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Send us a textToday we are going to talk all about Love Bombing. This is a topic that has recently trended a bit on TikTok and gained some traction with people beginning to talk about and share their experiences. A lot of people seem to be confused about what exactly love bombing is and how it shows up in communication and relationships. So we are covering everything you need to know about what lo...

Send us a textToday we are going to be talking about the ways in which women tend to downplay themselves, minimize things and just generally take a back seat to make men around them feel more comfortable. Now, we are all for treating men well and even making them comfortable. Where this becomes an issue for a lot of women is when the comfort and needs of men are prioritized over their own comfort...

Send us a textNo matter how long you’ve been with someone, or what circumstances may have caused you to go your separate ways, breakups are hard. Even if you know it's the right decision, just the feeling of all the time, energy, and intimacy you’ve spent on someone else has just been a waste. And while we know everyone deals with things differently, we’ll do our best today to help you try and get...

Send us a textThis episode is all about new relationships and talking stages. We use evidence based communication insights to break some things down and help you get some clarity to what can often be grey area. Are you oversharing? What types of topics should you bring up early on? How do you know if they are interested or like you based on their communication? This won’t be so much about hard rul...

Send us a textHave you ever been seeing someone, things are going great, you have so much in common and you get along really well. Then you’re talking with a friend and they say ask “so are you guys official?” And you go to this person you’re seeing and find out they “like keeping it casual” or “dont like labels” But here’s the thing. You might not be in a relationship but you are for sure in a si...

Send us a textOn this episode, Melissa Duge Spiers joins us. We are going to be talking about her upcoming (and award-winning) memoir, The Glory Whole, her experience visiting a legal brothel and writing about it in a viral Huffington Post article. Melissa also talks with us about leaving the Seventh Day Adventist (SDA) church, non-monogamy, purity culture and sexual empowerment. Then we let you k...

Send us a textIn today's episode we talk all about past lives and reincarnation. Before telling a few stories of people that believe they have lived lives before and even have ways to prove it, we talk about how the idea of reincarnation was originated. Before giving some new music recommendations in Jo Jam we even explain how you can find out about your own possible past lives through hypnotism!...

Send us a textOn this episode we are joined by an awesome guest and friend, Mike. He shares openly as we ask him all about his experiences with polyamory, swingers clubs, play parties, traveling alone and staying in hostels, leaving religion and more. Then we share what music everyone is listening to and answer some spicy personal questions in Dish Bish at the end. This episode is packed with grea...

Send us a textHave you ever had someone in your life that just felt like home to you? Or you just feel a stronger, more significant connection with them then other people. It’s the sense that your link to this person transcends the earth plane and that something much bigger has brought you together. You might feel like you’ve known each other in a past life and your bond can be instant and out of...

Send us a textIn this episode we are talking all about how to have better sex. This episode covers: How to have better sexData and statistics about sex and pleasureTips for communicating about sex Quick win tips to improve sexual experiencesA guide to improving self awareness and communication about sex with your partnerSex education podcast recommendations and resources to learn more Watch the un...

Send us a textIn today's episode we're joined once again by our friend Shay to talk about a few popular Disney movies, and the stories that inspired them. Many of them have dark and disturbing original tales that make it actually kind of surprising that they were ever even thought to turn into children's movies! After talking about a few of these we each give out some music recommendations and the...

Send us a textWe will be talking about some studies that came out showing a rise in single lonely men. There is an upward trend of men finding it more difficult to find women willing to date and marry them. We will look at what the data actually says and the reasons behind these shifts. Why are men struggling? Why are more women choosing not to marry? And what would remedy this dilemma? This episo...

Send us a textToday's episode is all about hoaxes and celebrity mysteries! If you're anything like us then you might easily believe celebrity stories or hoaxes in pop culture, but let's be honest, it's just more fun to believe the unusual or kinda crazy possibilities! After that we give a few new music recommendations and last for Dish Bish we play Would You Rather! And I'll warn you, it gets kind...

Send us a textIn this episode we are sharing six of the absolute craziest dating stories. Buckle in for a wild ride because some of these are definitely out there. We collected dating stories from our listeners and friends online and picked the wildest ones to share with y'all. We are also sharing some of our craziest dating stories. Then, per usual, we throw out some music recommendations in Jo J...

Send us a textIn today's episode we talk all about precognitive dreams, or dream premonitions! Most people dream for around 2 hours each night so it's no surprise that we all might have a few vivid dreams from time to time. You might even be one of the 18-38% of people who have experienced these types of dreams! Which are basically dreams that seem to predict events in the future. We talk about a...

Send us a textIn this episode we are sharing some of the best and craziest ghost sex stories. From ghost getting it on so much they became a tourist attraction to ghosts caught masturbating on camera to celebrity ghost sex encounter and more... Buckle up because it's gonna be a wild ride. ;)Happy Halloween y'all! Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X...

Send us a textWe’ve made it to 2 years guys! If you know anything about us you know we love traditions. Our second episode we released was called Getting to know Us where you guessed it! You got to know us a little better. Around the one-year anniversary of the podcast we thought it would be fun to redo that episode and see how our answers have changed and now that it's been 2 years, we've decided...

Send us a textDid you know that there is a bit of a formula to falling in love? Well - sort of. There was a study done centered around 36 questions where people asked an answered these thirty-six questions to fall in love. And the craziest part... it actually works. In this episode we are talking about the 36 Questions to Fall in Love Study, why it works, walking through the process and answering...

Send us a textIt’s October 3rd. Well if you’re listening to this on the day we release this episode then it is in fact October 3rd. Which is an unofficial holiday. It’s Mean Girls day! So whatever you’re wearing today, you CAN sit with us! Today we’re gonna talk about the movie, some theories about the characters and where we think they’d be today! After that we give a few great music recommendati...

Send us a textConsider this episode your crash course in the five love languages. We break down what each love language is and walk through some things that you can do as well as thing things you want to avoid doing for each love language. We are also going to talk about the newly proposed sixth love language. So whether you wondering "What Love Language am I?" or you already know what your love l...

Send us a textA few weeks ago we released an episode called Questions Just for the Girls where we found random threads on reddit for men to ask women all the weird and random things they wanna know but are too nervous to ask in person. Well I’ve found some more and we are here to do out part once again to help the male species! Although lets be real.. There’s no helping them. After going through a...

Send us a textWe all know there are things you can do to improve your health and live longer like eating healthy and exercising, but there are many things you probably didn’t know could help you live longer. There have been tons of studies done to look at various things that correlate and may impact a person's life expectancy and we are going to look at some of the most interesting things you can...

Send us a textWhat goes around always comes back around! And that is all thanks to this bitch that we know as Karma. Karma’s described as the sum of a person's actions in this and previous states of existence viewed as deciding their fate in future existences. The cycle of cause and effect. Basically, its the thought that everything that happens to you is because you’ve caused it with your actions...

Send us a textWhat is your body count? And does body count, or number of sexual partners, matter? If you've been on the internet recently you have probably seen this topic come up - from men interviewing women and asking what their body count is, to that middle-aged, bald man with a podcast who loves telling everyone why a high body count increases a man's value and decreases a woman's. We think i...

Send us a textIf you have been listening to us for a bit you know that we are all about mental health, living in positive environments and growing and learning how to live our best lives. So today we are going to be talking all about subconscious blocks and how to break your subconscious patterns that might be stopping you from getting the most out of your relationships, career and anywhere else!...