Thirsty: the Podcast

Thirsty is taking a break from divorce and dating to talk about a subject that leaves one in eight couples wanting more: infertility. Today, Lindsay Flader and Jamie Martin are joining the pod to share where they've been, what they've learned, and how they're moving forward. They covering what infertility treatment requires, how they've managed their mental health, and (for allies)...

This week, Thirsty welcomes writer Emily Hughey to the group chat. Emily was in the midst of rebuilding her life post-divorce when she was "stealthed" by a man with whom she was in a new relationship. (Stealthing is when a sexual partner removes the condom without consent.) A few weeks later, despite having taken Plan B, she was shocked to find she was pregnant. She knew she had some cho...

Solo travel. Maybe you've thought about it? Maybe the idea makes you nervous? Or, maybe you've tried solo travel and discovered you love it. With today's special guest Breaunna Lake, Thirsty is covering planes, trains, and automobiles (and how they can get you on the trip of a lifetime.) Breaunna took her divorce as an opportunity to rediscover who she was, and travel was a big part of that journe...

Presented by Custom Core Fit There's a time and a place for dating willy nilly (like during the "dark days" of divorce!) but once you're ready to date in a healthy way, a dating strategy can help. Today special guest Maggie Degand is talking to us about how putting a little thought into your dating approach can lead to better outcomes. She's talking about building a dating pr...

Thirsty is a pod where — most of the time — we talk about dating, relationships, and life after divorce. However, our tagline “because sometimes life leaves you wanting more” is bigger than just divorce. Divorce may be an opportunity to think differently about life, but there are many other life experiences that create that same potential to learn more about ourselves and others, challenging our p...

It's the tech we love to hate: dating apps. While dating apps are necessary for anyone wanting to meet a new match, sometimes they create more roadblocks than they remove. Today, Thirsty is talking about why dating actually might not be a numbers game after all, and why the phrase "putting all your eggs in one basket" may be a misnomer. Heather and Laura are discussing about how to make better (an...

Rebuilding life as a divorced or single parent takes creativity, ingenuity, and grit. You're doing things you never thought you would have to do — and many times you might feel totally alone. The good news is that there are ways to make life run a little bit more smoothly, and Thirsty is here to talk about it all today. From buying a car to managing a home to moving your body (and more), there are...

Meet Too Touchy Travis, the date who was charming, fun, but didn't keep his hands to himself. Heather's experience on this date had her wondering how to navigate the physical factor when you're just getting to know someone for the first time. How should we handle the situation when ew feel uncomfortable on a date? Is the answer different if you're attracted to them? Is there a right or wrong answe...

Today, Thirsty wants to know, do nice guys really finish last? And, what makes someone a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" in the first place? Heather and Laura are talking about the difference between truly nice men, and the ones who are just pretending. This episode proves that appearances aren't always what they seem, and sometimes what looks good on the surface hides deeper issues of entitlement, inse...

For this year's Valentine's Day, Thirsty wants to know, is true love real? Heather and Laura dove deep on this topic, wondering what it takes to find real love, and, what makes love last? They're covering the three types of love, why attachment styles matter, and what they look for in a love match. Is love truly a verb, what does the science say, and more than anything, does everyone gets the oppo...

What do love, long distance, and corn have in common? In the words of The Corn Kid, we've never seen a more beautiful thing. Modern dating is hard enough without throwing hundreds of miles into the mix. Or, is it? Maybe with a dose of thoughtfulness, a side of clear communication, and two open hearts, love really can go the distance after all. Today, Thirsty is covering how to make long distance w...

Today, Thirsty is unpacking fantasy bonds (and they're not what you think.) People can pretend to be in a great relationship, yet things aren't always what they seem. They post the cute Instagram pics, tell themselves all is well, meanwhile the spark, intimacy, and connection are long gone. Heather and Laura are covering why some choose to stay, when to leave, and why our closest relationships can...

