Divine Union™

Humor and playfulness are incredibly potent ways to work through relational challenges and conflict. It takes the heaviness and seriousness out of relating and makes things so much more fun and alive. Your relationships become a playground for wild expression. Now this is not to say never to be serious, there is a time for that. But the gift of this episode is in the teaching of how to incorporate...

Many people are confused by polarity today. How they can create magnetic attraction and passion that stands the test of time. Many couples fall into the trap of women focused solely focusing on embodying their feminine energy, and men focusing on their masculine. On today’s episode of Divine Union Nicola speaks to the pitfalls that come with being too far in your feminine and how it will ultimatel...

In today's episode of Divine Union, Nicola shares about her journey with loneliness at this particular time of her life. She speaks candidly about the shadow forces and the egoic needs of validation that have impacted this sphere. She illuminates the common threads of loneliness among humanity and shares her wisdom on the divine order of life, and perfection, in the chaotic theater of Gaia. P...

In today's episode of Divine Union Nicola discusses why healing your masculine will make space for your feminine.  She shares some of her own past experiences and fears of the masculine, so you can get a better sense of her process as well as why masculine energy is essential to being in your feminine in relationship. 0:00 Intro 1:58 What Healing of the Energies Has to Do with Relationships ...

In today’s Episode of Divine Union, Nicola Discusses the most common cause of lack of intimacy and passion in relationship. When there is an uneven balance of give and take, of doing and receiving, the relationship suffers, as do the individuals in it.  This ultimately comes down to an imbalance of one’s masculine and feminine energies, and working with the energies is essential to shifting the dy...

In Today’s episode of Divine Union Nicola discusses how rejection will empower you in life to have deeper intimacy and passion in your relating. We discuss tuning into the heart to guide your truest expression or self in order to deepen your connections. Rejection is a natural part of life and one we must learn how to navigate if we want to feel fully alive and to feel all the textures life has to...

Today Nicola discusses what ingredients lead to magnetism and why balancing your healthy Masculine and Feminine Energies will create that. She covers what it can look like when you skew too far on either end of your energies and why having a balance will bring more intrigue, attraction, and aliveness to your being. It's a deep episode you won’t want to miss. Grab your favorite beverage, bring...

Today, Nicola discusses the importance of using humor to enhance intimacy in relationships, including easing conflict and enhancing physical and emotional connection. She covers how humor allows for the expression of vulnerability and why it's useful to prevent intimacy from feeling stifling within the relationship. 0:00 Intro 1:39 Why Intimacy Can Feel Stifling and Understanding Your Meter ...

Join Nicola as she discusses how you can create the conditions to feel your partner’s desire and hunger for you. Whether you are a man or a woman, it doesn’t matter, this episode will give you the tools and perspective to set yourself up for success to have more passion and spice in the relationship.  Get comfortable, sit back, and enjoy the show. We can’t wait to hear what you think. 3:15 Buildin...

In this Episode Nicola shares about a Tantric practice of removing the goal in sex. She discusses some different “goals” we have in sex and some not-so-conscious expectations we place on both men and women in bed, as well as what to do when your body doesn’t always act in line with your mind. 0:00 Intro 2:45 How the Goal Mentality Impacts Sex 4:20 How Removing the Goal Ties to Tantra 5:55 The Impa...

Today on Divine Union, Episode 4 of the four-part series on Passion and Polarity.  Listen to this episode if you want to know how to have fiery passion in a relationship. Polarity creates passion, and understanding how polarity works in relationship will help you build a foundation for creating passion that stands the test of time. In this episode, Nicola discusses a helpful methodology to underst...

Today on Divine Union, as part three of her four-part series on Passion and Polarity, Nicola discusses feminine energy.  She speaks to the energies as they're essential to understanding polarity, which is needed to create passion in relationship.  Nicola speaks to how societal influences have shaped the Feminine to behave in a way that is unhealthy. She contrasts this wounded feminine with Di...

