When Reality Hits with Brittany Cartwright

What happens in Cabo… gets recorded. Brittany is joined by Lala Kent, Michelle Saniei Lally, and Janet Caperna while celebrating her birthday in paradise, and the vibes are high and the conversations are very real. From friendship dynamics to life behind the scenes, this girls’ trip turns into an unfiltered group chat you won’t want to miss. Thank you for supporting our sponsors! Nutrafol: Nutrafo...

Nikki and Brie Garcia sit down for a candid conversation about motherhood, identity, and evolving beyond fame. From WWE comebacks and reality TV misconceptions to co-parenting, mental health, and taking life-changing leaps of faith, the sisters reflect on what it means to grow, change, and stay fearless in every chapter of life. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Rula: Rula pati...

In the first episode of 2026, Brittany reflects on the highs, challenges, and lessons of a life-changing 2025. From a chaotic holiday trip home to Kentucky and meaningful family traditions to hosting New Year’s Eve in San Diego, she shares the moments that carried her through the year. Brittany opens up about motherhood, co-parenting, The Valley season two, and advocating for Cruz after publicly s...

Brittany welcomes longtime friend and celebrity DJ Lindsay Luv for a hilarious, jaw-dropping trip through her wild career — from DJing the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show in Paris and spinning at the Playboy Mansion, to unforgettable nights in Dubai, celebrity run-ins, the nicest (and rudest!) stars she’s met, and the girls’ Vegas trip that turned into a manifestation moment. They reminisce about M...

Mr. Tom Schwartz chats with Brittany about the latest buzz on the interwebs about Jo Wenberg! Originally aired: 05/24/24 Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! O Positiv: Take proactive care of your health and head to OPositiv.com/REALITY or enter REALITY at checkout for 25% off your first purchase. Quit With Jones: Ready to quit for good? Go to  quitwithjones.com/REALITY...

Brittany is in full holiday mode on this festive episode of When Reality Hits, sharing her favorite Christmas traditions, from heading home to Kentucky and visiting Santa with Cruz to Friendsmas celebrations and family Dirty Santa fun. She also breaks down her signature Christmas decorating tips, including her gingerbread tree, budget-friendly decor finds, and how she makes the holidays feel magic...

Brittany welcomes back Kristen Doute for a fun, candid catch-up filled with mom-life updates, dog drama, and all the BravoCon chaos. Kristen opens up about baby Kaia, co-sleeping struggles, and the emotional highs of new motherhood, while the two revisit their favorite BravoCon moments and share their unfiltered take on the weekend’s most unexpected run-ins. Please support the show by checking out...

Brittany's back with a life update and answers fan questions! Originally aired: 09/20/24 Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Quince: Go to  Quince.com/realityhits  for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns. Apretude: Bring your A-game and talk to your doctor. Learn more at  APRETUDE.com  or call 1-888-240-0340. Progressive: Quote your car insurance a...

Brittany and Janet reunite to recap all the chaos, excitement, and behind-the-scenes moments from BravoCon. From fan love and first-time panel nerves to surprise Bravo-leb encounters, fashion twinning, and even a little drama squashed, the girls spill everything. Brittany opens up about reconnecting with Lisa Vanderpump, while Janet shares the unexpected moments that boosted her confidence. It’s f...

Bridesman and full-time Valley cast member Zack Wickham chats with Brittany about how they first met living in Kentucky, the Bravo Universe's reaction to Zack's hair and him being an industry plant, how he was Kristen Doute's original sperm donor, OTHER reality show Zack has been on before the Valley, and Zack's feelings about Jax & Brittany's separation. PLUS: VALLEY RECAP (including Jax &amp...

Brittany is back with a full recap of her epic Victorian Vampire Halloween party — from blood-red pools to edible glitter cocktails. She opens up about celebrating the holidays as a single mom, the online backlash over Cruz’s stroller, and how she’s healing (both physically and emotionally) after her mommy makeover. Plus, she spills on BravoCon prep, her chewed-up Louboutins, and answers fan quest...

It’s a spooky season special! Brittany celebrates Halloween by sharing her family’s costume plans, sensory-friendly trick-or-treating hacks for Cruz, and details on her over-the-top Victorian vampire masquerade party. She also opens up about life after her mommy makeover — from recovery and mom guilt to fan questions about surgery, healing, and confidence. Plus, Brittany takes listeners back to he...

