Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You've probably heard people talk about "manifesting" their ideal relationship or saving their marriage just by thinking positive thoughts. But when your marriage is in crisis, hope alone isn’t a strategy. In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes—CEO of Marriage Helper and trained performance psychologist—breaks down why traditional manifestation fall...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when a well-meaning husband provides, protects, and leads—yet still finds himself blindsided by his wife's decision to walk away? In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Nathan McIntyre unpack a real-life story of a man who thought he was doing everything “right” in his marriage… until it all fell apart. You'll hear: ✔ Why many spouses f...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! 🔎 What Does Research Say About Marital Satisfaction Among Christians? | Marriage Helper + Barna Study In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes dive deep into the fascinating findings from a 2021 survey conducted by Barna Research Group in partnership with Marriage Helper. ➡️ What percentage of Christian couples are truly satisfied in their...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The silent treatment isn't always intentional. When your spouse emotionally checks out, it creates a painful void that can feel impossible to bridge. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes tackle this common marriage struggle with uncommon honesty, revealing the hidden causes behind emotional disconnection. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. G...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Research shows that four specific communication behaviors during arguments can predict divorce with 80-90% accuracy, while eliminating these behaviors can dramatically improve marriage success. • The four horsemen of relationship conflict are defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling • Defensiveness deflects blame and responsibility, creating a downwar...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Ever found yourself wondering why your spouse doesn't just "get it" without you having to say anything? You're not alone. Marriage communication breaks down in predictable patterns, but understanding these patterns is your first step toward meaningful change. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens in a marriage when one spouse says those three devastating words: "I hate you"? This powerful exploration takes us deep into the psychology of hatred in intimate relationships, revealing surprising truths about how love and hate function as parallels rather than opposites. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens in a marriage when one spouse says those three devastating words: "I hate you"? This powerful exploration takes us deep into the psychology of hatred in intimate relationships, revealing surprising truths about how love and hate function as parallels rather than opposites. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! There's a lot of bad marriage advice out there. Control and manipulation tactics. Tracking, spying and hacking your spouses devices. Having an open marriage. Watching pornography together. We've heard counselors, therapists and other marriage "experts" tell people to do these things because it can lead to the reconciliation of the marriage.  T...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when a marriage suffers from both of the top relationship killers – affairs and controlling behavior? Marcos and Elisa take us through their raw, unfiltered journey of shattered trust and the painstaking process of rebuilding it from the ground up. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Yo...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! If you’ve ever felt your relationship is struggling due to miscommunication, this episode is for you. Join us as we explore the compelling concept of SMART Contact™—a vital communication strategy designed to bring couples closer, even during turbulent times. We delve into the intricate balance of pushes and pulls in conversations, revealing how understanding thes...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is your marriage at risk because of limerence? In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes break down the science behind limerence—what it is, how it differs from romantic love, and why it can be so destructive in marriage. You’ll learn: ✔️ The key differences between limerence and true love ✔️ How to tell if you or your spouse ar...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! When you don't agree with your spouse, it can be incredibly frustrating. It might be something where you absolutely HAVE TO come to some sort of resolution, but you are both hard set in your views. Handling divisive topics in marriage is extremely important. On one hand, you want to be able to learn how to have healthy compromise with one another. On the oth...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Can a single decision shake the very foundations of your well-being? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we navigate the turbulent waters of marital distress and explore its profound impacts on our lives. This episode uncovers the intellectual, emotional, physical, and spiritual challenges that arise when relationships are in crisis. We'll confront how panic and fear...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when you discover your spouse is in love with someone else? Dr. Joe Beam tackles this heart-wrenching scenario on Relationship Radio by guiding listeners through the emotional labyrinth that ensues. From the initial shock and pain to grappling with a crushed ego and questioning one's reality, Dr. Beam offers a path forward by encouraging accepta...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Feeling like your marriage is over? Discover the transformative power of self-reflection and respect! You have the power to change everything. What will your first step be? Join the new Save My Marriage Program! marriagehelper.com/membership If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What are the top reasons divorces occur in the United States? Studies show that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce, while 41% of first marriages will end the same way. So what are the underlying reasons, and what can you do to fix that? Find out on today's episode! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Ste...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The episode delves into the idea that happiness is a choice, especially after experiencing life's hardships. Dr. Joe Beam shares personal stories and practical insights about interpreting events positively, whether dealing with serious illness or relationship difficulties. • Exploring the question of happiness after trauma  • The significance of personal per...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Trust can be a fragile and complex component of any relationship, as many of us have discovered through personal experience. Imagine rebuilding your relationship after a significant breach of trust; it’s not impossible, but it requires effort and understanding. Today, we unravel the hidden layers of betrayal, from infidelity to financial deceit, and the emotional...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam answers questions listeners have submitted to the show. We cover: - The Valley - Limerence -Commitment - & Much more Tune in and share this episode with a friend or family member you think might need to hear it! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 h...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! This episode was taken from our 2nd Annual Very Merry Marriage Helper Christmas. Merry Christmas from all of us at Marriage Helper. We hope you leave with a little more hope after listening to this episode ❤️🎄 If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 B...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What are the most important things to look for when searching for marriage help? Is it experience? Good reviews? A high success rate? The answer is yes… to ALL of those things. But success rate is a more nuanced metric. HOW the success rate is calculated matters just as much as the actual success rate, and that’s what we talk about on today’s episode. In this epi...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What if the secrets we hold closest are the ones that weigh us down the most? Join us for a powerful conversation with Ren Bester from South Africa as we unravel the intricate emotions of guilt, shame, and regret within the context of marriage and personal actions. Ren's journey of overcoming these burdens, especially given his religious upbringing and the p...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is it possible to be in love with two people at once? 🤔 It’s a question many wrestle with, and the answer might surprise you. In this eye-opening episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Ren Bester tackle this complex topic with honesty, empathy, and a bit of humor. 💡 We dive deep into: •The psychology behind different types of love 💞 •The role of limer...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when you're deeply in love with someone who isn't your spouse? Join Dr. Joe Beam, as we explore this emotional maze with Ren, who bravely shares his journey of multiple affairs and the overpowering grip of limerence. Together, we navigate the complex emotions tied to being infatuated with another person, and how Ren, with the help of Marria...