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In this week's episode: Ex drama continued (3:47) When will men learn they can no longer threaten women with their absence? She wants more than a hook-up (27:52) A listener asks why men ignore certain boundaries, like when women say they aren't looking for a casual relationship. The ridiculous discourse around "mixed weight" couples (33:54)   Where have all the Real Women gone? (...

Things we learn in this episode: Patrick Swayze was the first internet boyfriend. When men go low, Sarah goes lower. Calling yourself a "girl's girl" doesn't absolve you of shitty behavior. Straight men hate drama except when it benefits them Follow Up - Fuck That Guy It's been almost two weeks since I told my Ex I missed him and still haven't received a response. I'm...

Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length podcast. To listen to the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/it-was-week-of-106552875 In This Episode: Be a Clown (00:27) It's been an agonizing three days since I confessed to my Ex that I miss him. The lack of response is making me question my decision and feel utterly foolish. Writer Thinks Her Opinion Of Women's Bodies...

Could you date someone who cheated on a previous partner? (01:42) We revisit an exchange between Carrie and Big about his admission of infidelity in his first marriage. The scene spawned a conversation about whether we'd ask a new mate if they'd been unfaithful and how we'd handle it if they said yes. Could you date a cheater? Vote in our poll! How do you stop romanticising a failed re...

This episode would be perfect for #messytok. #dating #datingadvice #datinghumor To listen to our latest Sex & The City Rewind Recap Episode and get access to our bonus content, subscribe to our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Maybe Don't Try To Date When You're Married (03:42) I posted the full letter here.  It's...a lot. Feel free to leave your thoughts. Ask D...

Listener Letter - This Is What Decentering Men Looks Like (05:41) So, I've been seeing this girl for 2 months. We're hitting it off really well. I'm 30+ and this is the first time in a long long time I think we could have a future together. The problem is I'm only seeing her like once every 3-4 weeks. We've seen each other 3 times by now and last time also had s*x. Everything i...

Please rate us five stars on Spotify!⁠ Listen to our exclusive bonus episodes on Patreon ⁠https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach⁠ Listener Question - Who Pays For The Uber? (01:36) Am I the asshole for thinking she was actually using this man for his money? https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMMvBSbRR/ Should a man give you a ride or pay for your Uber when you spent the night with him? Should he walk you home(...

Please rate us five stars on Spotify! Listen to our exclusive bonus episodes on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Genuine Response or Polite Blow-Off? - Listener Submitted Letter (06:55) I asked a woman out the other day and asked if maybe she wanted to go to dinner. She texted me back the following day and said she had dental surgery this week and she may not be able to eat. We can t...

To listen to our bonus episodes, become a Patreon subscriber here. Receive 1-3 bonus episodes per month and catch our Sex & The City Rewind Recap series. ⁠ https://www.patreon.com/posts/mr-hyde-single-103027081 ⁠ She Was Ready (00:22) If you follow me on social media, you probably know that our third Golden Girl, Luca, crossed the Rainbow Bridge on Monday. We talked about how going through thi...

Enjoy a teaser of this week's podcast episode. To listen to the full episode, become a Patreon subscriber here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/mr-hyde-single-103027081 Jekyll and Hyde (01:00) Tiktok is full of performative white men who pander to women. We talk about one man in particular who expertly plays the Good Guy until a woman questions him. That's when Mr. Hyde appears. "You Ne...

You're not being overly sensitive. He's a dick. (01:15) A woman questions if she's overreacting to her boyfriend's lack of appreciation for a celebration party she had organized for him. He further exacerbated the situation by posting on Instagram, not about her, but about a female friend. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus episodes ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~...

We kick things off with a discussion about ADHD medicine shortage and how it's affecting us. Hint: Not well. The rest of the episode is dedicated to the viral Tiktok trend asking people to share Carrie Bradshaw's most toxic moments. GET EXCLUSIVE MEMBERS-ONLY CONTENT ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach⁠ CONNECT WITH USPodcast Instagram ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/dateologypod Christan’s I...

