PinkTaxChat Podcast

How do we navigate heavy world events, demand institutional accountability, and show up for our communities without burning out? In our Season Finale of DEAFinitely Not The One, we dive deep into what it truly means to advocate for yourself and your people. From dissecting the importance of local elections (District Attorneys, Sheriffs, and School Boards) to processing complex real-world news and...

Are we reading romance novels for enjoyment, or are we using them to escape reality? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, Ta'ja Nicole and Tori dive deep into the world of BookTok, dark romance, smut, self-help, and why reading has become our ultimate safe space. We’re unpacking what it really takes to find solace in books when real life gets overwhelming—and why diverse stories matter...

Are you tired of shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s definition of "professional"? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, we break down what it really means to navigate graduate school and corporate environments as Black and Latina Deaf women. From absurd grading penalties over blue nail polish to the heavy toll of code-switching, we’re asking the hard question: WHO actually ge...

From burning scalps from childhood relaxers to the endless pressure of maintaining a "neat" silk press for corporate spaces, Part 2 of our Hair Journey series gets raw about unlearning eurocentric beauty standards. Tori and Ta'ja Nicole unpack the hidden trauma of heat damage, the financial and physical strain of wigs and weaves, and how we’re finally healing our relationship with ou...

Being a Black woman or Latina with textured hair means navigating a constant time tax, product inflation, and cultural expectations. In Part 1 of our Hair Journey series, we’re having an unfiltered conversation about wash-day fatigue, the pressure to hide our hair in a "slicked-back bun," and why natural hair care products feel like a second job. We also dive into how systemic pressure, economic r...

Are you 30-something, working hard, and wondering why rent requires 3x your salary while gas and groceries take the rest? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, we are unmasking the myth of "chasing the bag," unpacking financial trauma from childhood ("we got McDonald's at home"), and discussing what it actually means to build SOFT WEALTH without burning out at 35. If you’re feeling exhausted...

In a world that often feels cold and heavy, how much power does a simple smile or compliment actually hold? On this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, Tori (@bictoriaa) and Ta'ja Nicole (@beelovedcherie_) dive deep into acts of kindness, self-compassion, and growing through life’s hardest trials in your 30s. From learning to extend grace to your past self to a powerful, true story about how a...

Are you struggling with being single in your 30s or feeling awkward doing things alone? In this episode of Deafinitely Not The One, we dive deep into "Solo Dolo Season"—navigating solitude, unlearning codependency, and learning how to protect your peace. We discuss:• The awkwardness of public alone time (and why nobody is actually looking at you)• The societal pressure on single women in...

Are you staying with a therapist who no longer serves your growth just to avoid an awkward conversation? In this episode of Deafinitely Not The One, we are diving deep into the realities of mental health support, boundary setting, and why breaking up with your therapist might be the best decision you make for your personal development. We break down the rise of ghosting culture in millennials, the...

Are you holding onto a version of yourself that no longer serves where you're going? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, Tori and Taja dive deep into what it really looks like to shed your old self, let go of 20s mindsets, and step into unshakeable boundaries in your 30s. We’re getting honest about the subtle ways we used to people-please, how self-abandonment sneaks into relationships...

Are you taking a break from dating or rethinking who gets access to your body and energy? In this episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, we dive deep into the real difference between celibacy and abstinence—and why secular, non-religious singles are suddenly embracing abstinence in modern dating. From navigating "skin hunger" (touch deprivation) as a single adult to avoiding the Friends Wit...

Are you feeling stuck, paralyzed by options, or wondering if it's too late to completely reinvent yourself? In this episode of Deafinitely Not The One Podcast, we are opening up about our 1-year hiatus, returning to grad school in our 30s, navigating ADHD and academic paralysis, and why failing in the past doesn't mean your story is over. From pursuing a Master’s in Social Work & Human...

Are you outgrowing your friends? Personal growth often feels like grief, and navigating the transition of changing social circles in your 20s and 30s can be incredibly isolating. Welcome back to DEAFinitely Not The One with Tori and Taja. In Episode 2, we dive deep into the raw, uncomfortable side of personal evolution: the grief of outgrowing your old self. As we transition through our careers, a...