Today’s episode of Divine Union is part two of a four-part series to help you understand polarity, masculine and feminine energies as an essential component to polarity, and what key ingredients are needed to have passion polarity in a relationship. Nicola discusses, Capitalism’s Effect on the Wounded Masculine and the different aspects of that energy for you to gain a clear understanding of what...

Today’s episode on polarity is part one of a four-part series to help you understand polarity, masculine and feminine energies, and what key components are needed to have polarity in a relationship. Today, Nicola discusses what polarity is, and how it manifests in life and relationships. When you understand polarity and what it means to truly have it, you have the tools to keep the fiery passion g...

Today’s episode is a deeply personal one. I discuss one of the most potent moments of my life during a solo medicine journey that was tremendously impactful, as it helped me realize where a lot of my fear, judgment, and hate towards men were rooted. I candidly discuss my process, the key learnings, and why working with your masculine energy will radically transform how you relate to your feminine,...

In this episode, I discuss 4 essential keys to creating the conditions to have deep passion, polarity, and intimacy within relationship. You will learn about common misconceptions about polarity and passion, and what it really means to have it in a way that is empowering, healthy, and feels enlivening.  You will understand why it is so challenging for many couples to maintain passion and polarity...

Today I sit down with dear sister and Women's Sex and Libido Coach Sofie Lousie to talk all about how you can free yourself from societal conditioning of fear, shame, or guilt to be fully sexually expressed, and proud, in however you choose to express. Sofie vulnerably shares about her own journey with her sexuality and experiences of slut shaming that I am sure will resonate with many of you...

Today I discuss the shadow. This is a topic sparked by many inquiries I’ve gotten lately around understanding what it is and how to work with it.  So today, I discuss what the shadow is, where it comes from, as well as how to identify your shadows if you’re unsure. I provide examples of how shadows can manifest to deepen your understanding of the topic and share some interesting bodies of work tha...

On today’s episode of Divine Union, I have the pleasure of sitting down with Luci Lampe to talk all about the different stages relationships can go through, and what you can expect, so you can navigate them with ease and grace. Luci is a mom of 4, trauma-informed sex & relationship coach, award-winning singer and songwriter, a commercial actress & print model, and 3X author. Not to mention...

On today’s episode of Divine Union Podcast, I have the honor of sitting down with Goddess Michelle. I’ve been following her on Instagram for some time now, and her work is truly inspiring and her messages are deep and thought-provoking. And so, I am so thrilled for you to hear this conversation. We discuss attachment in life, how it manifests, and what is necessary in order to transform and ascend...

Today I discuss two of my favorite qualities in life, curiosity, and play.  I share one of my most memorable and beautiful s*xual moments in life. One of the first times I really brought that element into the bedroom with, we shall call him, Mr. X, and I speak to how transformative it was.  I cover the wounded masculine and how that has impacted our views on curiosity and ways we can shift the beh...

Today Nicola sits down with Tiffany Mertens to discuss all things Archetypes. Tiffany is a Sensual Activist, International Performer, Somatic Healer, and the owner of Mystic Mentorship, a place where the spiritual and sensual intersect for potent healing around body image, sexuality, and expression.  In this episode, they discuss why Archetypes are so powerful to bring in greater play, fun, and ex...

Today on Divine Union, I have the pleasure of discussing all things Human Design with Human Design Analyst, Stephanie Sandoval. We tackle many areas of this complex topic as she discusses how our energetic types, authority (the way we make decisions), and the conscious (and unconscious) gifts that accompany them, impact our way of being in the world and how we relate within the relationship. It&ap...

Boundaries. A favorite topic of mine. Why? Because life is one big game of communication and relating. A dance of communication, asserting our boundaries, or honoring another's, and then rinse and repeat. Today I talk all about the boundaries and the 7 key different areas with some juicy examples of how another can violate our boundaries. I also discuss how boundaries relate to masculine ener...

Today I discuss how our lives go in cycles in all areas of life: career, creativity, relationship, sexual desire, bodily processes, and many more. I align these cycles of life to the different cycles and processes in nature, as well as how these cycles align with masculine and feminine energies, and how our current patriarchal society has impacted our view of time and cycles.  I share specific exa...