SECOND CLOCK™

We are all molded by where we came from, and who we were surrounded by. Little by little we take shape. I learned to adapt and play by the rules that others set. Before I started to challenge social norms, I first thrived in them. This is my origin story.

When you take steps to end your marriage, there is a brief sense of freedom, followed by the sad awareness that your children will need to know and eventually your friends, family and your immediate world. My seemingly private relationship with my husband, was becoming public, just as things were being figured out and becoming undone. My reasons, decisions and plans were now subject to other peopl...

It was not easy to undo a 20 year relationship, it was not easy to figure out what to say and pick the "right" time to say it, but I found it harder to live in the shadows and lie. Here I come to terms with ending my marriage and taking on the societal label of "separated." I chose this path so I could meet the woman I had become.

At 43 I found myself caught between societal expectations and what felt right, for me. It was the act of cheating that would lead me to question everything I thought I understood and wanted. Through this rediscovery of my Body, Mind and Soul I was awoken.

To rediscover who I am and what I truly stand for, appreciate and will accept, I first had to evaluate who I currently am, how I got here and what I needed to understand and shed. I started with my Mind. After so many years of toxic relationships with family, friends and employers, I realized I would need to understand how I let them in before I could cast out everything that did not feel right.

To rediscover who I am and what I truly stand for, appreciate and will accept, I first had to evaluate who I currently am, how I got here and what I needed to understand and shed. After looking at my Mind I tackled my Body. I stopped being trapped by labels and started by re-envisioning myself then reshaping myself from head to toe. I grew stronger in who I was and start to embody and align with t...

To rediscover who I am and what I truly stand for, appreciate and will accept, I first had to evaluate who I currently am, how I got here and what I needed to understand and shed. I started with my Soul. After so dedicating my life to what society said is what I should aspire to have and work hard to keep I started to feel the whispers from inside, questioning it all.

At 43 I was happily married, with two kids, a successful business and found myself lost in societal expectations and having fulfilled my obligations to my biological clock, it was then that I heard the ticking of my Second Clock. A clock I set and that would accompany me as I risk walking away from everything society says women should have if they want "it all.” I turn inward to find what mak...