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In this powerful solo episode of the Northman Coaching Podcast , Gary Hults dives deep into the core value of altruism through the lens of men’s work , self-help , personal development , masculine leadership , and emotional growth . Drawing from his own experiences with divorce recovery , fatherhood , loneliness , and rebuilding his identity after separation, Gary explores the difficult question:...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Affection isn’t weakness. It’s leadership. In this episode of the Northman Coaching Podcast , we break down the core value of Affection —and why it’s one of the most overlooked pillars in a man’s personal growth, emotional intelligence, and leadership. Most men were raised to suppress emotion, avoid vulnerability, and “stay hard.” But real strength isn’t found in emotional shutdown—it’s built thro...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

Today’s devotional brought together two powerful truths: endurance through trials and renewal through surrender. One devotion reminded us that hardship is not the end of the story—it is often where character is forged. The other emphasized that true peace comes when we stop trying to control everything and begin trusting God with what we cannot carry alone. Together, these messages speak directly...

The conversation explores the value of accountability and its impact on relationships, personal growth, and self-improvement. It emphasizes the importance of accepting accountability, learning from experiences, and fostering a sense of abundance. The discussion also delves into the role of accountability in building confidence and creating positive habits. Takeaways Accountability is essential for...

The conversation explores the journey of becoming a man that others lean on, emphasizing the importance of consistency, trust-building, and strength with compassion. It delves into the distinction between mentoring and coaching, highlighting the role of each in personal development and support. The conversation delves into the empowerment of men to find answers within themselves, the importance of...

The conversation delves into the concept of acceptance and its impact on abundance, peace, and growth. It explores the importance of accepting reality, taking responsibility, and the consequences of refusing to accept reality. The dialogue emphasizes the transformative power of acceptance and its role in personal growth and accountability. Takeaways Acceptance leads to abundance Accepting reality...

🔥 SHOW NOTES (With Clickable Links) Episode Theme: What Are You Building Now? Clarity, Attention & the Next Evolution of You In this episode we cover: Why intention determines your outcomes How clarity becomes the foundation for the year ahead Why attention is the currency that shapes your life How to define the next evolution of yourself The 7-Day Builder Challenge Mentioned in this episode:...

🔥 What Are You Leaving Behind? In this first solo episode, Gary gets real about the weight men carry, the stories we cling to, and the invisible burdens that keep us from stepping into the life we’re meant to lead. Letting go isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. It’s the courage to lay down what no longer serves you so you can finally pick up what matters. Tonight we talk about pruning old habits, relea...

📘 SHOW NOTES — “Honoring the Year Behind You” In this episode of Living by Oak Values, Gary and Rob dive into how to honor the year behind you with honesty, courage, and reflection. Instead of labeling the year as “good” or “bad,” they explore how to look at your wins, wounds, and lessons as a roadmap for a stronger future. If you want to enter the next season with clarity and intention, this epi...

🎙️ Show Notes (Apple Podcasts — Short + SEO Ready) In this episode of Living by Oak Values, Gary and Rob sit down with special guest Matthew Hults to explore what it truly means to become whole, not perfect. Matthew shares his journey through fatherhood, addiction, business failure, losing himself, and rebuilding his life from the ground up. This is a raw, honest conversation about masculinity, he...

Episode Title: Peace Over Proving: Does Real Peace Come From Within or From the World Around You? What We Cover: Why men chase external peace through validation How internal peace is built through silence, discipline, and truth The hidden ways proving shows up in relationships Calm vs. avoidance — knowing the difference How to find cracks in your inner foundation Why proving is often a mask for fe...

Episode Title: Live Like You Mean It: The Test Hosts: Robert Burton & Gary Hults Podcast: Living by Oak Values Presented by: Northman Coaching Description: In this raw and revealing episode, the tables turn. Rob puts Gary in the hot seat — testing his growth, pressing into his mindset, and searching for any cracks in the foundation. What happens when the teacher becomes the student? This isn’t...

When trust gets broken, most men want a quick fix. This conversation slows it down and builds it right. Gary, Rob, and guest Eric Wood unpack what it actually takes to rebuild: truth before tactics, humble ownership over blame, and daily consistency that proves change—without theatrics. In this episode: The first non-negotiable after a breach: truth stands before forgiveness Why apologies don’t la...

In this episode of Living by Oak Values, Robert, Gary, and special guest Garrett Prettyman unpack one of the toughest moments a man can face — when the woman he loves asks for space. Together, they explore how to honor her autonomy without slipping into fear, control, or emotional collapse. The conversation digs into what it truly means to “keep your frame”: staying grounded in purpose, calm in pr...

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In this episode, Robert and Gary unpack what it really means to lead without leaning. They explore how true leadership in a relationship isn’t about control or dependence—it’s about standing rooted in your own sovereignty. When a man leads from fullness instead of fear, he stops trying to prove himself and starts creating safety and direction through presence. This conversation dives into the diff...