The Chris Ham podcast

I start the episode recapping Thanksgiving and sharing a local pizza gem contrasted with some other famous New York area pizzerias. Yes the pizza is better here and we call them pies!  (0:00-10:21) I then segue talking about hair and mixed race dilution and how people have a tendency to racially pidgeon hole and it shows up in many ways.  Beware of how this same cognitive distortion migh...

If you like my pod- please RATE and REVIEW IT! (0:00-0:43) I start talking about holiday music classics to start how even Ivy League educated people aren't exactly sure when Thanksgiving is and what an incredible holiday it is.(0:44-7:12) I then talk about how a cognitive distortion causes a lot of us to feel fearful of Trump getting re-elected even beyond rationality as we were burned in 2016.(7:...

I start with a strange carding experience while buying vanilla extract at Trader Joe’s. I then recap our quick impromptu family Disney World vacation- airport travel, boarding, other kid meltdowns, Murica represented, and how toddlers ask funny questions. I talk about two cognitive distortions that manifested in my day to day life. I then hop into NFL storylines- Lamar vs. DeShaun, the Bungles, an...

I need more acceptance and less rigidity- I discuss challenges of lack fo sleep in toddlers and my sleep deficit(0:00-3:22) Show housekeeping and why being nice is overrated and edgy is desirable(3:23-9:14) Predictions going into 2019 NFL- where was I right and where was I wrong?(9:19-14:40) Hot takes and storylines(14:43-19:47) Ham Hot Sharp Butter Knife Picks ATS(20:31-25:30) Hot Takes- Self-app...

As we are around the midway point of the 2019 NFL season, I dive into key storylines with another football junkie.   Chris B's stadium tour as an Eagles fan and witnessing Wentz' secret rage under the blue tent after his 2017 season ending knee injury(0:00-9:03).  The Bills/Eagles "cat fight" in Orchard Park(9:03-15:05) The coolest NFL stadiums(15:05-19:30).  The Eagles have a...

This is a shorter episode than usual.   I start ranting about a very inconsiderate cigarette smoker at a gas station.  (0:00-5:23) I then dive into Week 9 picks ATS(6:08-13:20) Hot take- Cigarettes erode your 1-10 attractiveness ratings boys and girls(13:21-15:16)

LONGER SHOW than usual. Part 2 of 2 with my wife Jen. I start talking about the ebb and flows of Halloween as we go through the phases of life.  I then go into how Halloween originated, evolved, and the weird symbols/traditions we accept.  I don't really like it!  (0:00-8:13). TURN UP THE SOUND- Jen and I are back at it and we dive into pregnancy  #2- halfway through, breast mi...

LONGER SHOW than usual. Part 1 of 2 with my wife Jen.  My usual NFL meat is at the end! I start with an episode outline.(0:00-0:55) My wife Jen is finally featured on the pod!  She starts with a Romo rant and thinks he is a overrated of an announcer as he was as a player. She comes with plenty of sass and we start with the description of our couch studio, go through her historicly accura...

I wanted my wife Jen on this week but life happened and we are delayed(0:00-3:19). I begin talking about the adopted word “chief”, why I love it, and a local example of one(3:20- 9:48). I then talk about why it’s cowardly to ghost people.(9:51-12:28). I then give a few updates on parenting a 3-year old(12:31-15:44). Then we jump into the NFL-why Darnold is better than Sanchez b...

I start with tip jars- I'm all for them but I want to be seen putting money in them!  I do. (0:00-4:00) I then segue to the unspoken nuances of early pregnancy- awkwardness around "trying", first trimester hiding, Jen almost got into a fight 1st trimester when we were preganant with our first. (4:01-15:50) I discuss the philosophical concept that we simplify people and situations but overcomplicat...

I start this episode talking about how we are on the brink of a new decade and reflect more about friend/family dynamics.  I talk about how everyone has a bandwidth when it comes to friendships and family time and a good metaphor is a parking lot.  We talk about the classification of friendships and  look at data from psychologists and anthropologists.(0:00-14:05) NFL week 4 to week 5 storylines-...

I start the episode discussing the great weather this time of the year but boy do I hate insects(0:00-3:49).  I then share an unexpected commuting delay(3:50-7:34). Beware of the "no offense" disclaimer from people and a big personal announcement(7:35-10:44). Upcoming episode topics(10:45-12:59). A few philosophical debates- do actions speak louder than words?  what would athletes be centuries ago...

