So Nigerian

SO NIGERIAN PODCAST IS BACK! On our return episode, we discuss what we were up to during the break, our tech startup ideas, and where we’ll be next week to push our ideas. Speaking about that, you can catch us at Moonshot by Tech Cabal on the 15th & 16th of this month, where you get to meet the hottest minds in Africa’s tech ecosystem. We’ll also be giving away a ticket to one lucky listener....

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SVBkFnnOtKk Dear So Nigerians, as we go on our very much needed break to relax from everything 2025 has thrown at us, we bring you a very special episode, leaving you in the hands of the greatest, the legend himself, M.I Abaga.  This is one for the books, we go beyond the music and talk about everything from relationships and marriage to adulthood, money, an...

Wish Dami Aros a Happy Birthday guys  Hey guys! This week, we are joined by the freshly retired Isaac from Road to 30 Podcast, and by “retired,” we mean he just wrapped up his 20s! And also, as many of you may know, our sister-podcast has also come to an end, and we couldn’t think of a better way to honour that journey than to bring Isaac on for one final chat. We talk about navigating your 2...

So Nigerians! On this episode, we sit down with an incredible and talented photographer to talk about what it really takes to build a career behind the camera in a country like ours. We talk about what it’s like navigating clients, pricing your work, staying creative under pressure, and why photographers deserve way more respect than they get. Whether you’re a content creator, creative, or someone...

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we get into something a little bit controversial, but necessary - religion to today’s Nigerian youth.  We compare our religious practice between childhood and now, if religion has helped us as a society, inter-religious relationships, and many other “holy” stuff.  If you’ve ever struggled to balance your belief system with your reality, this episode is defin...

Watch here - https://youtu.be/JEFQXd4Hr8E Hey guys! On today’s episode, we have just one question for you. Should you take back a cheating partner?  We talk about everything from “it was just a mistake” to “once a cheat, always a cheat” and whether love, marriage, or years of history should make forgiveness easier (or harder). Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Can trust ever...

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re talking about something a lot of us are struggling with - Work-Life Balance. Is it even possible in this economy? From toxic hustle culture to Lagos traffic, pressure from family, and employers who think you should be available 24/7, we’re breaking it all down. Are we overworking because we have to or because we’re addicted to the grind? Can you really rest when...

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we are joined by photographer, fitness enthusiast and content creator - Fayokunmi, to discuss the fitness culture in Nigeria, as well as some solid nutrition tips. This one is for the gym buddies and aspiring ones too. Our guest shares her journey, struggles, and hilarious encounters trying to stay fit in Naija. We talk about body goals vs. body reality, how diet cu...

No Video Episode but you can Watch Dami Aros find love on Korty Love or Lies - https://youtu.be/TnGuSo2FSEQ?si=ZRo3Dp4m2THpS1GY Hey guys! Today we talked about that silent stress that comes for all of us, peer pressure. Whether it’s career, japa, marriage, or just flexing on social media, the pressure to “keep up” in today’s Nigeria is no joke. We unpack the funny, messy, and sometimes toxic...

Watch on YouTube - https://youtu.be/X8UYgXV03Eo Hello guys! On today’s episode, we’re honoured to sit with the incredibly talented Michael, aka BMS Made It Know Jesus Know Peace, as he shares his unique story and experiences living with dwarfism in Nigeria. From growing up and navigating school life, to the challenges in friendships, family dynamics, and building a career in the creative space, Mi...

Our guys! On today’s episode, we’re breaking down the wild world of Nigerian stereotypes. From the classic “Yoruba demons” to the “Igbo fraudster” slander, and the idea that every Calabar girl knows how to cook and steal your man! We talk about the tribal, gender, and class-based stereotypes we’ve heard (and maybe even believed), how they’ve shaped our friendships, dating lives, and job opportunit...

So Nigerians!! On today’s episode, we’re talking about micro-cheating. Yeah, that sneaky little sibling of full-blown cheating. Is liking someone’s thirst trap at 1AM just being friendly, or are you emotionally unavailable and unserious? We’re unpacking the blurry lines: hidden DMs, “work wife/husbands,” and all those situationships that live rent-free in your notifications. Is it harmless fun or...