We had some mic issues this week, but the gems in this episode were too good to lose. Audio is pristine for Episode 2—thanks for growing with us! --- Life is rarely a straight line, and taking a break doesn't mean you've stopped growing. Welcome to the premiere episode of DEAFinitely Not The One, hosted by Tori and Taja. After a one-year hiatus, we are back to challenge the status quo, dro...

Growth isn't linear—it’s an evolution. In this trailer, we pull back the curtain on the intersection of professional ambition and personal authenticity. We are exploring how to build a career on your own terms, the importance of embracing the messy process of transformation, and why setting boundaries is the most underrated tool for success. Whether you are navigating a career shift or trying...

🎙️ Episode Title: "Ring First, Sheets Later? Bodies, Beliefs, and Boundaries" Is waiting until marriage the key to a stronger relationship, or is it an outdated expectation? In this episode, we dive into the deep (and sometimes messy) conversation about sex, commitment, and personal values. From religious beliefs to modern dating culture, we explore why some people choose to wait, why ot...

Adulthood isn’t just brunch and vibes—it’s burnout, boycotts, and battling for equity. We’re unpacking DEI, nostalgia, and why current events hit harder in your 30s.#MillennialMood #DEIRealTalk #TargetBoycott #NostalgiaVsNow #EquityMatters #AdultingUnfiltered #90sBabiesGrownUp

When love leaves, it can feel like the world crumbles. In this episode, we tackle an audience question that cuts deep: How do you cope with abandoned attachment after a 20-year relationship ends in divorce? We unpack the fear of abandonment, how attachment styles shape our healing, and ways to rebuild trust and self-worth. Perfect for anyone navigating divorce, heartbreak, or seeking emotional clo...

As the year winds down, it’s time to reflect 🪞 and release 🕊️. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the habits, relationships, and mindsets that no longer serve us 🚪❌. What baggage are you finally ready to drop? 🎒💔 What lessons are you taking into 2025? 🧠🌟 Get ready for a conversation filled with laughs 😂, truth bombs 💣, and powerful takeaways 💡. Let’s step into the new year lighter,...

Heartbreak is rarely fair—one person always feels it more. In this episode, we explore why love breaks unevenly, how to heal, and when to walk away, even when it’s hard. 💔✨ #HeartbreakHealing #LoveAndLoss #WalkAwayStrong

In Truth, Trials & Turning Points , we explore the winding roads of life, where the path isn’t always clear, and detours are a part of the journey. Every episode dives into the reality that life rarely follows a straight line. From unexpected twists to hitting walls that make us question everything, we’re here to remind you that uncertainty is part of the process—and that it's okay not to have...

Love vs. Lust – The Showdown You’ve Been Waiting For! Is it real love or just that thrill? In this episode, Taja and Tori are breaking down the Love vs. Lust debate. 🤔🔥 Join us to hear the signs, the red flags, and the gut checks we all need! Tune in and see if you’re in it for love, lust, or somewhere in between. Watch now and subscribe! 💬✨ #LoveVsLust #PinkTaxChat #RealTalk #YouTubePodcast

The ‘IT’ Factor – When Something’s Off, But You Can’t Name It Ever had that weird feeling that something’s wrong but can’t figure out what? Taja and Tori are calling it “IT” and diving into this confusing, funny, and raw convo. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a little therapy to get through those days when everything feels off. 🎃👀 Click to watch now and subscribe! 💬✨ #TheITFeeling #PinkTaxC...

Taja and Tori are serving up the truth about gaslighting, and they're not holding back. Whether you've been gaslit in your relationships, at work, or even with family, this episode will have you nodding along, laughing, and maybe feeling a little called out. It's time to spot the signs and stop the manipulation. Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk! 💣✨ #GaslitAndGone #PinkTaxChat #YouTub...

Taja and Tori are exposing the ugly truth about breadcrumbing—aka gaslighting’s little sibling. TTaja and Tori are taking off the rose-colored glasses and exposing the ugly truth about breadcrumbing—aka gaslighting’s subtle sibling. 💥 From the minds of two BIPOC women in their 30s, they dive into what it feels like to be bread-crumbed or gaslit in relationships, friendships, work, and even family...