Dr. Paco Truthteller

You ever notice how around certain people it feels impossible to maintain your happiness? It’s true we can’t be happy all the time but repeatedly having your happiness interrupted by certain kinds of individuals bringing certain kinds of energy may be a bigger problem than you realize  This podcast is inspired by the difficulty individuals experience trying to be happy in the presence of others. 

Too many people are bumping their heads unnecessarily in the dating process. Join Dr. Paco as he discusses some of the most commonly ignored red flags.

2024 is here, and this year has been about truth and exposure. Dr. Paco will not be excluded from this fun and has created a perfect podcast for this season of truth. His podcast Imposters gives the rundown on imposters, how to spot them, and how to deal with this malevolent group of people.

Do you have a dysfunctional relationship with members of your family? Does your spouse have strong opinions about these dynamics, and their advice always seems to be to turn away from your family? You may oblige for a while, but then your pride starts to subside, and your spouse reminds you to adhere to grievances like it's a 12-step weight loss program. As you may have guessed, there is more...

Too often, we obsess over thoughts that intrude. Our need to be in control convinces us that our thoughts need controlling, too. Join Dr. Paco as he shares how to confront intrusive thoughts and gives his take on cheating and relationship satisfaction.

There are people in our lives that we love dearly but can't stand to be around. Outside pressure and titles like mom, dad, sister, brother, cousin, etc., make us feel pressured to think that we are doing something wrong if we do not like everyone. Join Dr. Paco as he unpacks this misnomer and gets real about how liking and loving are not synonymous.

The tendency to believe we can fix people or that no one can be that bad is how evil people thrive. The underestimation of how intentionally cruel or unapologetically destructive people can be influences people to continue with some of the worst people. Join Dr. Paco as he unpacks what an evil person is, what it is like to interact with them, and how we protect them.

Too often, we hang on to friendships that we should let go. We can unconsciously find ourselves prisoners to people that do not value us nor have our best interest at heart. Join Dr. Paco as he shares his thoughts on these friendships.

We have talked about narcissists amongst many other dysfunctional people. We have not talked about false empaths. Hardly does anyone discusses false empaths. Well, today is the day. Join Dr. Paco as he unpacks the dangers of the false empath.

Too often we are made to believe that forgiving is synonymous with forgetting. We are taught to truly move on is to forget what has happened or to at least act like it has never happened. Forgetting contradicts the purpose of setting boundaries and holding people accountable. We must remember our traumatic experiences to truly move beyond them. Our goal is to lessen the sting and take the power aw...

With divorce rates at an all-time, for some, a blended family is inevitable. Often people enter into these families without the slightest clue as to how these families should function to minimize harm to the children. Join me as I unpack what is wrong with some blended families and what should be considered to lead to more favorable outcomes.

Too often we focus on the stereotypical grandiose narcissist. We let the vulnerable narcissist off the hook. We incorrectly identify vulnerable narcissists as neurotic individuals in need of a spark. If unchecked, this parasitic personality can destroy your life by taking your best years from you, living you confused as to how you got here. Join Dr. Paco as he unpacks the dichotomy of the grandios...

Black women have been misled into believing that they could fight against sexism alongside White women. Extremists left-wing feminists are more often than not racist. They benefit from White supremacy and are proud beneficiaries of White privilege. Join Dr. Paco as this subject is untangled and lies are replaced with truths.

Whether you are pro-life or pro-choice is your business. However, expressing your personal values as facts are where this conversation begins. Join me Dr. Paco as he unpacks individuals' terrible attempts to posture abortion as a necessity to protect children from maladaptive outcomes.

There are unlimited excuses why casual sex is inconsequential. When we put our egos aside we can identify how our sexual encounters rarely help us to achieve long-lasting relationships that are meaningful. Join me as I untangle the lies society tells us.

Much attention is given to the inner workings of romantic relationships. Friendships can be just as complicated and sometimes more complicated than romantic relationships. Unclear expectations and differences in values can complicate maintaining friendships. This podcast takes a closer look at what it means to be a friend and be befriended. 

This podcast takes an in-depth look at interracial relationships. The truth is revealed about the implications of these unions. If parents are unwilling to educate themselves on how their dynamic may impact their children, trouble may be on the horizon. This podcast is not for the faint of heart. If you are ego-driven and unprepared to face these realities, listen to a different podcast. 

After listening to approximately five transgender individuals debate other women and men for hours, I have had enough. After truthteller news, I dive into this ambiguous topic to provide clarity and truth to what is going on. If you live your life according to mainstream narratives do not click play on this podcast.

How Deep is Your Love examines challenges in relationships where there is an imbalance in each partner's ability to love. Dr. Paco unpacks how to address love imbalances in married and dating couples.  Truthteller news features Dana White, Tory Lanez & Andrew Tate.

With this podcast, I am doing things a little differently. I begin with Truthteller news covering current stories or controversies. After clearing up the misinformation, I pivot to some of the consequences for children whose fathers abandon them.  Names mentioned in this podcast include Bill Cosby, Meghan Markle, Kyrie Irving, and Kanye West. Familiarize yourself with these names to better un...

This week's topic addresses how Blacks' welcome-in approach to sharing our culture often leaves us iced out, confused, and profitless. Most cultures gatekeep. They are particular with what they share and ensure you come to them to learn their customs. On the other hand, many Blacks strive for Whites' validation and lack a true sense of self. We perform, although we don't have to. This podcast will...

Boundaries are essential for a healthy and balanced life. Failure to have appropriate boundaries can leave one at risk of suffering or inflicting undue damage. A boundaryless life is like a disorganized closet or office where you can't find anything and don't know whether you are coming or going. Join me as I further unpack what boundaries are, why we need them, and how to establish them. 

At times causes get too large, they lose their focus and can become harmful. Far-left feminists embrace a culture that is toxic, divisive, and cultish. The Fear of repercussions, disinterest in fighting, and lacking the vernacular to match the fancy word choice of feminists leaves many individuals feeling they can't oppose them. Join me as I unapologetically unpack these self-appointed stewards' h...

Children bring into the world a spark. Their innocence, pure joy, and ability to see beauty in the smallest things make them unique. As we grow older, the troubles of this world cause us to lose our spark. Adults often consciously or unconsciously live off the energy and healing properties children provide to overcome the loss. Join me as I breakdown the detrimental effects of using children as he...

It is not uncommon to marry into a narcissistic family. When you know you are right, they treat you as if you are wrong. You feel disposable and as if they all can turn on you at a moment's notice. They may cause division by spreading rumors and attempting to turn your partner against you. Join me as I break down the challenges of marrying into a narcissistic family and what to expect throughout y...