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we really didn’t talk about anything specific. Nigeria happened to us in many ways, so the energy to come up with a topic was low, so we really just yapped about everything that’s been happening. We also talked about the Nigerian habit of adjusting or like we say “we move”-ing when there are problems. It’s resilience, but sometimes we need to fight the mediocrity. A...

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re getting real about male friendships, or the lack of them. Why is it so hard for men to open up to each other? Is everyone just vibing on surface level while struggling in silence?   We talk about the unspoken loneliness many men carry, why checking in feels awkward, and how the whole “men don’t cry” thing is still messing things up. Whether you’ve got a sol...

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re diving into the pressure to “be somebody” online. From hustle culture to curated soft life aesthetics, we unpack how social media can make you feel like you’re not doing enough, even when you’re actually trying your best. We talk about the highs and lows of scrolling through everyone’s wins, the temptation to fake it for the algorithm, and the silent competition...

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we talkied about how being in Nigeria today has shaped our love lives, sometimes for better, but mostly for chaos! From financial stress to family expectations, and japa wahala. We break down the dating culture in Nigeria today. We also talk about the role social media has played, splitting bills in this economy, and whether love can really survive on vibes and infl...

Hello guys! Today, we’re diving into a serious but much-needed conversation - cyberbullying. From trolling and dragging to full-blown online harassment, we’re breaking down how cyberbullying happens, why people do it, and how it affects mental health, careers, and even businesses. We also talk about the Nigerian social media space, are we just “savage,” or have we normalized bullying in the name o...

So Nigerians! On today’s episode, we discuss something that’s not often talked about but super important—Sexual Purity vs. Celibacy. Are they the same thing? Is celibacy just about not having sex, and does sexual purity go deeper than that? We break it all down, from personal choices to religious beliefs, societal expectations, and the real struggles of maintaining either as a Nigerian youth....

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we’re taking a trip down memory lane, but not the fun kind. We’re comparing prices from not so long ago to now and asking, how did things get this bad? From fuel and food to rent and house bills, we’re breaking down how the cost of living has skyrocketed and what it means for the average Nigerian. If you’ve been feeling the heat in your pocket, you’re not alone! Lis...

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we’re asking the big question, is age really just a number when it comes to love and relationships? We talk about age-gap dating, why it’s still a hot topic, and whether love can truly conquer the years or decades between two people. We also get into the double standards: why it’s okay for men to date younger women but somehow strange when women date younger men. Pl...

Hello guys! If you’re fund of calculating other people’s finances, this episode is for you. On today’s episode, we discuss pocket-watching. From social media audits of luxury lifestyles to parents asking, “How much do you earn?”, why are Nigerians so obsessed with other people’s money? We also discuss the pressures of looking rich, the rise of online flex culture, and why many assume that young pe...

Hello So Nigerians! On today’s episode, we spotlight something that doesn’t get talked about enough - sexual discipline. In a world where temptation is everywhere, from social media to peer pressure, how do young Nigerians maintain self-control? Is abstinence still realistic, or is it all about balance? We discuss people’s expectations around sex, and the challenges of abstaining from sex. If you’...

So Nigerians! On today’s episode, we talk about celebrity worship and stan culture, because let’s be real, some people are way too invested in their faves. We break down the difference between being a regular fan and a full-blown stan, why people defend celebrities like their lives depend on it, and how social media has turned fandoms into digital battlegrounds. We also get into the psychology beh...

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we talk about one of the biggest relationship dealbreakers which is financial compatibility. We get into the real questions: Does money matter more than love? Can a spender and a saver truly make it work? And what happens when one person makes significantly more than the other? We also discuss bill-splitting, financial red flags, and whether combining finances is a...

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we get real about navigating friendships as adults, because let’s be honest, it’s not as easy as it used to be. We talk about why making new friends feels like a job interview, how life changes like work and even japa, affect friendships, and the struggle of keeping in touch when adulting is adulting. We also discuss friendship breakups, setting boundaries, and whet...