I start the episode discussing the direct relationsip between tattoo coverage and craziness.(0:00-3:50) I then segue to the romantacism of Eli Manning and yes he is a clutch hero but not a first ballot NFL Hall of Famer. (3:51-13:10) Matt Ryan is overrated and Russell Wilson is underrated.(13:15-18:18) Why Roger Goodell is a lackluster commissioner.(18:19-20:45) Recap of storylines going into week...

I start on a somber note discussing the magnitude of 9/11 and how even though I didn't lose loved ones, as I get older, I feel the pain more acutely.  I recount how that day unfolded for me. (1:20-10:00) NFL week 1 to week 2 bridge and what to expect every week.(10:03-11:08) Antonio Brown can't surprirse you anymore and the reactionary response to the Patriots-  calm down!  It's one week and they...

The NFL 2019 season is here!  Mitch Trubisky ain't good!  Why are people surprised?(0:00-5:15) NFL high level trends- there is parity.  You should always forecast a handful of playoff turnover(5:15-6:50) AFC breakdown(6:51-19:50) NFC breakdown(20:36- Seaons finishses, awards, hot takes summarized(32:56-35:13) Hard Knocks recap(35:14) Hot Take- Hurricane names(39:47-41:08)

Gun control is my single biggest political priority - This episode goes deep on gun violence statistics, common arguments, and ties the promotion of gun to white nationalism and dog whistle racism.   Hot take- College kids, stop paying separately when you order food on line!( 0:51-3:17). I am scared every day.  How  unique our gun problem is in America and mass shootings are getting worse.(3:18-7:...

I start discussing horror of teenage dressing and how navigating this reality is in the not-so distant future. (0:00-2:57) I then give a recap, LATE, I'm sorry of Hard Knocks Episode 4.  Knock on wood if you're with me!(5:09-17:31) Finally I go around the league breaking down every single AFC and NFC coaching staff and note things to watch as we are days away from the 2019 NFL season! (17:36-37:59...

I’m not a chicken, you’re a turkey commercial(1:21-3:21).  Hard Knocks episode 3 recap(3:22-12:29)

Some more football- I breakdown a hypothetical trade thrown out by a group text with friends that sparked me to illustrate that at times NFL teams reach for certain white QBs. Mitch Trubisky is polarizing for that reason.  We then talk more Hard Knocks.   Road construction in August sucks(0:37-2:28). Why Mitch Trubisky bothers me and I root against him.  Comparing him to Patrick Mahomes is laughab...

A lighter listen- I love football and we get excited for the upcoming 2019 season by recapping the season premier of Hard Knocks, and knock out some early hot takes for the NFL season.   My sneakers are falling apart and here's why(0:37-2:33). Where and how I met John Gruden & Hard Knocks episode 1 recap(2:24-11:38). I love the Yankees, Jets, mixed race QBs, and QBs that are 5'10"(11:39-18:30). 4...

Do you ever get frustrated with outdated or stale assumptions by family or friends? - This episode tackles why even as we become men and women, it's hard for people that have known us our whole lives to see us differently.   Vacation to Vermont gave me a boost & how the famous Joe Pesci and Frank Vincent scene from GoodFellas sets the stage for a common interaction for people as they progress thro...

 Do flag protests bother you?  Do the people who complain about the protests bother you?  In this episode we explore America and how the flag is intepreted by our citizens including a detailed perspective from a military veteran.      Wedding proposals, playing sports in extreme heat (1:48-4:04).   Why it's important to fight not flight when we are part...

Why the “one-drop rule” has become a lazy practice for a lot of Americans- On this episode I express my displeasure about racial classifications in this country and bring in another bi-racial friend to highlight our common ground in spite of being a different racial mix. Discussion about wedding anniversary, my toddler’s birthday, and Sesame Place getaway (2:08-5:30). People have a tendency to ove...

How a yuppie became afraid of the police- An experience is a major catalyst to change and describes how in the upper middle class my whole life didn’t insulate me from an institutional problem—>Girls and guys dinners contrasted(0:00-1:44). Common myths debunked(1:45-4:11). Early attitudes toward police(4:12-10:34). An experience that changed my life(10:35-17:09). Changed despite stronger socioecon...

What you don’t hear about friendships when you’re a little kid- How friendships evolve through your first few decades of life(3:17). Rants: Elevator button impatience and elderly drivers(25:53)