Heart of Dating

Today, Kait and JJ dive deep into the world of limerence, breaking down what it really is, how it differs from infatuation and a crush, and offering practical wisdom for anyone struggling to break free from obsessive romantic fantasies! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for...

Today we’re joined by the incredible Lysa TerKeurst as she gets real about healing from betrayal, rebuilding trust, and finding hope in dating again after an unwanted divorce! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/q...

Today we’re diving deep with Justin and Abi Stumvoll as they unpack the realities of mother and father wounds, discuss how our childhood impacts our dating lives, and share practical steps for healing and self-compassion! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking...

Today we’re talking all about breaking free from ambiguous “situationships” as Kait and JJ unpack how to spot them, why we get stuck in them, and practical steps to find clarity and healthier friendships in Christian dating! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by takin...

Today we have Dr. Caroline Leaf, who unpacks the difference between mind and brain, how attachment patterns are learned, not labels, and gives us practical tools to transform how we show up in dating! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, o...

Today we’re diving into breaking free from sexual shame as Dr. Juli Slattery joins JJ and Kait Tomlin to unpack the roots of shame, identity traps, and how to pursue true sexual wholeness and surrender in our relationships with God and others! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the...

Today we’re kicking off Season 17 with Dr. Gary Chapman, who’s diving deep into breaking the cycle of commitment fears, shifting our focus to loving others first, and sharing wisdom for singles and marrieds alike! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuc...

Today we’re kicking off Season 17, breaking down toxic dating cycles, teasing powerful episodes with experts like Dr. Caroline Leaf and Dr. Chapman, and sharing practical first steps toward healing in your dating life! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling...

We had another Christian Bachelor event...tune in to see how it went👀 Want to listen to the whole video?! Join us on Patreon! ⁠https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://...

Today we're joined by Dr. Les Parrott, who walks us through the crucial decision points in dating—when to lean in, when to walk away, and how to spot patterns, red flags, and character issues, all while unpacking tools like the SYMBIS assessment and the new Heart Chart to help us build healthier, more self-aware relationships! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here!...

Join us as Lisa Bevere speaks a prophetic word over singles and shares about uncovering and breaking the mindsets keeping you stuck and find re-IGNITED HOPE! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.hear...

Today we’re breaking down the hot topic of soul ties in Christian dating with special guest Joel Mudamalle. We dive deep into biblical context, emotional bonding, and wisdom in relationships! Join School of Dating Now! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating!...

Today we’re diving deep into the pain and peace cycle with Terry and Sharon as they unpack why our coping reactions matter in dating, how to take ownership of your triggers, and how true intimacy starts with regulating yourself—not finding someone to fix you! The Find Your Person Challenge is BACK and FREE! Join us Nov 2-5th! https://www.heartofdating.com/challenge Find out your Dating Personality...

Today we’re hanging out with Gabe and Rebekah Lyons as they get real about the ups and downs of 28 years of marriage, forging love through conflict, why the spark isn’t everything, and how healing comes through honesty and unity before and after you say “I do”! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-We...

Today we’re joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill as they walk us through the power of the Connection Codes, sharing their story of overcoming emotional disconnection in marriage and giving us practical tools for naming and processing our emotions in dating and relationships! Download the core emotion wheel here! http://connectioncodes.co/heart-of-dating Find out your Dating Personality Type for fr...

Today we’re diving deep into what it means to be equally yoked as Addison and Julie Bevere join Kait and JJ to unpack spiritual compatibility, missional dating, and their own journey from MySpace DMs to marriage! Check out Addison and Juli Bevere on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@athomewiththebeveres or Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/athomewiththebeveres/?hl=en Find out your Dating Person...

Our Christian Bachelor sat down for three 5-minute dates… and had to choose who to continue with. 🌹 Meanwhile, Kait & JJ dove into your top questions on ghosting, keeping God at the center of dating, and even dropped a major HODC 2026 scoop you won’t hear anywhere else. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating...

Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, routines, or lifestyle—can make dating harder, especially as we get older, and share honest stories of what healthy (and not-so-healthy) compromise looks like in marriage! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https:/...

Today we’re diving deep with Jamal Miller as he unpacks the true difference between compatibility and suitability in Christian dating, challenging us to pursue purposeful partnerships that go beyond chemistry and shared hobbies! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian sing...

Today, Mike Foster joins Kait and JJ to unpack the seven primal questions driving our core needs, how childhood imprints impact our dating lives, and why knowing your own—and your partner’s—deepest questions can totally transform relationships! Take the 7 Primal Questions Assessment Here: https://www.primalquestion.com/assessment-page Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QU...

Today, Sam Joelman joins Kait and JJ for a candid and healing conversation about arousal, sexual ethics, and navigating boundaries in Christian dating, reframing shame around sexuality, and empowering couples to co-create their own values-based approach. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Prog...

Today we’re kicking off Season 16 with Pastor Stephen Chandler, who’s giving us the real talk on dating timelines, pacing relationships, and building true friendship before you sprint to engagement! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or...

Confused by conflicting dating advice? 😅 Kait and JJ reveal why your dating personality type changes everything and the kind of advice that will finally make sense for you. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak....

Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating   Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/hearto...

Today we’re diving into the world of dating personalities as Kait and JJ unpack what it means to be the “intentional romantic”—aka the walking green flag—and explore both the strengths and pitfalls of this healthiest dating style! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz We're taking a podcast break but we don't want to leave you ha...