Hot and Nice

What happens when you drunkenly wake up to a Marine’s hat in your apartment during Fleet Week? You make a TikTok to return it—and then go viral. Welcome to Fleet Week 2025: Hot and Nice edition. Where we unpack the full 4-day bender: the hat heist, a stolen cone, trash snacks and a backyard cookout featuring a live set by DJ Bender and a surprise performance by Viv. Let's Debrief. 💋🍸

To celebrate our 10th episode, we’re diving into one of the hardest kinds of breakups: friendship breakups. Whether it’s a slow fade, a dramatic fallout or just growing apart, losing a friend hurts—and no one talks about it enough. The hotties open up about their own friendship breakups, what they’ve learned and how to move on. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Sometimes red flags are like the sun — right in front of you, but somehow you still get burned. 🚩 In this episode, we’re diving into the red flags we missed, the green flags we love and sharing submissions from our hottie listeners. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

This week, we’re getting real about long-term relationships — the good, the bad and the boring. From keeping things exciting and handling jealousy, to surviving long distance and knowing when it’s time to move on, we’re sharing our best (and worst) lessons learned. Let’s Debrief. 💋🍸

Just in time for Brat Summer 2025, we’re throwing it back to one unforgettable Brat Weekend. Haley finally shares her truth: how a single SoulCycle class spiraled into a 5-day hospital stay and a near-death diagnosis—rhabdomyolysis. ‍ From ER chaos and hot doctors to IV floods and grumpy roommates, it’s a cautionary tale of what happens when a Brat goes a little too hard... at a spin class. Let’s...

This week, we’re diving into the world of NYC subways. From almost fighting a man, to catching strangers jerkin’ it on the train, to meeting the one and only Cousin Ray — this episode is a wild ride through the depths of NYC public transit. We’ve seen it all. But let’s be real… we’ve probably been someone’s subway creature too. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

From men who ask for your Snapchat in 2025, to health spirals that land you in the ER post-rave, to career meltdowns—we’re breaking down what it means to truly crash out (because let’s be real, we’ve all been there). Whether you’re spiraling about what to wear, or questioning your entire future, this one’s for you. Let’s Debrief. 💋🍸

This week, we dive into your Hottie Hotline submissions and answer your burning questions. We cover everything from seducing Hot and Nice girls to overcoming imposter syndrome, plus our thoughts on moving out of state and navigating polyamory.  Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Buckle up, hotties. This week, we’re taking you on a wild ride through a short-lived but absolutely unhinged relationship with a Bushwick DJ—aka Dude—who just might be the poster child for our brand-new segment: Worst Peen. We’re breaking down the red flags, the DJ ego and the bizarre plot twists that made this an experience for the books. Oh, and did we mention he gifted a shirt that says, “I’m n...

So… you want to be Hot & Nice? We’re setting the official community guidelines—everything from committing to the bit and being a girls' girl to avoiding boyfriend sickness. Plus, we’re answering our first Hottie Hotline mail and crowning our inaugural “Hottie of the Week.” Oh, and the golden rule? #BringBackGrinding. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

A three-day bender leads to a three-way makeout with Navy Seals and somehow ends with a Harry Jowsey in bed. By sunrise, someone was saying three little words — and it wasn’t us. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