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The Barrow Podcast
A self-hating Boomer mum and her disgruntled boomerang son reunite to have the conversations they've been avoiding and utilise their combined insight into divorce, dysfunctional families, and mental illness to write a memoir together.
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GUEST EPISODE: Anna Koutsafti on ghosts, ghosting, the loneliness epidemic, SSRIs, and the sex lives of mussels. 24.05.2026 1:01:09
Anna Koutsafti is a writer and multidisciplinary artist. She runs Ghost Press, a collaborative publishing project based in Glasgow providing a platform to emerging artists and writers to experiment with the art book form. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 You can find Anna via her website: annakoutsafti.com Connect with Anna on Instagram: http://instagram.com/ann.a.vailable/ Keep up to date with all thi...
GUEST EPISODE | Jack Norman on parenting, short story writing, and his new collection Sleep Capricorn. 16.05.2026 32:18
In this special guest episode, I sit down with author Jack Norman to talk short story writing, fatherhood and parenting, and his new book Sleep Capricorn. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Purchase Jack’s short story collection here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Sleep-Capricorn-Stories-Jack-Norman/dp/0645776890 Sleep Capricorn is published by Bonfire Books: https://bonfirebooks.org/ Don't forget— Mum...
Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kaysen | Mental illness, gender, and our cultural obsession with mental health. 02.05.2026 34:23
Mum & I discuss Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kaysen, as well as our current cultural obsession with mental health and the discourses that have surrounded it for decades. Plus, we reflect on gender, Robert Farquharson, and another mental illness memoir - Down Below by Leonora Carrington. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by goi...
BONUS READING | '1933' by Mavis Gallant 26.04.2026 20:41
Instead of a paywalled reading from our memoir-in-progress, we decided to do something different & release this one for free. In the first of our bonus reading series, I read to Mum the short story '1933' by Canadian writer Mavis Gallant. Enjoy! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what...
MEMOIR-IN-PROGRESS | 'Appearances' & 'Russell' 25.04.2026 41:14
Mum & I are giving you free access to another two reading episodes from behind the paywall. These episodes are for paying subscribers only and are exclusive to Substack. If you like what you hear and want to follow along while we write our book, then become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exc...
This House of Grief by Helen Garner | Family annihilators and the precarity of access arrangements. 18.04.2026 44:48
Mum & I discuss Helen Garner’s non-fiction masterpiece This House of Grief, as well as the phenomenon of fathers who kill their children, and the trauma and vulnerability associated with travelling to and from access arrangements. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed u...
Access Arrangements | When children become effigies. 11.04.2026 51:54
Mum & I discuss what the immediate aftermath of her divorce meant for us both & our new reality of Family Court & access arrangements. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exclusive readings from our memoir-in-...
Updates | Mum & I discuss the current state of our memoir, plus our favourite books from childhood. 04.04.2026 26:36
No book today, folks. Instead, Mum & I deliver some updates about our memoir-in-progress, plus we take a brief look at some meaningful titles from our childhood and adolescent reading lists. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂...
Divorce | Reconciling what "should" have been. 28.03.2026 50:12
Mum & I discuss her divorce & the sliding doors moment it presented for us both. We also talk about Bridget Phetasy’s 2024 article ‘How divorce never ends’ published in The Spectator & covered on an episode of The Unspeakeasy Podcast, hosted our favourite personal essayist Meghan Daum. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 For more, check out the following links— BRIDGET PHETASY: ‘How divorce ne...
The Pitfalls of Progressivism | Homophobia, divorce, identity politics, history, & feminism. 21.03.2026 50:18
Mum & I talk about identity politics & the ways our story has become unnecessarily complicated. We also reflect on domestic history, feminism, the gay rights movement, and divorce. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 *Guys, as I've received some interest in the article in today's episode, I won't be releasing it on the blog. Fingers crossed it finds a home soon. If and when it does, I&#...
Desertion | Men who abandon their families. 14.03.2026 43:38
Mum reflects on the day her husband left & we contemplate the legacies of men who abandon their children. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exclusive readings from our memoir-in-progress 📖 ✅ Bonus episodes 🎙️ ✅ F...
Karl Ove Knausgaard 07.03.2026 50:21
This week, Mum & I discuss Inadvertent by Karl Ove Knausgaard, as well as the author's successful My Struggle series. Truth, time, details, & thinking vs feeling. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Links:The Method and Madness podcast talk Knausgaard: https://www.madmethodpod.com/podcast/ep-02-knausgaards-my-struggle-vol-1Check out their YouTube channel here: @madmethodpod Don't forget...
Scorpios United 28.02.2026 37:08
Mum abuses her opportunity to speak, admits “it was a battle to decide to have a child”, then ponders the effects of passivity, defensiveness and projection. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exclusive readings from our...
GUEST EPISODE | David Goodwin on masculinity, literary culture, dead end jobs, & trauma. 25.02.2026 44:13
Author David Goodwin joins the show to talk about his memoir Servo. For more information, see the links below. Purchase Servo here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Servo-Tales-Graveyard-David-Goodwin/dp/0733651194 Connect with David on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidgoodwn/ Connect with David on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/djgwriter Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Beco...
