and TV, and how Hollywood handles family and marriage. Plus, we answer a listener question about being young with almost-grown kids and kick off our new “Wife App...

This week, we’re sharing some  naked truths  about marriage. From pride that almost broke us, to the silent treatment years, to the lessons we wish we knew earlier—this one goes deep. We also: Laugh about iPhone drops and “scratchgate” Share a wild clothing-optional beach story 😳 Answer your anonymous questions about love and marriage Give our honest advice for newlyweds after 15+ years together...

This week Shane and Caroline get raw about emotional labor, family pressure, and the moment everything finally spilled out. We talk about carrying other people’s problems, sleep, boundaries, and the small things that actually matter — plus a little smart-home tech talk and a sweet homecoming story. If this episode resonates, please leave a rating or review — it helps others find the show. Want to...