Former Bachelor Grant Ellis joins When Reality Hits for a candid talk about life after reality TV — from his unexpected start on The Bachelorette to becoming the lead, falling in love with two women, and what really happened after the finale. Grant opens up about his dad’s sobriety, his decision to stay celibate, and how he’s turning lessons from TV into his new dating show Spin the Block . ...

VPR legend Kristen Doute stops by to help Brittany celebrate her birthday, reflect on some b-day memories, and discuss their upcoming show THE VALLEY!!! Originally aired: 01/26/24 Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Nutrafol: Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to  Nutrafol.com  and enter the promo cod...

Ten days post-surgery, Brittany gets real from her recovery bed to answer fan questions about her recent mommy makeover. From the procedures she had done and the emotional reasons behind her decision, to how she’s balancing recovery with motherhood and facing online trolls—Brittany shares it all. She talks candidly about body image, confidence, mom guilt, and what life looks like as she heals and...

This week on When Reality Hits , Ben Higgins from The Bachelor opens up about his journey from cubicle life to leading one of TV’s most famous franchises. He reflects on being the first Bachelor to say “I love you” to two women, the pressures of reality TV fame, and what dating was like after the show. Ben also shares how he ultimately found his wife, became a dad, and the lessons he’s learned alo...

It’s spooky season on When Reality Hits! Brittany and Tom Schwartz share chilling ghost stories—from haunted Victorian houses to eerie sleep paralysis encounters—that will have you sleeping with the lights on. They dive into childhood fears of aliens, Halloween traditions, and even the possibility of vampires in New Orleans. Schwartz reflects on his early Vanderpump Rules days, reminisces about hi...

Brittany welcomes back her friend and The Valley castmate Michelle Saniei for a candid catch-up on life, love, and everything in between. The two open up about the realities of divorce, co-parenting, and learning to set boundaries while raising kids in the spotlight. Michelle shares how working at Hooters helped her come out of her shell, what life after reality TV fame looks like, and her dreams...

Brittany's good friend and co-star of The Valley, Michelle Lally makes her podcast debut! Brittany and Michelle talk about the boojee tendencies of Jesse Lally, Michelle and her family's reaction to Kristin Doute, adapting to reality TV life, Michelle's background in real estate and the most expensive house she ever sold, Brittany's first experience with a charcuterie board, AND Brittany makes an...

Brittany is back with Jasmine Goode as her guest co-host for a jam-packed catch-up! The two dive into everything from surprise paparazzi photos and false pregnancy rumors to BravoCon nerves and Cardi B’s hilarious courtroom antics. Brittany also gets candid about her Cabo getaway, the toll of online trolling, and why women need to stop tearing each other down. Plus, they swap binge-worthy Netflix...

Brittany sits down with bestselling author and speaker Amber Rae for an eye-opening conversation about love, courage, and choosing yourself. Amber opens up about leaving a marriage that no longer fulfilled her, meeting her soulmate in the most unexpected way, and the life lessons that inspired her new memoir Lovable . Together, they dive into overcoming shame, navigating sexless relationships, bre...

Brittany opens up about a bittersweet trip to Vegas to honor a close friend, the emotional rollercoaster of filming Special Forces , and what fans can expect when the new season premieres. She shares her excitement for BravoCon, reflects on closing the chapter of a difficult season of The Valley , and gives heartfelt updates on life as a single mom—especially Cruz’s incredible progress with early...

Brittany catches up with Jasmine Goode for an unfiltered chat on everything from wedding guest list drama to the big reveal that Brittany’s joining the latest Special Forces cast. The two swap ideas for first-look moments, spill on extravagant Jersey weddings, and break down Brittany's connection to this season’s star-studded lineup. Plus, they dive into the weirdest TikTok trends, the “human wild...

From Season 3 of Love is Blind, Colleen Reed joins Brittany to talk about their recent girl's trip to the Bahamas, finding love with her hubby Matt and getting to know him WITHOUT cameras around, why reunion episodes are so hard to shoot, Colleen's time as a ballerina, and what she didn't appreciate about her portrayal on Love is Blind! Originally aired: 07/12/24 Please support the show by ch...

This week on When Reality Hits , Brittany is joined by clinical psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. Jaime Zuckerman for one of her most vulnerable and powerful episodes yet. From love bombing and gaslighting to financial control and co-parenting with a narcissist, Dr. Z breaks down the manipulative patterns of narcissistic abuse—and how to heal from them. Brittany opens up about her very public...