The Catastrophe Hour by Meghan Daum | Family, desire, & personal reflection. 21.02.2026 44:47
Mum & I discuss The Catastrophe Hour, a collection of personal essays by writer and host of The Unspeakeasy Podcast Meghan Daum. We also reflect on desire & its absence in our lives. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Listen to The Unspeakeasy Podcast: https://www.theunspeakablepodcast.com/podcast Purchase The Catastrophe Hour: https://www.amazon.com/Catastrophe-Hour-Selected-Essays/dp/191255968...
Wedding Bells | Self-loathing, the true meaning of marriage, & a horrible history of family photos. 14.02.2026 40:12
I ask Mum what getting married really meant to her… Family values, hypocrisy, and enmeshment. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exclusive readings from our memoir-in-progress 📖 ✅ Bonus episodes 🎙️ ✅ Field recordings 🎤...
MEMOIR-IN-PROGRESS | ‘Friends’ & ‘Alarms’ 11.02.2026 50:55
Mum & I are giving you free access to another two reading episodes from behind the paywall. These episodes are for paying subscribers only and are exclusive to Substack. If you like what you hear and want to follow along while we write our book, then become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exc...
Difficult Women by David Plante | Middle-class sensibilities, ethics & controversy. 07.02.2026 39:56
Mum & I discuss David Plante’s divisive memoir, Difficult Women, & debate ethics in writing. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exclusive readings from our memoir-in-progress 📖 ✅ Bonus episodes 🎙️ ✅ Field recordin...
Engagement Cake | Overbearing mothers, family tensions, & regret. 31.01.2026 57:42
We’re back & the memoir continues! Mum goes off to Teacher’s College, where she attempts to strike a balance between life & study. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Don't forget— Mum & I are on Substack. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? 🤷♀️📚🤷♂️ ✅ Exclusive readings from our memoir-in-progress 📖...
GUEST EPISODE | Richard Cabut on modern writing, capitalism, the Situationists, & his new book Ripped Backsides. 17.12.2025 41:39
In this special guest episode, I sit down with writer Richard Cabut to talk creative process, philosophy, and his new book Ripped Backsides. Thanks for listening! ☺️🙏 Purchase Ripped Backsides here: https://www.farwestpress.com/far-west-books/p/ripped-backsides-richard-cabut Connect with Richard on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richard.cabut/ Find Richard’s other works through his website:...
Can You Ever Forgive Me? | Lee Israel's comedy memoir on forgeries, literary aspiration, & delusion. 13.12.2025 34:48
In the last episode of 2025, Mum & I talk about Lee Israel's memoir Can You Ever Forgive Me?, as well as its film adaptation starring Melissa McCarthy and Richard E. Grant. Thanks so much for listening so far and Merry Christmas from us both! The Barrow Podcast will be back with a new episode next year - Sunday, February 1 OUR CHRISTMAS SUBSTACK DISCOUNT RUNS DECEMBER 1-18 Don't forget— Mum &a...
Everything's Fine | Manipulation, narcissism, avoidance, & control. 06.12.2025 57:54
As the memoir continues and Mum's story unfolds, we talk about how avoidance is weaponised to gain control, a new character's origins, and a masterful manipulation. Thanks for listening! OUR CHRISTMAS SUBSTACK DISCOUNT RUNS DECEMBER 1-18 Don't forget— Mum & I are now on Substack, where we offer bonus episodes, readings from our memoir-in-progress, plus access to our archives. Become a subscrib...
So Long, See You Tomorrow by William Maxwell | Rural stoicism, memory, and sliding doors. 29.11.2025 37:03
Mum & I talk about William Maxwell’s So Long, See You Tomorrow & agree that equity is disliking everyone. Tender renderings of boyhood, assertive statements of Truth, rural stoicism, & more! Thanks for listening Don't forget— Mum & I are now on Substack, where we offer bonus episodes, readings from our memoir-in-progress, plus access to our archives. Become a subscriber today by go...
Badges of Honour | Mother and son discuss mental health, love and relationships. 22.11.2025 56:56
Mum & I reflect on my most recent mental health nosedive, before getting into personal standards, boundaries, love, relationships and endurance. We also talk about the death of Mum's mother, as well as Mum's hospitalisation and subsequent mental health journey. Thanks for listening! OUR CHRISTMAS SUBSTACK DISCOUNT RUNS DECEMBER 1-18 Don't forget— Mum & I are now on Substack, where we offer...
Pedigree by Patrick Modiano | Social class, psychogeography, hauntings, & family history. 15.11.2025 27:56
Mum & I discuss Patrick Modiano’s short memoir Pedigree, before reflecting on our own “pedigree” & what happens when we can’t let go of the past. Thanks for listening Don't forget— Mum & I are now on Substack, where we offer bonus episodes, readings from our memoir-in-progress, plus access to our archives. Become a subscriber today by going to thebarrowpod.substack.com . Follow us on—...
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