Be sure to listen until the end. We cover a story about a psychopath and how they can mask FOR YEARS without showing signs they're dangerous. QUESTIONS ANSWERED IN THE EPISODE Why do women find Jack Black attractive, and why does the answer bother so many men? What's the proper response when someone asks, "What's your nationality/ethnicity/race? Is it possible to live with someone...

Questions answered in this episode *Should lying about your age on dating apps be illegal? *Why is everyone turning on Jennifer Lopez, and is Ben Affleck next? *How do you know if they see you as their end-game relationship or are stringing you along. Connect With Us Podcast Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm https://instagram.com/thechris...

Brace yourselves! Men's dating coach Alpha Dom made quite the splash this week on social media with his problematic advice. Sarah and I deconstructed his videos and determined he's sometimes right. HEAR US OUT BEFORE YOU JUDGE! Dom does have an idea of how women think and what they want. The problem is he often veers off course because his understanding of women is limited. We can't wait to hear y...

IN THIS EPISODE: A man lectures women on how they should dress at the gym and immediately regrets it. If you've spent time on social media this week, you've probably seen clips of Ryan Gosling singing "I'm Just Ken" at The Oscars. We discuss the performance, John Mullaney's infidelity, and why Cillian Murphy's win made me cry. A woman has a brilliant idea of wearing statement t-shirts on first dat...

I was quoted in an article about the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy groups. The article interviews women who have been stalked or harassed after posting to the groups. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE ON OUR PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/posts/99928272 A woman wants to know if she should tell her man's mistress he's not as rich as he'd led her to believe. The critical reason you need to ditch...

An author thinks her writer husband is trolling her online and leaving negative reviews on her latest book. After some Googling, Sarah and I suspect that the woman who wrote the letter about her husband harassing her online and the columnist providing advice are the same person. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE BONUS EPISODES https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in the episode: Green...

It was only a matter of time. Are We Dating The Same Girl groups are cropping up across Facebook. Women make these groups to ensure they're not dating a cheater or abuser. Men create them to whine about women who call them on their creepy behavior. JOIN OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE EPISODES AND BONUS CONTENT: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach In This Episode: A listener tells a story about being...

A man claimed men know when they've met a great woman, and they don't let her get away. LOL. K. We revisit the topic of publicly dissing your ex and how, if you make it your brand, it could interfere with your relationships. A beautiful woman catches her VERY mid-looking boyfriend cheating and he proceeds to gaslight her until she calls his mistress. A man is creeped out by his girlfriend's consta...

We reviewed a list of First Date Green Flags and debates, which are good signs and which praise people for doing the bare minimum. Are dating apps over? That's what some experts are saying. JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dateologypod SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submi...

Prepare to get ragey! A man wants his ex to be his new girlfriend's surrogate because he doesn't want her to ruin her hot body. JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in this episode: We talk about Greta Gerwig's Oscar snub. A woman wants advice about whether she should be a surrogate for her ex and his new girlfriend. An article in Buzzfeed spark...

Listen in as we talk about the pending lawsuit against Are We Dating The Same Guy Founders and why this whiny prick might actually win. Follow us on Patreon for more episodes https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in the episode: A TikTok creator provides four key questions to ask your dates to determine if your political views align. Buzzfeed compiled stories from people that proving that da...

A Tiktok creator is convinced a restaurant hired someone to pose as a single guy on a dating app to get her to show up at their venue and order food. Girl, what? Plus, we offer tips to help women avoid being stood up. LISTEN TO THE Fhttps://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/devious-ways-men-scam-single-womenULL EPISODE: ALSO IN THE EPISODE: A woman wonders if she’s being too sensitive or if the man sh...

Enjoy a teaser for this Wednesday's episode. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to talk about this publicly. This guy was the catalyst for my decision to cut back on discussing my personal life publicly. It’s also one of the areas I focused on narcissistic abuse when I sought my trauma recovery certification. This was a dark rabbit to go down, Nuggets. SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: Become a...