Getting over an ex can be tough. Whether the relationship ended after three months or three years, certain people leave a lasting mark on our hearts. Today, Heather and Laura are covering it all: why we tend to romanticize (or villainize) our exes, what gets us stuck, and why when someone walks away, it's a gift. They're also talking about when we give ourselves breadcrumbs, discerning whether you...

It's the phrase we see all day, every day on dating apps: "Only looking to date casually." We roll our eyes, sigh deeply in response, but what if casual dating is just... dating? And, what if it's actually possible date casually in a fun, healthy way? Thirsty is doing a deep dive on all things casual. We're talking about how men define it, why women do it, and how to stay true to yourself no matte...

Today is Thirsty's 50th episode, and we can’t think of a better way to celebrate than by finally introducing the third member of Heather and Laura's group chat! Up until now, Kristen's been known as "the friend who isn't allowed on the podcast because she's in love with her lobster." We're hearing more about Kristen's love story with her high school sweetheart, and why sometimes the third time's t...

Laura has been known to "sleep-swipe" a time or two on dating apps. For the uninitiated, sleep-swiping is when Laura dozes off and her fingers do the swiping for her. This summer, she sleep-swiped right on Taking Chances Tyler, a man who was only visiting Chicago for a few days. He lived a full plane ride and several states away, so Laura was surprised when she discovered that their connection was...

Today, Heather and Laura are debriefing this past year, then talking about real strategies for self-growth in 2023 — with a sense of humor, as always. They're covering the rollercoaster that was 2022, including international adventures, reflections on connection, and why Laura is determined to carry assorted enormous furniture by herself. Thirsty is also sharing why New Year's resolutions fail whe...

Attachment Theory is a field of study coined in the 1950s by psychoanalyst John Bowlby. This phrase describes how the behaviors we learn as a child make a big impact on our romantic relationships as adults. We call them “attachment styles,” and there are four: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Laura and Heather wonder whether your attachment style can change over time? Is your style...

Holidays give us the opportunity to put work away and reconnect with our loved ones. However, this time can also bring a unique sense of melancholy and stress, whether you’re divorced, partnered, married or single. Today, Heather and Laura are talking about how to make each holiday the day that YOU want it to be, from Christmas to birthdays, Mother’s Day and beyond. They’re covering the year they...

Recent studies have indicated that people are de-prioritizing physical attraction in favor of more meaningful character traits. This makes Heather and Laura wonder whether Love is Blind is more than just a popular reality show. Turns out emotional maturity, relationship skills, and an ability to commit are winning the day. The data says daters who work on personal growth are more attractive, so wh...

These days, the dating pool can feel like a tricky, scary minefield. It’s become common practice to Google, and even background check, any and all potential dates. If you’re savvy, you’ll also find many Facebook groups designed specifically for today’s modern dater, offering community, support, and advice. In addition, Heather and Laura are asking if there’s such a thing as too much information, h...

Thirsty is so excited to announce two big developments in our evolution as a podcast! We are launching both a subscriber series and a capsule collection of Thirsty merchandise. Firstly, subscribe to The Thirst Trap to get two bonus episodes per month, created exclusively for Apple Podcast subscribers. The subscribers-only Thirst Trap episodes will be more personal, more candid, more of what our co...

Emotional availability is a bit of a buzzphrase in today’s modern dating landscape, but what does it really mean? Vulnerability, bravery, and authenticity are the ingredients to creating a fulfilling and meaningful relationship with romantic partners, friends, family, and even yourself. Heather and Laura are talking about self compassion, learning from past mistakes, and creating a support system...

Relationships usually end, whether it’s been a few months, a few years, or a few decades. We’ve all been there. However, sometimes a breakup seems to come out of left field, and you just weren’t ready for it. Heather and Laura are talking about how to stop romanticizing (or villainizing) your ex, how to say the things you need to say, and how to move on. They’ll also help you decide whether to sta...

Carson was a former flame who felt like The One, until he disappeared. One year later, who should appear in Heather’s Bumble queue? None other than Carson the Conundrum. Today we’re talking about the difference between The Who and The How in dating, men who think you have amnesia, and how when we’re struggling, maybe it’s time to talk about it. We all know it can be hard to find someone who really...