Command Your Presence

You know you're a creative when dinner turns into a lighting study, and a casual walk becomes a mental photo shoot. In this episode of Command Your Presence, Rory—a photographer who literally couldn't turn off his creative brain even while landscaping for five years—joins us for a conversation about owning your presence, chasing your passion, and learning how to start before you're ready (even if...

Have you ever been one breath away from falling apart? At 19, I was about to perform in the most important show of my life—agents in the crowd, lights blazing, adrenaline pumping. Everything we had trained for came down to this final night. But just before the curtain call, something unexpected hit me: I couldn't breathe. Not metaphorically—literally. In this raw and personal episode, I take you b...

Did you know? According to a study by UCLA, only 7% of communication is based on the actual words we say. 38% is vocal tone , and the remaining 55% is body language. That means your voice alone carries over five times more weight than your words when it comes to how you're perceived. Let that sink in. If you've ever shared an idea in a meeting, on stage, or even in a casual conversation—only to fe...

"You don't go to Afghanistan for a vacation selfie." That's the bold energy Paris brings as a tour guide leading groups through some of the world's most high-risk destinations — think Syria, Iraq, Madagascar, and beyond.   As our second ever guest on the show, Paris shares what it really takes to guide people through intense, unpredictable, and often misunderstood regions. From managing grown adul...

Picture this: it's five minutes before curtain at a major international festival. You're the only person on stage for a 40-minute solo show. And you're on the bathroom floor, projectile vomiting. In this raw and unforgettable episode, I share the true story of performing my one-woman show Safety Banana under extreme physical stress and what it taught me about presence, preparation, and pushing thr...

Have you ever walked into a room and felt invisible? Or maybe you've seen someone instantly command attention and thought, "How do they do that?" Here's the truth: commanding presence isn't something you're just born with. It's something you can learn, refine, and show up with—every single day. In this episode, we're breaking down what it really means to command presence and why it's about so much...

Emily is one of those people who leads quietly but powerfully. She doesn't need the spotlight, but when she speaks, people listen. Over the last eight years, she's gone from working in financial planning to becoming the heart of a 10,000-strong community of advisors. In this episode, she shares how she found her voice, not by becoming an expert, but by learning how to connect, listen, and truly se...

🎙️ Studies show that 77% of people experience anxiety about public speaking. For many professionals, that fear doesn't just show up on stage, but in meetings, interviews, and everyday conversations. Welcome back to Command Your Presence! In this powerful solo episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on my personal journey from dancer to solo performer to confidence coach and sharing the real, raw mom...

Have you ever walked away from a conversation, a presentation, or even a simple introduction wishing you had spoken with more confidence? Welcome to the very first episode of Command Your Presence! 🎙️ Do you ever feel like you're too scripted, or not scripted enough, when you speak? Maybe you worry about forgetting your words or not making the impact you intended? You're not alone. Presence isn't...

Your presence can make or break your message. It's time to own the room before you even say a word. Hey there, I'm Jacinda Patty, and welcome to the trailer episode of Command Your Presence! I'm so excited you're here. This podcast is all about helping you speak with confidence, communicate with clarity, and show up with impact. In each episode, I'll be sharing actionable strategies, expert insigh...