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Ever get the feeling that waiting till marriage is a bit old-fashioned? Seems like everyone's just doing their thing with their significant other anyway, right? But have you ever thought there might be more to it than waking up feeling guilty about what went down the night before? Shelby Abbott gets real about what the Bible really says about sex, how to set boundaries that actually make sense, an...

Can you keep real affection for your bf/gf without ghosting a friend? Balancing loyalty gets tricky. Bela Lemon and Reagon Fillinger share tips to keep your ride-or-die while still getting that date night! Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

I need a friend....deeper than just small talk. Meet Bella Lemon and Regan Fillinger, the ultimate BFF duo. They've tackled everything together – from fights to being each other's rock in tough times. They've got experience with tough love, rooted faith, and loyalty. If you're looking for a ride-or-die friend or want to take your group of friends to the next level, these two have some solid advice...

Ever feel like everything's kinda empty and dark? Is there any real purpose to life or fulfillment out there? Admitted addict Gabe Mahalik knows what it's like to feel like there's no way out. If you're looking to fill the empty space with something but you're not quite sure what, this one's for you. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . See cru.org/us/en/about/pr...

Ever feel like things are spiraling out of control—leaving you anxious and depressed? Gabe Mahalik had enough when he realized he couldn't do the party scene anymore. He eventually got out of it, and found a weight off his shoulders. If you're wondering whether the party scene has a grip on you, don't miss his story. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . See cru.o...

Shelby and some Gen-Z friends engage in a lively discussion on brokenness, healing of past pain, and childhood "aha" moments. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Repeatedly checking the lock on your door. Counting and repeating words to prevent something bad: OCD wasn't just something Bruce dealt with. It controlled his everyday life. Bruce gets real on his path to breaking free. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . Matt Chandler Sermon Jam Every Donation Makes and Impact  Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/abou...

In light of Valentine's Day, Shelby shares some important insight for couples (and hopeful romantics) that doesn't quite line up with our natural inclinations...or the cultural norms today. What's the key to a thriving dating relationship? This bonus episode can help you with that. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

The Bible is...big. Where do you even start? (Please don't say Leviticus.) Shelby offers ideas on the best way to read the Bible--and bring it to life on an average Thursday. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Can God REALLY use the suffering of things like eating disorders and relationship break-ups? College student Bela Lemon shares her experiences with both—and how she's seeing God use her in the midst of life's hurts. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact  Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy...

Don't have it all figured out at the beginning of college? That's okay. Sometimes students go through the first few weeks or months of college and then say to themselves, "This is not even me." Listen to college student Bela Lemon share about the choices she made her freshman year that left her empty—and craving new kind of community. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social ch...

Ever wonder how to share your faith? Josh Baker opens up about how sharing your faith can be a challenge when dealing with people of different backgrounds. He shares about "The Oiio Story,"a powerful tool that makes sharing the Christian journey super easy! Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . Here's the website to learn more about the OiiO gospel tool, and how t...

Don't know what to do with your life? Figuring out the next path can be draining. Reagan Fillinger gets it—and pitches ideas for figuring out your future. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact  Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Sex, attraction, and Christian relationships: How do those even work? Zion Adams lost his virginity in college, and after his breakup, struggled with other sources of sexual sin. He shares ideas on crushing temptation and setting bold boundaries. Show Notes and Resources Listen to more on Real Life Loading... Download Right Now Media — an essential resource for spiritual resources. Stream content...

Ever wondered what it's like for Ukrainian refugees to leave everything behind in the face of war? Sasha, who left her family in Ukraine post-invasion, opens up about her faith journey, coping with challenges, and navigating how to live life with this change. Discover valuable insights on facing tough times and finding hope in heartbreak. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social...

Do the holidays bring you stress? Discover the true meaning of Christmas, which offers a message of hope. Shelby explores the essence of Christianity and how a 2,000-year-old baby's birth holds relevance today. This holiday season, let's find a new perspective and leave behind the dread. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact Find Out...

College senior Laney Fredrick answered God's call to spend a summer doing ministry overseas in a country closed to the gospel. Her struggles with anxiety were a problem here at home, so would they follow her overseas? Listen to how God worked in Laney's life while sharing the gospel in a country hostile to the Christian faith. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels ....

Barbara Fortilus is a single woman making her way through the weirdness of modern dating. And she's got big ideas on the upsides and downsides. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact  Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Have you thought about the true meaning of Gods grace? Shelby explains the richness of grace, offering insights into practical ways to embrace God's freely given and undeserved kindness. Open your eyes to a genuine experience of living in the profound love of God, a love we haven't earned. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact Find O...

Through van life, her road through addiction, and her podcast, Feli Velez knows not all who wander are lost. She gets real about relapse, guilt, and living a life tethered to God—no matter how far you roam. Show Notes and Resources You can find us here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Hitting one of those moments when life hurts something fierce? Author Elizabeth Woodson talks about finding the other side of pain in her own dark night. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our social channels . Every Donation Makes and Impact  Find Out How You Can Help! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Even though it can seem embarrassing or shameful, doubt is something totally natural in the Christian faith. In fact, doubt can lead to a stronger faith in God and the gospel…if you doubt well. In this episode, Shelby will walk you through some simple and practical ways you can doubt well—ways that lead to a richer, more robust faith in Jesus. Show Notes and Resources You can find us  here on our...

Tired of being at war with your body and your brain's ideas about it? Counselor, fitness instructor, and author Rachael Gilbert knows from her own experience how many of us bury our searing insecurities. But keeping up appearances is exhausting. We need restoration from the inside out. She'll help you overcome negative self-talk, muscle past comparison, and cultivate vital uplifting relationships....

Maybe you know what it's like for loss to upend your life, even as a child. Josiah Chandler does. But despite raw pain, he knows what it's like to move beyond emptiness and anger. Show Notes You can find us  here on our social channels . See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Shelby has been hearing stories about what God is doing on college campuses all over the United States, and so he wanted to share with you what’s happening specifically in southeast Virginia right now! It’s absolutely incredible the way Jesus is changing lives and this special bonus episode shares a few details about how He’s working. Show Notes You can find us  here on our social channels . See c...