The Living Loss: Navigating Life Transitions & Invisible Grief

Daiana shares a personal update about taking time off to grieve and be with family. She then delves into the psychology of grief, highlighting the cognitive reorganization and the different types of grief experiences. The conversation provides clarity and comfort to the audience. Replay: The Living Loss Podcast explores the complexities of non-death grief, shedding light on different types of non-...

The Living Loss Podcast explores the complex grief experienced in eating disorders, addressing topics such as ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, shame, identity, and the impact on relationships. It delves into coping mechanisms, the recovery paradox, and the importance of supporting individuals with eating disorders. The podcast emphasizes the normalcy of grief in recovery and the need to hono...

In this episode of The Living Loss, Daiana Bernard and Cassandra Harris-Towner sit down with author Joel Asensio for a deeply moving conversation about the types of grief that often go unacknowledged. We dive into the "unseen" side of suffering, from the heavy fog of depression to the complexities of loving someone through their darkest mental health struggles. Joel shares the heart behind his nov...

Parenting is a series of beautiful hellos and quiet, heavy goodbyes. In this episode, we’re diving into the "living losses" that come with raising children—the grief of outgrowing a stage, the shift in our own identities as they gain independence, and the bittersweet reality of watching the versions of our kids we once knew slip away to make room for who they are becoming. Join Daiana and Cassandr...

The Living Loss podcast explores the quiet, complex grief of friendship loss and the impact it has on identity, closure, and emotional trust. The conversation delves into the emotional impact of ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, and the challenge of finding closure in relationships. It also highlights the significance of friendship loss and the emotional flexibility it can provide, along with...

In this episode of the Living Loss podcast, hosts Cassandra and Daiana explore the often-overlooked grief associated with alopecia, a condition that leads to hair loss and can profoundly impact identity and self-image. They are joined by Brigid, who shares her personal journey with alopecia, discussing the emotional toll of camouflaging her hair loss, the challenges of dating, and the journey towa...

In this episode of the Living Loss Podcast, Cassandra and Daiana delve into the complexities of grief, particularly focusing on the concept of 'grief brain' and its effects on mental clarity. They discuss empathy fatigue, a common experience among therapists and caregivers, and the importance of utilizing distress tolerance skills to manage emotional surges. The conversation shifts to the role of...

In this episode, we explore the complex and often invisible grief experienced by siblings of loved ones with disabilities or chronic illnesses. Suyapa Ulloa shares her personal journey, cultural influences like Marianismo, and practical insights on unlearning caregiving roles to embrace self-care and authentic identity. Chapters 00:00 Unpacking Ambiguous Loss 05:47 The Unlearning Process 11:54 The...

In this episode of the Living Loss Podcast, hosts Daiana and Cassandra engage in a heartfelt conversation with Eliana Perez about the unique grief of feeling like a permanent outsider. Eliana shares her journey from Brooklyn to the Dominican Republic and back to the United States, exploring the complexities of identity, culture shock, and the challenges of navigating dual identities. The discussio...

In this episode of the Living Loss podcast, hosts Cassandra and Daiana delve into the quiet, complex griefs experienced by a generation shaped by 9-11, the recession, and the global pandemic. The hosts explore the concept of widening the window of tolerance to find glimmers of joy amidst chaos, while also addressing the impact of collective trauma, delayed grief, radical honesty, and reducing sham...

The Living Loss Podcast hosts, Daiana and Cassandra, unpack the concepts of collective and cumulative grief, discussing the impact of global events on 80s babies and Millennials. They explore the window of tolerance, hyperarousal, and the challenges of parenting in the face of uncertainty and trauma. The conversation delves into the resilience and strength gained through decades of uncertainty, hi...

In this episode, licensed mental health counselors Daiana Bernard and Cassandra Harris-Towner explore the emotional complexity of the post-holiday season and the unique "heaviness" that remains once the decorations are put away. We dive into the post-holiday letdown and why the end of the season can feel like a heavy emotional drop, alongside "the ghost of who you were"—the phenomenon where return...

The Living Loss Podcast explores the complexities of non-death grief, shedding light on different types of non-death grief such as ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, anticipatory grief, delayed grief, and complicated grief. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and validating non-death grief while finding meaning and seeking community su...

The Living Loss Podcast aims to shed light on unrecognized losses, including the loss of identity and fading dreams. It also explores the impact of grief and trauma, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and understanding these experiences. The podcast encourages self-compassion and the pursuit of living authentically with purpose. Takeaways Living Loss Podcast Grief and Trauma Compassion an...