Real LIFE with Ray

I need to add this disclaimer really fast because I don't want to send out the wrong message. GOD is amazing and so is church but we have to use discernment with a side of common sense when joining or visiting churches

I want to be clear I'm not bashing BLACK people but I'm sharing my experience in BLACK Churches. Not all Black churches are BAD or performative.

The story of my Cousin Vinny, guilt, and the power of Prayer and encouragement. Hope this helps someone.

I heard a story on X today and realized how the smallest things can be soooooooooooooo HUGE in relationships.

Sorry my mistake I need 4 more women willing to tell their stories.

Witchcraft in the Workplace is REAL and baby I’m ready to tell my story. Don’t yall laugh at my pics either 😂🤣😫

This episode is about my personal experience with setting boundaries. Chat with me on X/Twitter @msraybay

Why do MEN feel like a baby and a ring can take away the pain of ABUSE? Let's discuss it 

I had a wonderful conversation/prayer with my coworkers this morning and wanted to share with you all.  What runs in the FAMILY doesn't have to run in YOUR FAMILY. What someone else died from in the FAMILY, doesn't mean you'll die that WAY. Your LIFE is your LIFE, your FATE is your FATE and ONLY YOU can determine how you want to live your LIFE. Listen and SHARE

Sooo I randomly spoke with a Verizon REP about his marriage *Yes ya'll lol* and it made me think about the actual FACT that every WOMAN has that 1 MAN she wished she had in her life. *(If he's not already there) Let's discuss it

Wait here me out, let's discuss Kevin Samuels? 

You ever feel stagnant or like LIFE is not getting any better? Let's discuss those "FRIENDS" that's around you? Are those Friends assigned to ruin you or to assist you? 

We grow up thinking we need certain people but sometimes GOD will bring in divine relationships that's bigger & better and that's what you need to focus on. 

Just like that 1 day I decided to stop trying to save other people and focus on my own destiny. Let's Discuss it

Is RATCHET the new Marriage and Relationship Goal?  Is disrespecting our spouses, cursing them out, blasting them on social media the new thing now?  Are we making this a trend? Let's Discuss 

How do you still LOVE when you don't always feel the love back? Let's discuss it

Is LUST ruining dating? Are we doomed if we're not already married? Let's Discuss

Can single women cross the line as platonic friends? Let's discuss it 

I lost my Dad this year and I wanted to share the journey I started and what I'm doing to heal and grow through this very shocking situation. Hope I can help someone with my story RIP Ray aka Dad

Is your Stagnation tied to the company you keep? Let's discuss it!!

Why are we victim blaming? Why do victims have to have a time LIMIT on when they expose their TRAUMA and PAIN? I am so bothered by the allegations but I am even more bothered by the people that are disrespecting the victims...

I saw a series of tweets and I had to make an episode speaking on this.... HOW far should a WOMAN go to keep a MAN and who is truly suffering in the situation? Should a CHILD go through HELL for your HAPPINESS?

I'm SURE IN THE COOLEST PLACES IN THE WORLD IT'S SOMEONE WHO HATES LIVING THERE, AND WELL THIS IS A LITTLE BIT OF MY STORY AND WHY I LEFT SC AND WHY I'LL NEVER EVER GO BACK. SCRIPTURE REFERENCE USED: LUKE: 16-30

I realized from my last abusive relationship that I did some abusing myself.  I want a GREAT MAN and an even better husband but I want to be the WOMAN GOD wants me to be for him. TAKE A LISTEN.......

THE FRIENDSHIP THAT BROUGHT ON STRANGE ISSUES.... IS YOUR "FRIENDS" AND EVEN BAD "FAMILY MEMBERS" STOPPING YOUR LIFE PROGRESS?