Every Widow Thing

There's a new term for empty nesting! Holly and Whitney talk about their experience with "Free Birding" it now that their youngest kids have gone to college. Whitney shares a helicopter parent fail story and both widows discuss how grief plays a part in this new chapter. In the second half of the episode, the widows share tips on how to find your people. Do you think sitting at the bar in a restau...

Many times during the recordings, the widows go off topic and it has to be cut from the final edit. Lucky for you, that creates bonus episodes! Listen in as Lacey, Keira, Whitney and Holly dicuss their experiences of cremation vs funeral. There is also a discussion of how kids want mommy to have another person. You may be shocked by what you hear! A perfect example of when trauma meets humor. www....

Today EWT speaks with 19-time triathlon competitor and Austin fitness guru, David Garza. A year ago, David and the love of his life broke up, but a friendship remained. Listen in as David shares his personal story of loss and gives insight into how exercise can help you move through grief, and that there are also gifts in grief. This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strate...

Have you ever wondered what it's really like to navigate the complex world of widowhood? Behind the façade of resilience, many widows are keeping secrets. In this raw and honest episode, real women share their personal stories, revealing the unspoken truths that often accompany grief.  Join us as they share their confessions, revealing the hidden struggles, unexpected joys, and newfound streng...

People think about living well, but have you considered dying well? What would it look like if you had it your way? We spend time planning the important moments in our lives- weddings, births of our children, but what about the last moment of your life? Lacey, Keira, Holly and Whitney welcome hospice advocate Arnetta Robinson to the show. They discuss the gift of hospice and how you can create a m...

This episode tackles the complex issue of compounded grief. Don and Katie Cash share their story for the first time publicly. Don's daughter, Caitlin, found her friend professional cyclist, Moriah “Mo” Wilson, murdered in her apartment. This event, covered by Dateline NBC, brought a wave of grief not only for Mo's family but also for Don and Katie, highlighting the ripple effect of such tragedies....

As Lacey, Keira, Holly, and Whitney continue chatting with Don Cash, a new face joins the conversation. Don introduces them to his wife, Katie. The conversation takes a turn as Katie offers insightful and heartwarming advice on navigating a relationship with someone who's lost a spouse. This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strategic Investment Management. As an Austin...

Don Cash was in college when he met his future wife, Elane. There was only one problem, she was already married. That didn't stop love from finding a way, but cancer was not as easily overcome. Their love story was cut tragically short, leaving Don to cherish the memories and battle the emptiness her absence left behind. Listen in as Don shares his unconventional love story with the ladies of Ever...

Holly, Lacey, Keira and Whitney invited Dr. Shieva Ghofrany, M.D. OBGYN, into the widow's circle to discuss all things sex and sexual health! Getting back on the horse, so to speak, is scary after having a long-term relationship! We took your questions to an expert! Everything from sexually transmitted infections (STI), to how to make sex more enjoyable, Hormone Replacement Therapy (now called...

Happy anniversary to Every Widow Thing! Lacey, Keira, Holly and Whitney look back on the first year of the podcast! They give updates on past episodes, share their favorite moments and discuss what has changed since starting this exciting endeavor! This episode is brought to you by Roger Brooks and his team at Strategic Investment Management. As an Austin-based fiduciary financial advisory firm, R...

Grief is a journey, but navigating it after losing your spouse can feel especially isolating. In this episode of Every Widow Thing, we explore the often-overlooked topic of boundaries. This episode is a must-listen for any widow or widower feeling overwhelmed, unheard, or unsure of how to move forward. Join us as we break down the power of boundaries and empower you to reclaim control after loss....

The Widows continue their discussion of ashes. You'll be surprised by some of the options out there for your loved ones’ ashes. This episode is sponsored in part by https://www.spiritpieces.com/ Unique and beautiful cremation jewelry and glass art!

The Widows discuss their experiences with the ashes of their husbands. Keira brings Frank out of the closet for the first time but can't seem to figure out how to open the box. Lacey's husband, Oliver, was buried, so she offers her own unique thoughts on the subject! This episode is brought to you in part by https://www.spiritpieces.com/ Unique creation jewelry and glass art!

After Tiffany's husband, Matt, died unexpectedly, she began her grief journey with an actual journey. She started small with a trip to Colorado with her 5 and 7 year old, but travel soon became more than an escape; it was a road to healing. Listen in as Tiffany shares her story and some very helpful travel tips. From wedded to widowed to world traveler, she will inspire you to handle your own...

Every Widow Thing sits down with author JJ Elliott. She discusses her first novel, There Are No Rules For This, about 3 women dealing with the loss of their best friend by suicide. You'll be touched by the friendship and surprised by their antics. The story is heartwarming, funny, and honest. Get ready for a great conversation about life, loss, and living funerals!

In this episode, the conversation continues with some of the kids of Every Widow Thing. They were between the ages of 6 and 14 when their fathers died unexpectedly. What these young widowed mothers worried about most was how their children would be affected long term by such a tragic event. Listen in and see what the kids have to say about their lives then and now. Lacey's son- Ryder was 6 when hi...

One of the biggest concerns for Whitney, Keira, Lacey and Holly after their spouses died was the kids. How will they handle it? Will they be traumatized for life? How will they cope? What long term impact will this have on them? Today you will hear from some of our kids. You may be surprised by what they have to say. Lacey's son- Ryder was 6 when his dad died. Keira's 2 oldest kids- Aislin and Tho...

Though partners in every sense, Shellie and Andrew lacked one crucial document: a marriage license. This seemingly minor oversight held immense weight when Andrew was tragically killed in a bike accident. What they'd assumed was "just a piece of paper" suddenly became a barrier to Shellie's rights and protections. Listen in as Shellie shares her story and gives crucial advice to...

“What punishments of God are not gifts?”  When Whitney found Anderson Cooper's grief podcast titled All There Is, she was curious. What would his take be on the grieving process? It was the episode with Stephen Colbert that inspired her to ask the widows to take a listen and discuss the idea of finding the gifts in grief. They had no idea how much they would learn from 2 men who have suffered more...

Dating 2.0! Why? Because it's too damn funny not to share. Holly, Lacey, Keira and Whitney share some of their not so fun dating tales. From catfishing to fish photos and one sweaty nomad, we cover quite a bit. Take a listen to our dos and don'ts from our own life experiences and learn from our mistakes.

The holidays are here and that can bring on not so fun feelings. Holly, Lacey, Keira and Whitney talk about how to snap out of the holiday blahs.

This is part 2 of Dana and Robert's story after a devastating diagnosis of glioblastoma. Dana shares how they handled the grim diagnosis, what she did to keep sane, and the sweet way Robert ensured he would be at his daughters' weddings.

Dana and Robert had a thriving financial planning business, two precious daughters, and a full life. They had no idea when they met Kiera and were touched by her own story that a few months later, Robert would be fighting for his own life. Dana sits with Whitney, Keira, and Holly to share Robert's final months after being diagnosed with a brain tumor, Glioblastoma.

Grief is hard, but believe it or not, there are some good things that can come out of the grief journey. The widows touch on this idea and give some of their own examples of the good side of grief. (We dedicate this episode to Whitney's sweet bulldog, Wembley! )

Holly brings in one of her long standing phrases. The widows share some of the things that make them mad. Golf widows, keeping score, crying on social media and other people’s opinion on when widows can date are all addressed! Lacey is the voice of reason. Keira won't stop talking about the Golden Bachelor, and Whitney causes a scene.