Defining Your Life

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! It's so easy to let the life we are aspiring to have block us from enjoying the life we have right now. Remember that we have to put in effort for both the now and future. So let's chat about it. Key Takeaways: Keeping it simple can actually be great. Focus on what you have right here and now. Invest energy in daily experiences to enhance life. Rearranging...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! There are so many ways to build your legacy. Let's chat about three ways, sans money, to do so! Legacy building is truly a part of our daily life, so consider your legacy in how you choose to show up each and every day! How are you choosing to be intentional about legacy building? Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetode...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! A small shift in your mindset can truly change everything. Join me for a quick chat on mindset and three things you can do to shift yours. Let's stay motivated y'all. One thing we can control is our mindset, so let's use that to our advantage. Additional Resources: "Change Your Mindset, Change the Game" Tedx Talk by Dr. Alia Crum "How to...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! This week we run a bit long on the pod, but for good reason! Or Rapid Fire Feature Guest Sarah Lowney shares a bit of her testimony on how she's navigated sexual abuse and marital abandonment with her faith still intact. My hope is that many will be encouraged to embark on their healing journey and know that it's never too late. Connect with Sarah on Instag...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! You may have noticed that a short break turned into a bit of a longer one. :-) Let's talk about where I've been and get transparent about what it takes to go from daydreaming to reality as it relates to goals. Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetodefineyourlife@gmail.com Subscribe to the blog: definingyourlife.com...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone, Happy Summer! Today we get straight to the point- it's summer and it's break time! What is something that you can take a pause on in order to relax, relate, release, and reset?! Let's chat about it.  Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetodefineyourlife@gmail.com Subscribe to the blog: definingyourlife.com Don&a...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! In the spirit of keeping overwhelm at bay, I am choosing rest this week, which means I'm sharing a rewind episode. Listen to this throwback where we chat about keeping overwhelm from overloading you.  I hope you have been choosing rest for yourself as well.  Be blessed and chat soon! Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timet...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! What if the life you desired was closer than you imagined? What if, by simply eliminating those things that aren't aligned with the core things that matter to you, you could clear your path and find your way? What if by speaking up, you could make space for yourself again? Join Marsharelle for a chat on simplifying your life and finding yourself again. Our defin...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Join Marsharelle for a very brief chat today on being receptive to the concept of endless possibilities. At this stage in your life, do you still feel like the possibilities are endless for you? Are you approaching life with the eyes of a child, but using the tools gained in adulthood to make the possibilities of your dreams come alive?  Let's talk about it! Joi...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Do you ever question your worthiness? Join Marsharelle for a rewind episode that covers worthiness, and the role it plays in our lives. Remember- YOU ARE WORTHY. You don't have to earn it. Your worthiness belongs to you!! Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetodefineyourlife@gmail.com Subscribe to the blog: definingyourli...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Are you hyper-focused on areas of your life where you need to improve? In comparison, how much time do you spend focused on the areas that you're really good at? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on watering your seeds so that you can see just how far your gifts can take you, even beyond what comes easily.  Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Sen...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! It's short and sweet today! Join Marsharelle on her soapbox for a quick chat about the importance of seeking peace.  What do you have to do to find your peace? Is there something you must accept, acknowledge, or move on from?  Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetodefineyourlife@gmail.com Subscribe to the blog: definingy...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Join Marsharelle for a quick ramble this week as she shares her thoughts on making hard decisions- and how important it is to just "make a move". Is there a hard decision you know you need to make to change your life? Book Referenced: Draw the Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge by Mark Batterson If you check out the book, let the village know! Let's c...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Do you ever find it challenging to stay inspired? Do you struggle to push through when you hit a wall on your creative or work projects? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on how to stay disciplined, and push through those times when the inspiration can't carry us, but maybe we lean into discipline instead. Articles referenced: "How to Find What Inspires You...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Join Marsharelle this week for a quick chat on being still. Do you ever find yourself moving haphazardly with no clear direction? Have you considered in those instances that it may have been best to just be still? This week Marsharelle touches on the importance of taking a moment to be still, and gain clarity so that we an move forward even better than before! Join o...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! We are back with another installment of the BE Series: Be Light! Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on what it means to be light, both physically and to also be the light in the world. What does being light mean to you?  Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetodefineyourlife@gmail.com Subscribe to the blog: definingyourlife.com...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone, this week Marsharelle is joined by Rapid Fire Feature guest, Rochelle Shearlds, VP of Account Management at an international med-tech company. Rochelle shares a bit about her journey, the power of being open to the pivot, and some advice for women looking to climb the corporate ladder. Click here to learn more about Rochelle Shearlds Resources mentioned: Click here t...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Marsharelle is back with another installment of the BE Series. What does it mean to be soft and what are some ways that you can incorporate being soft into your life holistically? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on thinking of softness beyond aesthetics and boundaries for self, and examine some ways that being soft can impact all areas of our lives, including the b...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! As we bring Women’s History month to a close, it feels right to share this reminder about imposter syndrome. As women, we often struggle with stepping into the greatness that we’ve already achieved- no matter the area of our lives. This is a reminder to practice leaning into what we’ve been blessed to accomplished - holding our heads high, proud  of what we’ve done,...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! In the second episode of the BE Series, join Marsharelle for a quick chat about the power of boldness. The 1st cousin of confidence, boldness truly allows us to level up and be seen fully! How are you practicing boldness today? Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here : timetodefineyourlife@gmail.com Subscribe to the blog: definingyourl...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Welcome to the start of a new series focused on positive attributes the we as women can glean from one another.  After all, grownups can look up to and aspire to be like other women whether mentors, celebrities, or peers. Let's celebrate the areas in which the women we know glow, then glean some good from them for our own lives.  In this episode, join Marsharell...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! In the second Rapid Fire Feature of the year, Marsharelle chats with Nicole Kenney, founder of the digital relationship-building service and community Hey Auntie! Join them for a conversation on the power of community, the beauty of the black Auntie, and finding purpose in obedience. Click here to learn more about the Hey Auntie! community . Join our village on Insta...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! Have you ever experienced or come close to burnout? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat about her current borderline burnout experience and some of the things she's doing to avoid it. Articles referenced: Your Body Knows You're Burned Out Employers Need to Focus on Workplace Burnout: Here's Why Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me...

Send us Fan Mail Do you need a little encouragement getting off of the "hamster wheel" in your life? Join Marsharelle for a quick pep talk today as she chats about some simple steps to get the ball rolling in a direction that aligns with where we need to be.  You can do it! Take the steps to walk in your purpose and experience the life you were meant to lead. This is just the beginning,...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Everyone! On this episode of the pod, Marsharelle welcomes her mother, Bethel Bates as her first Rapid Fire Feature guest of the season! The two chat about The Garden of Eden Productions; a community-theatre organization founded by Bethel, as well as the beauty of legacy and the power of never giving up! Join our village on Instagram ! Follow me on TikTok Send me a note here :...