It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

Is he talking with his d*ck? What's the TRUE definition of a f**k person? And WHY has he chosen to go back to the mother of his kids?! Lala answers three of your dating dilemmas as we prove that the new year does not see the back of the tricky dating scene. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!...

It's our final Best of the Icks episode to bring in 2024 and these will keep you laughing into 2025! From sickly reactions to Lord Coldimort, repulsion from a welcomed breeze, aversions to roof racks, or sadness from stepping on a snail, buckle up for the Best of the Icks! You're welcome! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate th...

Lala is joined in the studio by the OG's of old school garage, DJ Fonti and MC Bushkin from Heartless Crew! They help Lala with your replies to those f**k people who just won't give us a break! You'll also hear a VERY special collab on the mic, exclusive to this podcast! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landsc...

Are you struggling with difficult conversations with your children around sex? Are you wondering how to help your neighbour in a time of need? Or has casual sex brought on more feelings than you'd like? Lala helps to answer them all! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainme...

MERRY CHRISTMAS! As a little present we wanted to bring you the BEST of the Icks all in one easily accessible place for you to listen to over and over again. From dick slapping, naked panic, doubling up of words and Lala trying to bring justice to asthmatics, this episode is sure to bring a smile to you face...but don't laugh too hard as you don't want to give someone the ick! Got a question, for...

True Crime meets Relationship advice...It's the podcast mash-up no one saw coming! Lala joins Hannah and Suruthi from the Redhanded podcast to celebrate the Best Podcasts of the Year on Amazon Music. Recorded in front of a live audience in London they explore Hybristophilia, audience red flags and Lala shares a slightly disturbing question from a listener. Find out more about Redhanded Podcast her...

What would you do if you found out your partner is sending his ex horrible messages? How would you react to an inappropriate withheld caller? When do we need to step back from a friend that is in a messy space? Lala always nails it with her agony aunt answers! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape togethe...

Lala get's into the latest seasonal dating trends flying around our socials to find out more! Should we be taking notes, or is it just the same old dating scene?! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at...

Today is a festive culmination of stairs icks, pub floor icks and of course, antler icks! Lala also gets to grips with the f**k boys in your life. Yes they do NOT leave our lives just because it's the holidays! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more...

Are you struggling with your friends views and opinions? Is JUST cuddling enough? Or are you in two minds whether to believe your loving partner? As ever, Lala has come to rescue us! What WOULD we do without her?! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find m...

lifeline in the tough times, and a way to thrive in the good times. Listen for Lala's top "LOA" tales, tips and top recommendations of where you can learn more. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at s...

This week is full to the brim of cat, balloon and penis name ICKS and Lala's love for Kathy Burke! And whilst we're on the subject, if you missed Lala's podcast with lovely Kathy, what are you waiting for, go and listen back right after this episode! Lala also decides if your red flags are red flaggy or totally fine, babes! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplai...

Is your friend just not listening to you? Are YOU being messed around by your date AGAIN? Why does it seem EVERYONE is in a relationship apart from you?! Lala's back to help with all biggest dating questions! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more g...

Have you ever felt like your heart is PHYSICALLY breaking after a break-up? Have you ever felt silly for feeling like this because, hey... it was only a relationship... I was only with them for 6 months... why am i not over it by now... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?! US TOO! It's ok though, Lala's always by our side to remind us, IT'S NOT US, and we're ok! Whether you're currently going through a break u...

Do you still get a 'main' present at Christmas? Would you put him in the bin for using a wheelie bin ice bath? Lala gets into your icks and decifers your red flags.  Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment...

Do you have an ex who oversteps their mark? Is your boyfriend’s behaviour making you worried? Lala is back to help you spot and deal with those crimson red flags that pop up in life in this weeks Agony Aunt episode. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find...

Have you ever found yourself completely infatuated, to the point where it feels like a rollercoaster ride of emotions? Well, you're not alone. Lala unravels the often overlooked yet relatable topic of limerence - an obsessive infatuation that blurs the line between normal crushes and disturbing obsession. Lala delves deep into its addictive nature, its impact on our daily lives, and why it's more...

Can Lala get to grips with your wild animal icks, hot drink icks and sexing like it's the 90s icks? We'll find out this Friday! Lala also deals with the f*ck boy replies YOU need help with! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from...

Please note: this episode features description of sexual assault. Have you cancelled your online dating profile and they haven't? Will his ex always win?! You're learning from the best when Lala gets into the answers to YOUR questions! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertain...

We've all had AT LEAST one date in our lives that our friends have NEVER let us off the hook about. Why did you go in the first place?! Why did you stay for another drink?! Why did you EVER see them again?! Long time follower and listener of the podcast, Vicky, joins Lala LIVE ON THE LINE as Lala picks apart Vickys date she'll never forget. Got your very own dating story for Lala? She’s all ears!...

Actress, author, dancer and out right fierce legend Kelechi Okafor joins Lala to solve YOUR dating dillemas. Get ready to feel the ULTIMATE empowerment with Kelechi on your team! Plus, Kelechi let's us in to her own personal denim ICK! Listen now for some serious cringe! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landsc...

Have you ever faked an orgasm?! Do people mistake your friendliness for flirting?! Lala is, as ever, on hand to answer YOUR big questions on the big wide world of dating. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertai...

Have YOU ever been ghosted?! Silly question isn't it! Haven't we all?! This Monday, Lala shares a couple of her own ghosting stories, and why we really are all in this together when it comes to someone leaving you in the lurch! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment pro...

ALERT! Your icks this week contain high volumes of sport, cheese, teeth brushing and toilet troubles. Listen now for Lala's views on your most icky icks! Lala also highlights the red flags you shouldn't be accepting in your life as a Spectacular Buff Ting! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A...

Has your sex life changed since you moved in with your partner? Is the guy you're dating blowing hot and cold and you're just not sure where you stand? Lala is back to give her expert opinion on your dating woes! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find mo...